How did y'all learn the game? Did you happen to be in the right place at the right time with the right look? Were you schooled by an older sibling or friend? Trial and error? Was there a turning point that made you go from regular joe's to ballers buying you condo's and luxury cars? Spill it! lol
i learned because of my friends ~ guy friends didnt want me to be taken advantage of (i developed early), and chicks that were on the come up. A lot of trial and error ~ a lot of mistakes ~ and i still dont claim to know it all..but i know more than i did years ago..
so true...mine was looks, trial and error, and someone schooled me.
Some of my friends were getting it at 14 (of course, they are washed up now), my mom told me "if I'm screwing some guy my eletric should never get turned off" (her words not mine), and my brothers were at the top of the DC drug chain - so I learned a lot hanging out with them.
I watched my Mom too. But I don't choose to do it like her. She has had every man give her his FULL paycheck since i was a little girl. Only dude not to do that was my Dad. LOL. She is mean and opportunistic. Will cook a man a meal and then curse his ass out. She is moody and likes to be by herself so they assume she is dating other men. She also only deals with tricks. Men who will break off to be with a beautiful woman. In her youth she dated big time Harlem Hustlers and business men but treated them all the same. LIke s***. She acts as if she doesn't NEED them and doesn't return their calls either. When she does hang out with them she is the belle of the ball. LOL. Fun to be around. So they all want to stay in her good graces
I learned in so many ways...Trial & error being the main one because I was hard headed and didn't always listen...But I had the advantage of moving with my dad smack in the middle of puberty which I know SAVED me from SO MUCH BS.... he was a terror on the dudes when I was coming up. He also used to tell me I cab't tell you what kind of woman to be I can't show you what type of woman you don't want to be. I also learned from my friends I didn't need to make certain mistakes to learn. I wathced some of my girls and tried to learn from them.
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