Is a hug too much?

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Permalink Reply by Miss Sweet Jones on July 29, 2008 at 2:36am

Give him the "church hug" and keep it moving.

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Permalink Reply by FP on July 29, 2008 at 4:50am

do the "hey sweetie, how are you" without waiting for the real reply, a quick side hug, and if you get stuck in generic convo maybe let your eyes wander as you talk to him lol. i always like to seem distracted, friendly but like something else is on my mind. both you and he know he's been sweating you, so then you have ammo if he tries to hit you up after acting cool, another reason to point out to him why he's your x and that you are too mature for that shit. read his body language, but keep it cheerful like you are on top of the world. also be aware eyes may be watching so act accordingly to how you want to be perceived.

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Permalink Reply by MissUnderstood on July 29, 2008 at 10:34am

Thanks! Oh and trust, eyes will be watching.. Thats the thing. It was left looking like he left me when I really left him, and even though he sweats me, no one knows it.. So I dont want to see him and he plays that cool role and then I look like I'm sweating him. Church hug and playing it cool sounds like the way to go.. He may not even get that much. lol
i'm that franchise player said:

do the "hey sweetie, how are you" without waiting for the real reply, a quick side hug, and if you get stuck in generic convo maybe let your eyes wander as you talk to him lol. i always like to seem distracted, friendly but like something else is on my mind. both you and he know he's been sweating you, so then you have ammo if he tries to hit you up after acting cool, another reason to point out to him why he's your x and that you are too mature for that shit. read his body language, but keep it cheerful like you are on top of the world. also be aware eyes may be watching so act accordingly to how you want to be perceived.

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Permalink Reply by OUT OF CONTROL on July 29, 2008 at 11:34am

Just give him a cheek to cheek welcome and keep it movin!! Make sure you look fabulous too!! And maybe a Boytoy in tow!

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Permalink Reply by Mz TrouBle AKA Tiff-Tiff on July 29, 2008 at 11:49am

Yes Take his azz 2 church....LMAO... I like that one :-)

Miss Sweet Jones said:

Give him the "church hug" and keep it moving.

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Permalink Reply by sue on July 29, 2008 at 2:01pm

Girl!

1) Let him see you first and do NOT speak to him first at all! Let him set the tone in public (unfair, but true)

2) When he does speak, be very nonchalant and only say hi for like 2 minutes, then politley say: "Excuse me, I think I see a friend of mine, it was nice talking to you though" GIRL! HE will be blowing you up the entire weekend...trust! Tried and true!

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Permalink Reply by Cookie Pie on July 29, 2008 at 4:58pm

Give him the Obama fist and keep it moving , he doesn't deserve a hug from you !!! And even if nobody else knows that he sweats you all the time , I do !!!!! As many time as he texts you while we are sitting there trying to have our girl talks , please !!!! You still have feelings so you need to keep your distance ! He is gonna try to lure you in , just remember who you're dealing with chica , and call me to let me know what happens !!!! Big sis

MissUnderstood said:

Thanks! Oh and trust, eyes will be watching.. Thats the thing. It was left looking like he left me when I really left him, and even though he sweats me, no one knows it.. So I dont want to see him and he plays that cool role and then I look like I'm sweating him. Church hug and playing it cool sounds like the way to go.. He may not even get that much. lol
i'm that franchise player said:

do the "hey sweetie, how are you" without waiting for the real reply, a quick side hug, and if you get stuck in generic convo maybe let your eyes wander as you talk to him lol. i always like to seem distracted, friendly but like something else is on my mind. both you and he know he's been sweating you, so then you have ammo if he tries to hit you up after acting cool, another reason to point out to him why he's your x and that you are too mature for that shit. read his body language, but keep it cheerful like you are on top of the world. also be aware eyes may be watching so act accordingly to how you want to be perceived.

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Permalink Reply by MissUnderstood on July 29, 2008 at 6:01pm

I like this one... thanks for the advice.. Oh! And yal will know for sure what happens when it does...lol

sue said:

Girl!

1) Let him see you first and do NOT speak to him first at all! Let him set the tone in public (unfair, but true)

2) When he does speak, be very nonchalant and only say hi for like 2 minutes, then politley say: "Excuse me, I think I see a friend of mine, it was nice talking to you though" GIRL! HE will be blowing you up the entire weekend...trust! Tried and true!

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Permalink Reply by MissUnderstood on July 29, 2008 at 6:18pm

Hey cookie!! Yes I know how you feel about him girl.. Damn, Im sure I will make you proud.. Now you know you will be the first to know how everything goes... I'm just trying to focus on my main reason for being there... I'm focused.

Cookie Pie said:

Give him the Obama fist and keep it moving , he doesn't deserve a hug from you !!! And even if nobody else knows that he sweats you all the time , I do !!!!! As many time as he texts you while we are sitting there trying to have our girl talks , please !!!! You still have feelings so you need to keep your distance ! He is gonna try to lure you in , just remember who you're dealing with chica , and call me to let me know what happens !!!! Big sis

MissUnderstood said:

Thanks! Oh and trust, eyes will be watching.. Thats the thing. It was left looking like he left me when I really left him, and even though he sweats me, no one knows it.. So I dont want to see him and he plays that cool role and then I look like I'm sweating him. Church hug and playing it cool sounds like the way to go.. He may not even get that much. lol
i'm that franchise player said:

do the "hey sweetie, how are you" without waiting for the real reply, a quick side hug, and if you get stuck in generic convo maybe let your eyes wander as you talk to him lol. i always like to seem distracted, friendly but like something else is on my mind. both you and he know he's been sweating you, so then you have ammo if he tries to hit you up after acting cool, another reason to point out to him why he's your x and that you are too mature for that shit. read his body language, but keep it cheerful like you are on top of the world. also be aware eyes may be watching so act accordingly to how you want to be perceived.

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Permalink Reply by Cookie Pie on July 29, 2008 at 9:38pm

Do great !!!! I am cheering for you !!!!

MissUnderstood said:

Hey cookie!! Yes I know how you feel about him girl.. Damn, Im sure I will make you proud.. Now you know you will be the first to know how everything goes... I'm just trying to focus on my main reason for being there... I'm focused.
Cookie Pie said:

Give him the Obama fist and keep it moving , he doesn't deserve a hug from you !!! And even if nobody else knows that he sweats you all the time , I do !!!!! As many time as he texts you while we are sitting there trying to have our girl talks , please !!!! You still have feelings so you need to keep your distance ! He is gonna try to lure you in , just remember who you're dealing with chica , and call me to let me know what happens !!!! Big sis

MissUnderstood said:

Thanks! Oh and trust, eyes will be watching.. Thats the thing. It was left looking like he left me when I really left him, and even though he sweats me, no one knows it.. So I dont want to see him and he plays that cool role and then I look like I'm sweating him. Church hug and playing it cool sounds like the way to go.. He may not even get that much. lol
i'm that franchise player said:

do the "hey sweetie, how are you" without waiting for the real reply, a quick side hug, and if you get stuck in generic convo maybe let your eyes wander as you talk to him lol. i always like to seem distracted, friendly but like something else is on my mind. both you and he know he's been sweating you, so then you have ammo if he tries to hit you up after acting cool, another reason to point out to him why he's your x and that you are too mature for that shit. read his body language, but keep it cheerful like you are on top of the world. also be aware eyes may be watching so act accordingly to how you want to be perceived.

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