A GOOD BABYMOTHER?

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Permalink Reply by Noisy_Girl...2 on October 10, 2008 at 9:41pm

:-) ^5.
My Aunties, Momma, Cousins, Friends and I agree...men don't decide on issue like this you have to push them. Just a thought. Start planning!

Lovely said:

I did..in a way lol. I told him in order for me to consider having kids with anyone, I need to be Wife first...his response was "ok, you can be more" a kiss and a smile..im like huh? lol. I refuse to bring the subject up again tho, when he does then we'll speak on it. In the meantime i'll just bring my own condoms :)

Noisy_Girl...2 said:

put your foot down and tell him you're ready to jump the broom.

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Permalink Reply by NYNaturalBeauty on October 10, 2008 at 9:42pm

lol you do that bc you can't return kids lmao

i wouldn't bring it up again... and see if he brings it up again..


Lovely said:

I did..in a way lol. I told him in order for me to consider having kids with anyone, I need to be Wife first...his response was "ok, you can be more" a kiss and a smile..im like huh? lol. I refuse to bring the subject up again tho, when he does then we'll speak on it. In the meantime i'll just bring my own condoms :)

Noisy_Girl...2 said:

put your foot down and tell him you're ready to jump the broom.

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Permalink Reply by Noisy_Girl...2 on October 10, 2008 at 9:44pm

Are you married?

NYNaturalBeauty said:

lol you do that bc you can't return kids lmao

i wouldn't bring it up again... and see if he brings it up again..


Lovely said:

I did..in a way lol. I told him in order for me to consider having kids with anyone, I need to be Wife first...his response was "ok, you can be more" a kiss and a smile..im like huh? lol. I refuse to bring the subject up again tho, when he does then we'll speak on it. In the meantime i'll just bring my own condoms :)

Noisy_Girl...2 said:

put your foot down and tell him you're ready to jump the broom.

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Permalink Reply by Lovely1 on October 10, 2008 at 9:55pm

LOL I hear that....but if theyre pushed 2 hard, things go south fast! I'll ride it out for a bit and see what happens

Noisy_Girl...2 said:

:-) ^5.
My Aunties, Momma, Cousins, Friends and I agree...men don't decide on issue like this you have to push them. Just a thought. Start planning!

Lovely said:

I did..in a way lol. I told him in order for me to consider having kids with anyone, I need to be Wife first...his response was "ok, you can be more" a kiss and a smile..im like huh? lol. I refuse to bring the subject up again tho, when he does then we'll speak on it. In the meantime i'll just bring my own condoms :)

Noisy_Girl...2 said:

put your foot down and tell him you're ready to jump the broom.

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Permalink Reply by Noisy_Girl...2 on October 10, 2008 at 10:02pm

It's already been 5 years...He's not going anywhere

Lovely said:

LOL I hear that....but if theyre pushed 2 hard, things go south fast! I'll ride it out for a bit and see what happens

Noisy_Girl...2 said:

:-) ^5.
My Aunties, Momma, Cousins, Friends and I agree...men don't decide on issue like this you have to push them. Just a thought. Start planning!

Lovely said:

I did..in a way lol. I told him in order for me to consider having kids with anyone, I need to be Wife first...his response was "ok, you can be more" a kiss and a smile..im like huh? lol. I refuse to bring the subject up again tho, when he does then we'll speak on it. In the meantime i'll just bring my own condoms :)

Noisy_Girl...2 said:

put your foot down and tell him you're ready to jump the broom.

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Permalink Reply by NYNaturalBeauty on October 10, 2008 at 10:38pm

no y do you ask??

Noisy_Girl...2 said:

Are you married?

NYNaturalBeauty said:

lol you do that bc you can't return kids lmao

i wouldn't bring it up again... and see if he brings it up again..


Lovely said:

I did..in a way lol. I told him in order for me to consider having kids with anyone, I need to be Wife first...his response was "ok, you can be more" a kiss and a smile..im like huh? lol. I refuse to bring the subject up again tho, when he does then we'll speak on it. In the meantime i'll just bring my own condoms :)

Noisy_Girl...2 said:

put your foot down and tell him you're ready to jump the broom.

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Permalink Reply by KJ on October 10, 2008 at 11:04pm

Cut your ties! He's made it clear that he wants a babymomma, not a wife. You've made it clear that you want a husband before you have kids. These are two completely different and opposing ideologies. Don't try to force him into marriage, with an ultimatum or something. Even if he follows through, he's just doing it for you, not himself, and that will never turn out right.

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Permalink Reply by LMS on October 10, 2008 at 11:10pm

Smart Girl! And do something freaky and slide the condom on your self, ever since I saw that movie Knocked Up, I've been watch ninja's a little closely!

Lovely said:

I did..in a way lol. I told him in order for me to consider having kids with anyone, I need to be Wife first...his response was "ok, you can be more" a kiss and a smile..im like huh? lol. I refuse to bring the subject up again tho, when he does then we'll speak on it. In the meantime i'll just bring my own condoms :)

Noisy_Girl...2 said:

put your foot down and tell him you're ready to jump the broom.

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Permalink Reply by Lovely1 on October 10, 2008 at 11:18pm

Uhoh Im going to have to go rent that movie now lol

LittleMiss S said:

Smart Girl! And do something freaky and slide the condom on your self, ever since I saw that movie Knocked Up, I've been watch ninja's a little closely!

Lovely said:

I did..in a way lol. I told him in order for me to consider having kids with anyone, I need to be Wife first...his response was "ok, you can be more" a kiss and a smile..im like huh? lol. I refuse to bring the subject up again tho, when he does then we'll speak on it. In the meantime i'll just bring my own condoms :)

Noisy_Girl...2 said:

put your foot down and tell him you're ready to jump the broom.

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Permalink Reply by NYNaturalBeauty on October 10, 2008 at 11:37pm

that movie is hysterical lol

LittleMiss S said:

Smart Girl! And do something freaky and slide the condom on your self, ever since I saw that movie Knocked Up, I've been watch ninja's a little closely!

Lovely said:

I did..in a way lol. I told him in order for me to consider having kids with anyone, I need to be Wife first...his response was "ok, you can be more" a kiss and a smile..im like huh? lol. I refuse to bring the subject up again tho, when he does then we'll speak on it. In the meantime i'll just bring my own condoms :)

Noisy_Girl...2 said:

put your foot down and tell him you're ready to jump the broom.

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Permalink Reply by Starr on October 11, 2008 at 1:31am

He could have been testing you, but he did approach you on some baby mama tip. I would be very careful. Don't get caught up in feelings and start thinking about marriage just yet. Men usually say what they mean- BELIEVE THEM!!! Maybe he just wants a child and thought that you were the most suitable candidate. Maybe he wants more. Time will tell, but I would strap up, like you said, bring your own condoms and wait wait wait. The truth will come to light!

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Permalink Reply by FP on October 11, 2008 at 2:54am

Interesting

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