He’s married and you’re in a relationship (you both know each other’s status).
You’ve known each other for about a year and he calls you for lunch sparingly. He often invites you to social networking events (you’re allowed to bring whoever), invites you to concerts, invites you to the country club to play golf, and he’s always willing to connect you to his social network.
The time you spend together is your time and no additional people are invited. The one thing you love boating, he loves as well.
You go on his boat. You converse and spend separate time alone. You both do work. You prepare lunch. You both take naps in separate resting areas on the boat. You both take turns steering/driving the boat. Besides the occasional, you’re beautiful comments…you sometimes catch him staring at you, but he never tries to touch you or even suggest anything of that nature.
So what do you do? Is this man a life long friend or a major mistake waiting to happen?
LMAO @ "Old men give you worms" You crazy! I totally agree with you on the not married, fair game notion. IMO both of you are already "cheating" emotionally on you SO's if you and he are to be honest with yourselves. From the sound of it, you two want each other and vibe on a mental level and the only thing thats stopping the physical is his wife. Of course I could be way off....
Hey guys, I'm fairly new here so please go easy on me! So this isn't really about smashing the homie, more like realising you CHOSE or "got chose" by someone you think is aaaaaight but finding out…Continue