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Permalink Reply by GetEmGirl on August 5, 2008 at 2:56pm

Interesting, I totally understand why you like black men. We all do! However, I have the same experience, but with white woman. I am black and when my black baller and I are out white women give me the mean ice grill. They dont try to hide it either. As if they want to be in my place. So, I understand.

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Permalink Reply by REM on August 5, 2008 at 3:01pm

wow ..all this time i didnt know you were white, but its a touchy subject.

Personally, im torn on the subject. On one side, Im all for finding love no matter what your race/background is. But on the other side its like damn, we have a shortage of black men as it is already and there he goes with a white girl..why? and its seems the higher in class/economic standing a black man goes , he dates a white women. Yes it could be because there are not alot black women who have reached that financial stability to be in the same circle he is in , but sometimes they even go for broke white women as if it to solify themselves as "making it". IE - Tiger wood, although he doesnt class himself as being black ( whatever) , he married a white nanny..which i found it be an interesting subject because he would never ( i believe) date a black chick that was dating a nanny. And also white girls have it sometimes alot easier when dating a baller than blk females do.
If you guys throw yourself at these guys, or find yourself in the same party, trying to get into vip whatever the case is, trying to marry wealthy ,there is nothing wrong with that. With a black female , we are placed in that category of being a jump off/whore/groupie..

touchy subject like i said before, but what they did was def uncalled for

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Permalink Reply by AtlShawty on August 5, 2008 at 3:02pm

It's not a "black" woman thing...its a WOMAN thing...period. No matter what..if I woman sees a man that she is interested in jealousy may arise. Everyone is different, and some people are more vocal than others. The only difference between you and them is that you keep your thoughts to yourself, while they choose the verbalize them.

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Permalink Reply by Emerald on August 5, 2008 at 3:04pm

It's sad but yes we live in a world where EVERYONE has issues. I am sure that white women are jealous too even a women black, white, hispanic, etc that does not have a man and desperately wants one. Once race comes into play though you begin to generalize and that's never good. In general, when a person sees an interracial couple they tend think about their stance on the issue( you care or don't)-it's staring you in the face. Some people overtly react based on their personal position, others don't.

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Permalink Reply by rainonme on August 5, 2008 at 3:10pm

Yeh I'm white and I normally don't get to party in DC much, I work in dc more than anything and I finally showed my face in Love last friday with a ball player and b****** went crazy. I guess they didn't think he would have me on his arm of all people. Some of the white girls looked at me but the black women were acting lke they were going to pour their drinks on me and I was not understanding why that was acceptable behavior. I would love to see the roles reverse to see how that would go down.

I guess I wil have to deal with the pressure and taunting because I will keep coming on the scene with my baller/s. I'm letting my hair down and having fun from now on. No MORE HIDING behind the bar.

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Permalink Reply by Noisy_Girl...2 on August 5, 2008 at 3:16pm

I had no idea you are white. Anyway, realize that everybody’s chasing the dream and many will not succeed. So in return, if you look and seem like you’re on the path to success, then you will most definitely have haters. That's just life. So many people are stuck. Next time it happens, grab your man and move away. Trust it's not all black women. Did the women know him personally? Moreover, is he dating one of them, because no one just comes out and performs like that without being emotionally involved? Check your man. Tell him don’t ever put you in harms way again. Suggest him taking you to a baseball game or something…just joking (don’t get offended. I like baseball…LMAO)

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Permalink Reply by AtlShawty on August 5, 2008 at 3:16pm

I feel you. You also have to consider the type of women you were around. Again...its not a black or white thing...a b**** that does not have s*** going for herself is going to hate when she see's someone with a man on status because she wishes he was with her. Your going to experience "hate" on many different levels from all types of women as long as your with a "baller".

rainonme said:

Yeh I'm white and I normally don't get to party in DC much, I work in dc more than anything and I finally showed my face in Love last friday with a ball player and b****** went crazy. I guess they didn't think he would have me on his arm of all people. Some of the white girls looked at me but the black women were acting lke they were going to pour their drinks on me and I was not understanding why that was acceptable behavior. I would love to see the roles reverse to see how that would go down.

I guess I wil have to deal with the pressure and taunting because I will keep coming on the scene with my baller/s. I'm letting my hair down and having fun from now on. No MORE HIDING behind the bar.

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Permalink Reply by foxy on August 5, 2008 at 3:17pm

I was with one of the Wizards that night. I saw a few white girls, but none came with a Wizard. I think you are lying.

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Permalink Reply by Noisy_Girl...2 on August 5, 2008 at 3:17pm

@ Goldfish... ROTFLMAO!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by Sierra on August 5, 2008 at 3:20pm

I can relate. I'm black and white and have heard some nasty things when I've been out.
I have a thing for dark skin men and usually I hear about the stereotype of dark skinned brothers and the light skin girls with long hair.. why you stealing our men?... you a ho/b****/slut/..asking him why he with me and not them...

blah blah blah

I just brush it off cuz its not even worth getting upset about it.
Just walk away unless they up in your face and you have to throw down lol

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Permalink Reply by foxy on August 5, 2008 at 3:27pm

She said she was at Love with a Wizard. I want to know which one. The ones that were there was Caron and Andray.

Goldfish said:

I don't think she's dating a wizard. I think in a earlier post she said, he's out of state..
foxy said:

I was with one of the Wizards that night. I saw a few white girls, but none came with a Wizard. I think you are lying.

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Permalink Reply by Holly-Would on August 5, 2008 at 3:27pm

Well now, this goes back to earlier Baller Alert days, when the question was posed "why do black women feel entittled to all the black men" in a blog.

But in order for you not to perpetuate the situation you should ask why are women jealous to begin with...

You said yourself, there are things you think but would never say, those black women from Love were just Trill.... To Real....

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