I was in the bed with my man, and told him about a girlfriend of mine that was cheating. We were drunk, and I was pillow talking. We have sobered up, and he told me he didn't want me around my friend, because she is a bad influence. Please help!

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I hate when guys do that shit!! All of their friends cheat. They wont drop a friend for that reason. Neither should we. Men can be so insecure so I make it a point to never ever tell them what my friend is up to. It can backfire on you for two reasons. Reason 1: They will tell you they don't like her and that you can't hang with her. Reason 2: If you tell your man your homegirl is a freak, he might wanna find out how much of a freak she really is... Men consider our friends to be bad influences because they put us on a pedestal.

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Next time the ONLY pillow talk should be about you two and talk dirty to him. Call your friend up and see how she's doing if you two were close, she deserves a call she might think she said or did something. Also (god forbid) is he's no longer in the picture, will she be a friend you can turn to?

They say women forget their girlfriends when they get a man, when he's gone they want those same friends back to party & socialize with.

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The only reason why he don't want you around her is because she might see him creeping.

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