Do guys not open doors anymore?

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Permalink Reply by NYNaturalBeauty on September 7, 2008 at 1:42pm

That's crazy lol he left you in the car??? Did he eventually open up the door for you? Chivalry seems to be a thing of the past now haa

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Permalink Reply by MY PRESIDENT IS BLACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on September 7, 2008 at 1:42pm

DAMN Weird and that happened to me before. I politely said hell no and never talked to him again.

Madison said:

How about a guy that you've met once, asking you to pick him up from the Airport, just me or damn werid?

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Permalink Reply by NYNaturalBeauty on September 7, 2008 at 1:54pm

What ever happened to taking a cab?? lol were they on strike at the airport??

Madison said:

How about a guy that you've met once, asking you to pick him up from the Airport, just me or damn werid?

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Permalink Reply by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on September 7, 2008 at 1:57pm

Well...a good man should get the door esp if you are on a date. The best players know that, your date must have been an amateur.

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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on September 7, 2008 at 2:02pm

@ NY, no, he didn't leave me in the car, he just came to pic me up and didn't open my door.
This other guy, after our date, he says "where do you want me to drop you at."
*record scratching sound*
WHAT? I said "um, at home."
Him:you want me to take you home?
Me: um yeah! It would be nice
This nigga wanted to drop me off at the train or some shit. I guess because he lived in the opposite direction and didn't want to double back. So when we get close to my house he's like "you got any drinks?" and I told him I don't live alone so, he couldn't come in. But even if I did live alone, he want to come in and drink and tryna fuck. And wasn't you about to drop me off at the TRAIN? SMH

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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on September 7, 2008 at 2:19pm

He was an amature Ladylynxx. I had to come up with the place to go. He lives in the suburbs and fdnt know any spots downtown. This was my 1st date with someone outside my race.

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Permalink Reply by http://wwwmrentertainment.blogspot.com/ on September 7, 2008 at 2:38pm

I always open doors for women even at the store..I don't like to see women pump gas...

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Permalink Reply by NYNaturalBeauty on September 7, 2008 at 2:40pm

ROFL.... LMAO i can't stop laughing right now. He must be from NY or something. I guess he thought you owed him and you should invite him in to your place for driving you home. What so funny is that i can actually imagine the record screeching at a full stop when he ask you where he should drop you off..lol


Honeycoated said:

@ NY, no, he didn't leave me in the car, he just came to pic me up and didn't open my door.
This other guy, after our date, he says "where do you want me to drop you at."
*record scratching sound*
WHAT? I said "um, at home."
Him:you want me to take you home?
Me: um yeah! It would be nice
This nigga wanted to drop me off at the train or some shit. I guess because he lived in the opposite direction and didn't want to double back. So when we get close to my house he's like "you got any drinks?" and I told him I don't live alone so, he couldn't come in. But even if I did live alone, he want to come in and drink and tryna fuck. And wasn't you about to drop me off at the TRAIN? SMH

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Permalink Reply by NYNaturalBeauty on September 7, 2008 at 2:43pm

It definitely wasn't you and he would have to find his way own from the airport some how. lol


Madison said:

No and I thought it was just me that thought it was such a weird request after a one time meeting..?

NYNaturalBeauty said:

What ever happened to taking a cab?? lol were they on strike at the airport??

Madison said:

How about a guy that you've met once, asking you to pick him up from the Airport, just me or damn werid?

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Permalink Reply by Mello826BA aka BAGroupie on September 7, 2008 at 2:51pm

i've been on a few dates where the guy hasnt opened the doors, and that of course was the last time I dealt with them. These guys definately need to attend an etiquette class

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Permalink Reply by Koffe Black on September 7, 2008 at 2:56pm

lol @ "where do you want me to drop you at "... you are not asking too much. Some men are not raised to open doors for women.
I was at a restuarant and as I was getting ready to exit my car, the woman parked next to me came out. Her son, who looked like he was only 4 years old, opened her car door and then went to the back seat and hoped in his booster seat and closed the van door. I thought that was the cutest thing. Some men just don't get it.

Honeycoated said:

@ NY, no, he didn't leave me in the car, he just came to pic me up and didn't open my door.
This other guy, after our date, he says "where do you want me to drop you at."
*record scratching sound*
WHAT? I said "um, at home."
Him:you want me to take you home?
Me: um yeah! It would be nice
This nigga wanted to drop me off at the train or some shit. I guess because he lived in the opposite direction and didn't want to double back. So when we get close to my house he's like "you got any drinks?" and I told him I don't live alone so, he couldn't come in. But even if I did live alone, he want to come in and drink and tryna fuck. And wasn't you about to drop me off at the TRAIN? SMH

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Permalink Reply by MY PRESIDENT IS BLACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on September 7, 2008 at 3:01pm

If that isn't the cutest thing ever. My dad always opens doors and my little brother opens the door for his girlfriend. The man I'm currently seeing opens doors for me too, but if we are going to the grocery store or something I'm not going to sit and wait until he opens the door, but he will walk around to that side. I mean it's all about the gesture you know. But if we are going to dinner, unless valet beats him to it he should defnitely be opening the door for me and he gets that.

Koffe Black said:

lol @ "where do you want me to drop you at "... you are not asking too much. Some men are not raised to open doors for women.
I was at a restuarant and as I was getting ready to exit my car, the woman parked next to me came out. Her son, who looked like he was only 4 years old, opened her car door and then went to the back seat and hoped in his booster seat and closed the van door. I thought that was the cutest thing. Some men just don't get it.

Honeycoated said:

@ NY, no, he didn't leave me in the car, he just came to pic me up and didn't open my door.
This other guy, after our date, he says "where do you want me to drop you at."
*record scratching sound*
WHAT? I said "um, at home."
Him:you want me to take you home?
Me: um yeah! It would be nice
This nigga wanted to drop me off at the train or some shit. I guess because he lived in the opposite direction and didn't want to double back. So when we get close to my house he's like "you got any drinks?" and I told him I don't live alone so, he couldn't come in. But even if I did live alone, he want to come in and drink and tryna fuck. And wasn't you about to drop me off at the TRAIN? SMH

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