Replies to This Discussion

Permalink Reply by MYPRESISBLACK!!! on September 8, 2008 at 12:52am

Whooo, that is a tough one. But, I've been there, the loosers always seem to come out the damn woodworks when you are happy and have your ish together. It's like the law of karma or something. I don't know what to say to this one except be firm. I'm betting that you are like me and don't change your number often. Some chicks keep up so much drama that they change their number more than they change their panties. This can be a gift and a curse. It's great when old business contacts seek you out but it's horrible when the exes come back with a vengance. So with that said I would say be firm with a hint of rudeness and hopefully they'll get the message also if you hit end button and send them to v-mail then they might take hint too, like damn she sent me to v-mail and refused to answer. Hurt their pride a bit too.

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by JustMe on September 8, 2008 at 12:59am

girl, they leave vmails. I really cant change my number for business purposes. And I can be a nasty little somebody but its like they love that s***.

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by MYPRESISBLACK!!! on September 8, 2008 at 1:08am

lol, damn. I've been there too, some guys like for you to kick them, gluttons for punishment I guess. Have you tried the truth as in I'm in a relationship and he can kick your ass lol? Naw I'm kidding, but you could say you're getting married lol.

JustMe said:

girl, they leave vmails. I really cant change my number for business purposes. And I can be a nasty little somebody but its like they love that s***.

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by JustMe on September 8, 2008 at 1:28am

lol... the dummy knows dude and knows dude would whip him good if he knew... the new thing is that I shouldn't evac by myself & i was like fool I was in a caravan of 12 cars. they are funny... had to turn my phone off...

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by MYPRESISBLACK!!! on September 8, 2008 at 1:35am

Girl you put it on both of them. You know when their sex is bad and yours is good they want you even more and with the other dude (the young one) he knows the sex was good so he's taking a major ego blow and can't let you because of that. They are pressed, IDK what you can do except continue to be mean as f***, like this ain't happening, because not only are they absessed they are stupid as hell especially if they know about your guy. CRAZY, you've obviously been blessd with the good ish lol, and these are the consequences that go along with it.

JustMe said:

lol... the dummy knows dude and knows dude would whip him good if he knew... the new thing is that I shouldn't evac by myself & i was like fool I was in a caravan of 12 cars. they are funny... had to turn my phone off...

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by PrincessLola on September 8, 2008 at 2:07am

Girl you better program as DONTANSWER and eventually they'll stop calling or better yet make their ringer silent!

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by FP on September 8, 2008 at 5:54am

tell them the truth, the cold hard truth. that you haven't been attracted to them in some time.....that something just clicked and you realized that it was time for you to move on. lol, that way you hurt them a little, but then you also put it on you that you are moving on. no man likes to think that a woman is unattracted to them esp after they have been with you. its an ego thing..

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by Black_celebutante on September 8, 2008 at 6:04am

Seriously just tell them to kick rocks because you arent feeling them like that anymore and it would be a waste of time to get back together as there is nothing there anymore!

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by http://wwwmrentertainment.blogspot.com/ on September 8, 2008 at 8:03am

Say you having a baby...

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by Chocolate Allure on September 8, 2008 at 9:16am

It's called fall is a coming!!! It's girlfriend season! NO ONE WANTS TO BE INSIDE ALONE IN THE FALL AND WINTER! I already started reviewing my applications and giving 2nd interviews. Although I have a potential frontrunner...I need to make the best choice for the cozy cold months. And trust me they last longer than the warm ones.

Seriously, just be honest and then ignore their calls. Erase the vmails without listening. After you blatantly tell then you are not interested (no need to be nasty, they'll think you were just having a bad day and didn't mean it) but a firm, "I'm not into you anymore" if they still don't get it....IGNORE, IGNORE, IGNORE. When they call hit ignore (or send to vmail)...If you have caller id at home ignore....That always works for me. That's my story and I'm stickn to it!

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by SexyCanI on September 8, 2008 at 9:18am

CA gurl you are a fool LOL but so right

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by OUT OF CONTROL on September 8, 2008 at 10:22am

Never thought of just making their ringer silent! Good one!!

PrincessLola said:

Girl you better program as DONTANSWER and eventually they'll stop calling or better yet make their ringer silent!

• ▶ Reply

▶ Reply to Discussion

• ‹ Previous
• 1
• 2
• 3
• Next ›
• Page