Suppose you're dating a man and he has children. How many kids are too many? How many baby mamas are too many? Are ages a factor? For me, it depends on how much money you make. You need to make $40,000 a year per child. Therefore, if you have two kids, you need to make at least $80,000 a year and so on. That is the bare minimum. No more than two baby mamas. Ages are 3 to 10. I don't deal with newborns or teenagers.

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more than 1
i would say more than 1
I have 2 Kids and don't want to deal w/a man w/any.....I want him to be free and be able travel and Cater to me.....I want his Time any Money....been there done that and don't like to have to deal w/the Mother's and their Sneaky ways and Drama....

The Power of thought is Powerful.....Because I actually attract men w/out kids...and brush off the 1 that do.....
I can do 1, maaaaaaaybe be 2 (if they are twins) lol
more than 1
im dealing w/ 5. 2 out of 5 may not be his, my reaction= priceless
BINGO!!!! I think you hit the nail on the head with this one, it ain't about them damn kids, its about them b******!!! lol. I am so happy I broke up with my ex, he had one child at the time, so one b****. We got in contact years later and he of course wants to get back with me. I jokingly asked how many kids he got now, he said 4 with 3 differnent women. No ma'am, I never picked up anymore calls from him, he ain't gonna try to make me part of his harem.
But to answer the question, I don't like a dude that has more than 2 kids and I would prefer it to be with the same woman, but even that annoys me. AND if he has more than 1 babymom, she has gotta be in another country or across country or dead(of natural causes of course)...but I just can not take bm/bd s***, it is getting too redundant and the older I get the harder it seems to get away from, SCARY....
C*u*t*e* said:
The number of kids doesn't mean as much to me as the number of baby mommas. Depending on the guy no more than 2 baby mommas and that's with only 2 kids.
1 kid is 1 too many for me. Couldnt do it!
I dated men with kids in the past I am over it...I don't have any and to as much as I love kids I don't want to deal...I want kids of my own and call me selfish but I don't want my shirty being 3rd in line. The b****** can be a headache...but not all are who wants to wait & have to find out not me.
Ehh it depends on a lot with me. Normally I don't like dating men with kids, because what if you end up breaking up and then it affects the child...and you because you've become too attached. And then the issues with the kids' mother...Just a whole lot of headache...But I think I would depending on the circumstances surrounding it.
No newborns. No more than 2 kids or babymamas depending on his age.
No kids. There are plenty of men without them and those are the ones I find most attractive. Kids=Baggage some way or another and I'm not patient enough to deal with that.

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