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Permalink Reply by MYPRESISBLACK!!! on October 27, 2008 at 5:32pm

If you want a f*** buddy, never spend the night, and never allow him to. Don't get to know him on a personal level, make it all about having fun and always use a condom. Don't introduce him to the family and don't be meeting his momma either. As far as the baller always offering you stuff, s*** the economy is bad, take it. If you don't want it, regift it for Christmas. Good luck, have fun and always be safe.

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Permalink Reply by MissUnderstood on October 27, 2008 at 5:39pm

See? Thanks Allegra.. You got this down... Now what if the f*** buddy already knows your family? Also, what if the baller is just offering to send you $ but wants you to visit... Not my cup of tea at all... lol

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Permalink Reply by MYPRESISBLACK!!! on October 27, 2008 at 5:58pm

If he already knows them, so what, that doesn't mean you invite him to Thanksgiving dinner. Seperation of Church and State, if that's all you want him to be is a f*** buddy then demote him so to speak. Hmm Baller wants you to visit, will he send money first? If so take the money and make up excuses. Get him to come to you, so it's on your terms, but make him stay at a hotel so you can go home when it's a wrap. But seriously Is it so bad to go out there and go shopping? Go when you've got your period, tell him "you don't do that" lol.

MissUnderstood said:

See? Thanks Allegra.. You got this down... Now what if the f*** buddy already knows your family? Also, what if the baller is just offering to send you $ but wants you to visit... Not my cup of tea at all... lol

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Permalink Reply by MissUnderstood on October 27, 2008 at 6:02pm

Girl!! You are too bad. But Good advice!! Taking serious notes

allegra said:

If he already knows them, so what, that doesn't mean you invite him to Thanksgiving dinner. Seperation of Church and State, if that's all you want him to be is a f*** buddy then demote him so to speak. Hmm Baller wants you to visit, will he send money first? If so take the money and make up excuses. Get him to come to you, so it's on your terms, but make him stay at a hotel so you can go home when it's a wrap. But seriously Is it so bad to go out there and go shopping? Go when you've got your period, tell him "you don't do that" lol.

MissUnderstood said:

See? Thanks Allegra.. You got this down... Now what if the f*** buddy already knows your family? Also, what if the baller is just offering to send you $ but wants you to visit... Not my cup of tea at all... lol

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Permalink Reply by MYPRESISBLACK!!! on October 27, 2008 at 6:07pm

Lol thanx. Good luck, keep me posted, and above all remember "Purse first, ass last" (I'm not sure who to cite this to, but it's a BA quote)

MissUnderstood said:

Girl!! You are too bad. But Good advice!! Taking serious notes

allegra said:

If he already knows them, so what, that doesn't mean you invite him to Thanksgiving dinner. Seperation of Church and State, if that's all you want him to be is a f*** buddy then demote him so to speak. Hmm Baller wants you to visit, will he send money first? If so take the money and make up excuses. Get him to come to you, so it's on your terms, but make him stay at a hotel so you can go home when it's a wrap. But seriously Is it so bad to go out there and go shopping? Go when you've got your period, tell him "you don't do that" lol.

MissUnderstood said:

See? Thanks Allegra.. You got this down... Now what if the f*** buddy already knows your family? Also, what if the baller is just offering to send you $ but wants you to visit... Not my cup of tea at all... lol

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Permalink Reply by Miss Vogue on October 27, 2008 at 6:44pm

lmfao allegra u are too funny, go when you have your period haha!! thats some good advice.. but you know some guys dont mind a little war paint

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Permalink Reply by MYPRESISBLACK!!! on October 27, 2008 at 6:47pm

True, true, but if you act like you are so disturbed by it, they may not try you. Lol @ War Paint a la Aubrey.

MissVogue said:

lmfao allegra u are too funny, go when you have your period haha!! thats some good advice.. but you know some guys dont mind a little war paint

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Permalink Reply by Miss Vogue on October 27, 2008 at 6:50pm

Lol ya

allegra said:

True, true, but if you act like you are so disturbed by it, they may not try you. Lol @ War Paint a la Aubrey.

MissVogue said:

lmfao allegra u are too funny, go when you have your period haha!! thats some good advice.. but you know some guys dont mind a little war paint

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Permalink Reply by she-who-rocks on October 27, 2008 at 7:03pm

You have to know whether or not you can seperate sex and love. if you aren't sure then I would get a rabbit! Get 2 in case you get bored! Especially if you are getting ready to move to a new city, you just want to date and meet people anyway.
Being single to me means I get to do what I want when I want. I would go sit at the bar at Friday's for happy hour if I wanted and then hit a movie or I would hit a museum etc. Just be comfy in your skin. use the time to catch up with girlfriends also. If someone is offering you can take and give back a pretty smile with a gracious thank you :)

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