I need your help Ladies! I've tried asking my guy friends but they can't seem to think long enough to give a detailed answer... and most porns aren't what sex is really like.. So I ask you how do you like to ride on top your man?

Personally I found I only do well with satin sheets so my knees can glide back and forth while I straddle him. I can work my hips and all I've taken belly dancing to assisst with that (LOL). Also, I place my hand on his chest for some support and/or the wall/headboard... but I dunno I think I can do better!

Am I missing something? Any suggestions? D*ck size is a factor I realize cuz obviously you can't move the same way with a large dude vs. an average one

THX! ;^)

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I picture you being the type that’s probably tense and talking to yourself in your head while forgetting about being in the moment.

dick size is not an issue if you know where your g-spot is located. if not he's just banging you out. sex should be all about you finding your spot and ejaculating before him with four play in the beginning and cuddling in the end. forget the type of sheets and where you touch him while riding.

i found my g-spot while riding him backwards. try it.

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just get yours your body will do the rest....you know what feels good to you and it will most def feel good to him (don't hurt him) every man is diff, some like you to take it, some grab your ass and show you what they want. personally the couch one is my all time fav too, you can ride with knees on either side, then move to where your feet are flat on either side of his hips. and you can have more intimacy with him or lean back and let him hit that from an entirely diff angle. i love my number 1 forever for showing me so much to where i was comfortable..... plus you can mess with him by teasing him. ahhh the power of being in charge...the grab your ankles ride from reverse is a good one, but mostly for him because men are very visual, shit sometimes i want to watch too lol.....one guy i knew did not want me to ride at all because he had this weird thing about feeling like i was fucking him....it was pretty lame....(and i only will ride if i know he's going to ride this ass after i take what i want)

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There is a website sexinfo101.com. On the left hand side of the home page you'll see "sex positions". The position you are looking for is called cowgirl. If you click on the actual picture, it will give you written instructions as well as a 3-D animated video detailing what to do. That site is a great resourse if you want to spice up your sex life!

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gurl let go relax and ride the dick like you are riding a horse, make that niccas toes curl stop thinking so much, for different positions like mochagirl said research sex is very exciting go online, to adult stores they had a variety of karma sutra books that show you different positions, but relax and let your mind be free

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Thanks Ya'll So Helpful .. I can't wait to try 'em out. Hope I don't hurt nothing.

Noisy Girl - Yea I'm guilty of the thinkin too much (is my tummy protuding?, my legs smooth enuff?, this dude f my hair up?LOL).

Mochagirl - THX for the site I need the visual inspiration so that site helps

Jasmine - I tried that feet flat move and bouncing working it out but damn do my legs cramp up I need some gym exercises for that.

Sugar Dick - THX for the real info froma n*gga point of view but dang I wanna see too see how his face is reacting but I guess I'll settle for watching his toes curling LOL

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Thanks Princess! Such an easy solution but I be forgetting bout the pillow under the butt. Guess my ass needed a refresher course.

PrincessLola said:
Dang ya'll can't give no tips?? I understand ur style comes to you naturally but do you ride a bit then lay on him? then lean back up? do yu rub his thighs? lean back? swivel around? kiss him? make your booty clap?

Hi Sierra...Girl all of the above! Men really like reverse cowgirl too. They can look at/play with/smack/etc your ass while you ride them. I think I know what your problem might be when hes lying down. Is it that you dont have enough leverage? Put some pillows under him or buy The Liberator. That usually helps rookie riders.lol

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(click, click, click, click) <-- High heels clicking as I walk into this thread.

Ahem! Did someone say.. "How do i ride dick?" "OH I thought you would never ask."

I see a lot of you girls are doing your thing and have named a lot of the things I was thinking when I first read the question.

1st - When you get on top, you get on top and you don't take it all in at once. Tease him and ride the tip and slow intake the dick inch by inch at a time. He will be so anxious for you to sit all the way down on him.

2nd - Once you have taken all of the dick, ride back and forth slow. Ride it like you see the girls ride a simulation cow on TV. Do not rock back and forth you gotta poke ya butt out and roll your hips like you doing the snake.

3rd- switch it up and lay your chest on his chest and pop your ass up and down on just the tip of his dick and take in all of it maybe every other 5 pops. While your doing this you can kiss on his neck or kiss him if you prefer. You can also bounce your ass from side to side so his dick his your walls. To do this just rest on your right or left arm for support and just pop your left side and to do the other side just switch arms.

4th- after that get back up on that dick and grind it and work your hips in every way as if you are slow winding like a jamacan girl on his dick to change up the pace. Just make sure to work them hips back and forth and side to side.

5th- Now you get off your knees and place your feet on the bed as if you were standing up and squated all the way down on his dick. You can lean back on his thighs for support but this is where you fuck the shit out of him. You play with his balls while your bounce up and down on it and you can play with your titties or your clit. They love to see you play with it while you ride. Be sure to keep the pussy tight while bouncing up and down.

6th- Reverse on his ass. Turn around and do number 5 the same way accept for facing the opposite direction and you can also lean down and push it back on his dick as if it were doggy style.


Key things to remember - do stay in rhythm with him and don't fight against it. Also pay attention to his reactions to see what he likes the most.

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LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT!!!!!!

aaaaahhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!

Cassandra said:
(click, click, click, click) <-- High heels clicking as I walk into this thread.

Ahem! Did someone say.. "How do i ride dick?" "OH I thought you would never ask."

I see a lot of you girls are doing your thing and have named a lot of the things I was thinking when I first read the question.

1st - When you get on top, you get on top and you don't take it all in at once. Tease him and ride the tip and slow intake the dick inch by inch at a time. He will be so anxious for you to sit all the way down on him.

2nd - Once you have taken all of the dick, ride back and forth slow. Ride it like you see the girls ride a simulation cow on TV. Do not rock back and forth you gotta poke ya butt out and roll your hips like you doing the snake.

3rd- switch it up and lay your chest on his chest and pop your ass up and down on just the tip of his dick and take in all of it maybe every other 5 pops. While your doing this you can kiss on his neck or kiss him if you prefer. You can also bounce your ass from side to side so his dick his your walls. To do this just rest on your right or left arm for support and just pop your left side and to do the other side just switch arms.

4th- after that get back up on that dick and grind it and work your hips in every way as if you are slow winding like a jamacan girl on his dick to change up the pace. Just make sure to work them hips back and forth and side to side.

5th- Now you get off your knees and place your feet on the bed as if you were standing up and squated all the way down on his dick. You can lean back on his thighs for support but this is where you fuck the shit out of him. You play with his balls while your bounce up and down on it and you can play with your titties or your clit. They love to see you play with it while you ride. Be sure to keep the pussy tight while bouncing up and down.

6th- Reverse on his ass. Turn around and do number 5 the same way accept for facing the opposite direction and you can also lean down and push it back on his dick as if it were doggy style.


Key things to remember - do stay in rhythm with him and don't fight against it. Also pay attention to his reactions to see what he likes the most.

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Cassandra - I f-ing love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Wow. I have cut and paste that. Print that sh*t out! lmao!!!

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@ slim, dontcha already know that I've done that!
Lol

But umm..yeah, cassandra imma need you to be my "life coach"..lol..lemme know how much you'll charge.

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very detailed! u got us taking notes...lol
Cassandra said:
(click, click, click, click) <-- High heels clicking as I walk into this thread.

Ahem! Did someone say.. "How do i ride dick?" "OH I thought you would never ask."

I see a lot of you girls are doing your thing and have named a lot of the things I was thinking when I first read the question.

1st - When you get on top, you get on top and you don't take it all in at once. Tease him and ride the tip and slow intake the dick inch by inch at a time. He will be so anxious for you to sit all the way down on him.

2nd - Once you have taken all of the dick, ride back and forth slow. Ride it like you see the girls ride a simulation cow on TV. Do not rock back and forth you gotta poke ya butt out and roll your hips like you doing the snake.

3rd- switch it up and lay your chest on his chest and pop your ass up and down on just the tip of his dick and take in all of it maybe every other 5 pops. While your doing this you can kiss on his neck or kiss him if you prefer. You can also bounce your ass from side to side so his dick his your walls. To do this just rest on your right or left arm for support and just pop your left side and to do the other side just switch arms.

4th- after that get back up on that dick and grind it and work your hips in every way as if you are slow winding like a jamacan girl on his dick to change up the pace. Just make sure to work them hips back and forth and side to side.

5th- Now you get off your knees and place your feet on the bed as if you were standing up and squated all the way down on his dick. You can lean back on his thighs for support but this is where you fuck the shit out of him. You play with his balls while your bounce up and down on it and you can play with your titties or your clit. They love to see you play with it while you ride. Be sure to keep the pussy tight while bouncing up and down.

6th- Reverse on his ass. Turn around and do number 5 the same way accept for facing the opposite direction and you can also lean down and push it back on his dick as if it were doggy style.


Key things to remember - do stay in rhythm with him and don't fight against it. Also pay attention to his reactions to see what he likes the most.

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