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Permalink Reply by Sugar on August 22, 2008 at 12:03pm

I made a guy wait like 6 months and I think he appreciated it more when we did than when I did it sooner with others in past. I think it all depends on the guy. Some guys that is there main goal. So whenever I do it now it is on my terms. My homegirl waited a year and as soon as the baller hit it he never called her again. I guess it doesn't matter how long you make him wait. A real dude doesn't play games like that.

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Permalink Reply by JustMe on August 22, 2008 at 12:13pm

I agree with Sugar. A dog is a dog - day 1 or 1,000,001...

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Permalink Reply by Le Coquette on August 22, 2008 at 12:18pm

I do it when I feel the energy is right. I think a woman knows and I always do it for ME not for him because he can turn around and never call again. So if you do it for you its going to be a winning situation regardless.

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Permalink Reply by JustMe on August 22, 2008 at 12:27pm

Blogxilla has a similar topic today...

I have often wondered what was the big issue w/ having sex on the first night. I have been told by many females that they already know if they are going to sleep w/ a guy from the moment they meet him. So if that’s the case why withhold the coochie? Time after time again I have met girls who preached about not giving it up on the first date only to have her panties hanging from my ceiling fan and an ankle on each of her earlobes. Now I take nothing away from them at all guys do it all the time and are not questioned for it at all. But when a female give it up too fast she is labeled a Hoe or easy. Well let me be the first to tell you that that logic is absolutely false!! I know Tons of girls who made a guy wait months only to sleep w/ him, his best friend, his uncle, cousin, daddy, and his chick on the side!!!


Perfect example I have a friend who shall remain nameless. Now from what I can tell he never had much luck w/ girls. I lost contact w/ him for a while only to find out he’s involve w/ a girl who my whole crew ran through in our hay day… 1,2,3,4, 5, of my friend hit it and hit it again. Hell she even wanted a run at me but I didn’t want to be number 6, so I passed. I have standards. Now she decided to sleep w/ all of my friends at different times in the course of me knowing her. So when I found out she was w/ him i wanted to tell him of her past but when he spoke of her i could hear the love in every word he spoke as he told me about how she made him wait. So I never told him maybe she changed, they were together for years… they seemed happy and honestly she was good for him. I would feel so Uncomfortable in their house as she served me Chicken Wings,and beer during card games. Handed me the potato salad for cookouts, she was doing all type of wife like things.

I also know girls who gave it up on the first night and are still w/ that guy today Married actually. I would go into detail but i think she reads my blogs… lol But what I’m trying to say is that if you like someone and you want to bump uglies w/ them then go ahead and do it, you might just save yourself some time and frustration. Just make sure to strap UP… Seat Belts save lives!!! We don’t want you going out like Willie Lump Lump

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Permalink Reply by Holly-Would on August 22, 2008 at 12:38pm

I actually had someone withholding from giving me any...lol

it happens when it's supposed to, if all a man wants is sex 8 out of 10 you can figure taht out before you lay with him.

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