Ladies I have a Question about an EX. Please Help!
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Ok...so my ex and I dated while we were in college. He gave me his virginity...yada yada. He played ball...lived in a diffrent city so at that time when he asked me have I ever thought about being in a relationship with him I said NO. I cared about him but Neither of us had cars at that time and it would have just been a bad situation. I really cared about him tho... Minus his corny ways, broke pockets, and boyish ways. Ok, so he got drafted and plays. We've kept in touch over the years but nothing serious. He actually played me a couple years back saying he didn't want me to get the wrong idea about us(but I wasn't even on that with him...i was doing my own thing) so it made me think he was feeling his self to tuff and one time we were together he acted as if he didn't want to kiss me in the mouth...it pissed me off and I left him alone awhile after that but we never seem to lose touch too long. He's been in relationships and so have I. I was even engaged and one point. We went out a couple months ago and It made me realize how much I still care about this man. I don't know what to do. We are both in our early 20"s. I could never tell him how I feel bc I know how he is and it would push him away even more. I know he's sowing his oaks and all. But ladies can you give me some advice on what to do in this situation. PLEASE! I'm on the verge of just letting it go and not contacting him anymore.
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Permalink Reply by Le Coquette on -
I would tell him how i feel and let the ball be in his court. You'll probably be the person he checks for when he slows down..
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Permalink Reply by Goldie Fish on -
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
when it's right, it'll be right i suppose. some ppl need to grow up a bit or develop themselves. what if you just like what he could be, not what he is at the current moment?
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Permalink Reply by Roe on -
Thanks ladies! So how would I go about telling him this? I far from shy but he kind of does that to me....like a scared school girl...which is so OUT of my character!
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Permalink Reply by MY PRESIDENT IS BLACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on -
Definitely keep him on the team, honestly I feel like he could end up being your husband because you are his safety girl, that down ass chick that was there when he was nothing and he obviously has always cared for you. Keep him around. Stay friends and don't blur into that gray area of friends with benefits. Make him respect you like he always did before he went pro. Don't put yourself out there for "no kiss on the lips" moment again, just keep him on the bench until he's ready to play and play fair with you. Hopefully you won't have moved on before he's ready to makea move. He is young and right now he needs his space but that doesn't mean that you should walk away. Oh and no asking him about marriage and kids, no 20 something year old man wants to hear that shit especially a baller, you'll sound like you are planning on trapping him. Good luck.
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Permalink Reply by shobiz on -
Hey, Sugar
Ok first off i wanna say when u diggin someone and they diggin you its doesnt matter how far how long or what it takes to make it happen if true its real and if its real the rest will be provide trust and beleave that.
Now lets get it i think that at this point in his life now that hes in the main stream so much of wat have could of been yours as far as his heart his time his money his passion to love u is not as strong because for one thing when he was ready u wasnt for too he has the power to meet all different flavas of women now and not even have do nuttin but be a sports player u feel me hes in a state of mind were he knows panties just come right off real talk groupie pussie is a mother fucker.But now heres the thing u no him better than me do u think that hes fire for u go and get ya man babe gurl and most of all keep it real wit dude cuz i feel and it could be me when a chic diggin me i no point blank range he can tell just when women no men no to aleast this brother here does feel me. So ok if u tell him how u feel could make him even more big headed but u could not tell him and he will still be big headed so at the end of the day never hold back no matter who or what situation iz because closed mouths dont get fed and some poeple dont understand or beleave the feelining into there told.
So to sum it all up in a nut shell if its meant to be it will happen but dont let his fame be the reason u allow curtain shit to happen because u still want to be happy and treated wit respect feel ma.
OK BABE GURL I HOPE THIS GIVES U SOME INSITE
ONE MORE THING WHY DID U WANT ME HAVE MY INPUT ON THIS DO I NO U
SHO BIZ AKA POPPIE BKA NASTY BOI
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Permalink Reply by Roe on
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muhahahaha...i had to do this follow up. So I ended up letting this person go and moving around. He had a couple of problems this season so I guess they were reality checks. He's singing a new tune now. Men or should I say...these youngins be killing me. I flipped on him one day and let out all I had on my mind...of coarse in a lady like manner...He was quiet for about 2 minutes...then was like...i'm speechless you never talk to me like that before...lol Now I'm contacted daily. My how the tables have turned. I'm strictly on some friendship ish with him tho. To be honest, I'm treated like a queen right now and comfortable. I explained that to him, he made a couple of comments but accepted it. So why did I have to be a biatch to this fool before he opened his eyes?
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Permalink Reply by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on -
This is a toughie...I would tell him how I felt and then if he isn't feelin me we could still remain friends at the very least!
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