Okay sooooo…

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Permalink Reply by Siren on June 25, 2008 at 4:02pm

Keep it neutral....I see DANGER SIGNS!!!!

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Permalink Reply by SexyCanI on June 25, 2008 at 4:04pm

well you and him both took vows to be faithful to your partners, if you and him feel like you both want to take it a step further i advice you to really think this through it is just not your feelings or his feelings to consider but your spouses also. maybe you need to cut out the alone time from what i gather from this it is only a matter of time before it goes further.

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Permalink Reply by babydoll on June 25, 2008 at 4:07pm

That's a difficult one... but I'm with Siren, the signs are there. You can ignore them if you'd like, but eventually....

IMO, just keep taking it slow and have a good time, and be ready to WALK AWAY when the time comes.

Good luck!

Wish I could follow my own damn advice (the walking away part....)

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Permalink Reply by Siren on June 25, 2008 at 4:10pm

This is the litmus test I use....would you be hurt if your man was doing what you are doing with this guy with another woman? If you would feel no type of way about it then no problem... if so then you have a decision to make.

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Permalink Reply by OUT OF CONTROL on June 25, 2008 at 4:12pm

Sounds like a much older man! I'd say mid 40's? I could be wrong. But most older men love to have younger beautiful women in their company most times w/o intimacy! At least longer than the younger ones.

Because he's married I'd have to say it is a mistake that has already happened, but you've known him for a while now. Older men I don't feel comfortable around because they give you worms, but if your enjoying yourself, especially on his boat and it's summertime, HAVE FUN! Invite your girls and go cruising! Use all the networking to your advantage if you can.

What do you want to happen? Would you like him to make a physical pass at you? If so, just go for it! Are you the hold up or is he?

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Permalink Reply by Noisy_Girl on June 25, 2008 at 4:14pm

I really don't think there is an obvious “don’t do it” answer here because sex is not a part of the equation and he's connecting you to his resources.

So, is it true men and women can't be friends?

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Permalink Reply by Noisy_Girl on June 25, 2008 at 4:15pm

@ Savannah, Chica how'd you know???? 10 years older. I was going to add that but decided to take it out.

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Permalink Reply by babydoll on June 25, 2008 at 4:15pm

We CAN be friends, but if one of the parties is not interested in a platonic relationship, then disaster strikes....

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Permalink Reply by OUT OF CONTROL on June 25, 2008 at 4:16pm

Normally not married ones, unless the wife knows about you!

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Permalink Reply by babydoll on June 25, 2008 at 4:17pm

Savannah's wise.... like Master Yoda, she is....

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Permalink Reply by Noisy_Girl on June 25, 2008 at 4:18pm

@ Siren My boyfriend has tons of female friends.

And, I personally go by the notion that it's all fair game when you are dating. We're not married so I'm not going to cheat myself by acting like it.

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Permalink Reply by OUT OF CONTROL on June 25, 2008 at 4:25pm

Shut up Babydoll! You tryna be funny?

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