I need your help Ladies! I've tried asking my guy friends but they can't seem to think long enough to give a detailed answer... and most porns aren't what sex is really like.. So I ask you how do you like to ride on top your man?

Personally I found I only do well with satin sheets so my knees can glide back and forth while I straddle him. I can work my hips and all I've taken belly dancing to assisst with that (LOL). Also, I place my hand on his chest for some support and/or the wall/headboard... but I dunno I think I can do better!

Am I missing something? Any suggestions? D*ck size is a factor I realize cuz obviously you can't move the same way with a large dude vs. an average one

THX! ;^)

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LMAO, LETS MAKE LOVE NOT WAR HAHAHAHA!!!

Sheli said:
I had to look this thread up because I can't do any of this shit; folks over there cyber fighting so I couldn't ask...Reading, taking notes, and stretching (got Jeezy: Thug Motivation playing in the background)....I'll have it worked out by the end of summer. lol

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See the sofa's not gonna work, it's a suede-ish fabric with a beige/light tan color that ninja don't even like me to sit and drink my fruit punch on that sofa, i should sit on it butt neiked for the hell of it. I'm gonna get it right, I failed once (embarrassing), but I will not be beat twice.

@Cougar Spice -- It's going down in the other posts, you gotta be strapped. I wasn't ready for the battle so I ain't even step on the field.

L0vie D0vie said:
It's not that hard! You just gotta find your own rhythm! l0l!

The sofa is the best place for beginners...

Sheli said:
I had to look this thread up because I can't do any of this shit; folks over there cyber fighting so I couldn't ask...Reading, taking notes, and stretching (got Jeezy: Thug Motivation playing in the background)....I'll have it worked out by the end of summer. lol

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Click on page 2 in this thread and Cassandra LAID IT OUT. IT WORKS!!!!

Sheli said:
See the sofa's not gonna work, it's a suede-ish fabric with a beige/light tan color that ninja don't even like me to sit and drink my fruit punch on that sofa, i should sit on it butt neiked for the hell of it. I'm gonna get it right, I failed once (embarrassing), but I will not be beat twice.

@Cougar Spice -- It's going down in the other posts, you gotta be strapped. I wasn't ready for the battle so I ain't even step on the field.

L0vie D0vie said:
It's not that hard! You just gotta find your own rhythm! l0l!

The sofa is the best place for beginners...

Sheli said:
I had to look this thread up because I can't do any of this shit; folks over there cyber fighting so I couldn't ask...Reading, taking notes, and stretching (got Jeezy: Thug Motivation playing in the background)....I'll have it worked out by the end of summer. lol

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So I came back for a refresher... Happy to say, I'm still at it and going strong! He ain't a fan of the reverse cowgirl though... Thanks for all the advice esp Cassandra!

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Am I the only one who gets a deadleg while ridin? :)

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The thing is two women might do the same exact movements and both get different results. It is because every woman's body is different. The length,tightness,shape and even curve of the vagina is different. I hate this position it always feels like my bladder is getting stabbed. Even some men don't really like this position. But reverse cowgirl is my sh*t ;)

Sierra said:
I feel you Cookie Pie! reg sheets I dunno what my prob is? thats why the satin sheets work for me LOL.. I can do the sofa no prob its when he's lying down thats the problem lays

Dang ya'll can't give no tips?? I understand ur style comes to you naturally but do you ride a bit then lay on him? then lean back up? do yu rub his thighs? lean back? swivel around? kiss him? make your booty clap?

Just lookin for ideas! Thxxx again!

Cookie Pie said:
That's my favorite position ! I got that sh!t down but it can't really be taught , it's a feeling and a rhythm !
The one thing I can suggest is while you're on top move your legs around like you are swimming and work your pussy muscles , squeeze and release while you're working that d!ck ! I hope this helps !

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The thing is two women might do the same exact movements and both get different results. It is because every woman's body is different. The length,tightness,shape and even curve of the vagina is different. I hate this position it always feels like my bladder is getting stabbed. Even some men don't really like this position. But reverse cowgirl is my sh*t ;)



I can rock the reverse cowgirl too, but I don't think my man is a fan of it. He is very vanilla when it comes to sex. It's a damn shame too..he has a huge dick but he doesn't know what to do with it. I think that's why he always wants me on top, but I feel like his dick is in my stomach.

May I ask another question (Cassandra and other sexperts PLEASE help a sista out!!!)?

*blushing*

*whispers*

What can I do to make my man last longer? He can go for longer than a few minutes (10-15 maybe 20?) but that is not enough for me...we are done before I get mine...I'm just sayin a girl has needs too. But I don't think he is open enough to try anything new...*le sigh*

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I actually received my daily passion file emails from from Dr. Laura Berman (http://www.drlauraberman.com/public/index.aspx) about this same topic.

But I also found this (some responses are pure comedy) but some good advice is also in here: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090910194509AAh5oFC

CartTart said:
The thing is two women might do the same exact movements and both get different results. It is because every woman's body is different. The length,tightness,shape and even curve of the vagina is different. I hate this position it always feels like my bladder is getting stabbed. Even some men don't really like this position. But reverse cowgirl is my sh*t ;)



I can rock the reverse cowgirl too, but I don't think my man is a fan of it. He is very vanilla when it comes to sex. It's a damn shame too..he has a huge dick but he doesn't know what to do with it. I think that's why he always wants me on top, but I feel like his dick is in my stomach.

May I ask another question (Cassandra and other sexperts PLEASE help a sista out!!!)?

*blushing*

*whispers*

What can I do to make my man last longer? He can go for longer than a few minutes (10-15 maybe 20?) but that is not enough for me...we are done before I get mine...I'm just sayin a girl has needs too. But I don't think he is open enough to try anything new...*le sigh*

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thanks for that website Spice

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