Okay so, spring is here, I'm coming out of hibernation and am ready to kick it. How does a person bypass the line and not pay to get in? Is it a matter of getting the know the doorman or the person promotiong the party? If so, how do you go about doing that. I'm sure the promoters know that the only reason the women are in their face is so that they can say they "know the promoter" and get in the club free. And I'm sure the doormen know your angle too. Women walking up to the club in their best outfit with their best assets showing, batting their eyelashes. Does this work or is the doorman really just giving them the side-eye? Once you are in, how does a chick get into the V.I.P?
Ok well here is my little secret!!! Shhh!!!.....Don't tell anyone else! What you want to do is go to the club if they open in the early evening like Happy Hour or so. Make friends with the Baaarrrrtenderrrr(LOL), flirt with him or flirt with a guy that might just be working there. Once you have made that move and exchanged numbers then, make small talk like, you dont go out much( because you work so much & go to the gym); when is a good night to come when it's live(Ofcourse you already know but let him tell you)? Once he tells you the info then, say to him well if I come on [that night] are you going to be here & can you get me in?! Next say, well I'll call you first to make sure you can get me in and everything will be cool, because I really dont do the CLUB thing (Stress that you dont like to Club but you want to check it out).
Once you are in then you will be able to tell the bouncers who you are with & (You can even ask him the owners name) and tell the bouncers his name or the owners name & that he said you could go up once people started going up there.
You can THANK ME LATER because it works everytime. Oh & switch it up do different Clubs/Lounges!!
DAMN I NEED TO BE GETTING PAID FOR THIS SHITTT!!! LOL 4REAL
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you know thats a very good point. that would definetly be a serious groupie barrier.
one otherr thing is i don't know why security even plays themselves by lettin chicks in vip. no disresepect to them, but they are losing their hearing for 15 or 20 bucks an hour and they think by letting some pretty chick in vip they will get something in return on the backend. get real. if i was ever working the door it would def be MOB. If you a pretty chick you better slip me some bread or else you will be out in general admission with everybody else.
Each time I go to the club, I make small talk with them bouncers while in line everytime. Look out for them as you want them to look out for you. Say its really super hot outside, bring the a ice cold bottle water, or if it's extra cold outside, bring them some hot chocolate and hand warmers. How could they not look out for you after you do such things for them. Your paying 5 dollars max bringing them little things like that opposed to paying 20 to 40 dollars extra to get in or to get in VIP.
Add promoters on myspace. Hit them up and make convo so they will know you. When you see them continue to speak and remind them who you are. They have a million people in their faces soo they may forget, but after awhile, they will recognize you. :)
I usually go to the "hot" spots on off nights. I go out ALONE and sit at the bar and spend money. I am an excellent tipper. Regular staff and promoters usually stop into these places to have their business meetings with the owner or manager at these times. A beautiful, well dressed, well groomed woman in business attire ALWAYS stands out in this atmosphere. The promoter ALWAYS comes over to give you a flier for their next event and their phone number (cause he noticed that you are holding your own and spending money) give him your business card (every "ball-her" chic should have one) at this time. He'll buy you a drink or two (cause you obviously don't NEED him to) and tell you to come to the club on his night and bring some of your friends. After he leaves the manager or owner usually always comes over and talks to you. He has noticed that you've spent some cash and that one of his best promoters was talking to you and wants to make sure you are "ok" to keep his promoter happy. He now buys you a drink. The bartender is smiling cause you've just helped them get tips on an otherwise "quiet evening". On the night of the promoters party call him (if you haven't spoken to him already) tell him you plan on coming by with some of your girlfriends from out of town ( possibly new beautiful women to keep his regular ballers happy)and ask if he could leave your name at the door. He'll remember you cause afterall how many women did he meet that way and oblige. Now you're able to go right to the door, and directly in VIP. I ALWAYS buy a bottle to start the night off to set the tone, "Negroe if your paper ain't long you shouldn't even look this way, this smokes out the fakeass ballers cause they too now know that you don't need them for a drink or to get in VIP. Then comes the real ballers that peeped your style, admired your independence and lovin your swagger. I get reimbursed for the bottle I bought, and the rest of the night is on him and his boys. Only a "ball-her" chic can get this off cause not only is this all based on how beautiful you are but the fact that you don't NEED him! After all what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine...
Yeah you can and once you're in the club since it's early ask for the manager and hopefully its a guy and tell him you think he's cute and you've seen him for a while but finally you want to tell him. He'll fall for it, get his number & tell him you want to see him in VIP(tell him: if he can make it there & meet you there!! LOL Damn I need to stop this s*** niggs gonna think I'm a player!! LOL
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