FEMALE BALLERS: Is it just me or is dating so much easier when you have your own money?

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Permalink Reply by Boss on April 11, 2008 at 4:29pm

These young girls do not ask for anything....

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Permalink Reply by Charlie/Daddy's Girl on April 11, 2008 at 4:31pm

isn't that the truth...I have a homegirl who is a little younger than me...and she wants nothing but men with money, won't execpt anything less...however, she gets/asks for nothing, just d*ck

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Permalink Reply by Chocolate Allure on April 11, 2008 at 4:33pm

Not yet....trust me it will come.

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Permalink Reply by Mz TrouBle AKA Tiff-Tiff on April 11, 2008 at 4:34pm

That's wat you call REAL pimp'in... VERY few people (male or FEMALES) know how to do this...Im impressed...... datz how I get down...ANY way possible to flip something I'm on it....

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Permalink Reply by Charlie/Daddy's Girl on April 11, 2008 at 4:44pm

there are quite a few who do flip...my friends in Detriot and Atl all own there own business, with there own houses, and a nice ride or 2 - with money in the bank...and it was all fronted by a dude.

When I just hung out with girls in the DMV my mentality were purses and shoes...but now I have the same as my homies elsewhere...but then I've always been a hustler, I done it ALL (except stripping and tricking)

I'm working on my 3rd company and just the right dude to front it...lol

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Permalink Reply by Chocolate Allure on April 11, 2008 at 5:59pm

Normally I'd have no reservations about revealing this, but I can be googled just based off my career. What I will say is that I am a double minority in my field-I'm a woman and I'm black. I can pretty much walk into any company in my line of work and demand top dollar....And I am very, very good at what I do...I also have money from my dad's passing and I went to college on a full scholarship so my parents gave me my tuition fund + for a graduation gift. Wise investments, an ex husband, my own company(would tell you that, but then folks would be able to figure who I am out), etc....I said all this in another post...I am about my money...Not new to this true to this....

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Permalink Reply by Chocolate Allure on April 11, 2008 at 6:02pm

well if she ever ran across an issue, she has saved up for that rainy day.

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Permalink Reply by Msknowitall on April 11, 2008 at 6:39pm

Maybe you can school me Chocolate Allure because I AM a female baller with more than a couple dollars and agree with Boss and have been to both St. Tropez and St. Barts on more than one occasion, vacationing there when Diddy and Kim, Jay and Beyonce, Kanye and Brooke, Paris Hilton, Donald Trump and Melania and more were there ... So if those places aren't fly then please tell me what spots are because you obviously are more fly than me.

Just recently I went Nice, France by myself because as stated, men don't think they have to do anything for you when you have it. I believe that dating is MORE difficult when you have money because men are so easily intimidated by a chick that has her own. If your car is more fly than there's, they don't want to pick you up. Always want to come to your shit if your crib is flyer than there's, want to use your juice card if you have more access than them.

So my experience Chocolate Allure has been the opposite of yours obviously ... Please don't forget to send me the hot spots, thanks!

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Permalink Reply by Chocolate Allure on April 11, 2008 at 7:01pm

I never said those places weren't fly. I said if he was balling those places wouldn't seem demanding.Only certain men feel intimidated by a "female baller". If he is a genuine baller and is confident, he appreciates the competition. Every baller I deal/dealt with has an extremely competitve nature. They go above and beyond to show that "I AM MAN". We feed off each others vibe, energy and drive. It makes for the greatest sex also. He's looking at me like I gotta satisfy her sexually cause I'm not sexing him for his cash, so ain't too much he can buy me to pacify a poor sexual performance. Everybody's definition of hot spots is different, and I don't tell folks where I hang anymore, it's like if you're in the know I'll see ya there..Not snotty just private...

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Permalink Reply by Msknowitall on April 11, 2008 at 7:21pm

So what part of Canada ... ? I'm from Detroit so I've been to Canada a million times. I find those guys kind of corny:) I'm looking for a new hot spot to meet men .. Is Canada your only suggestion?

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Permalink Reply by Chocolate Allure on April 11, 2008 at 7:32pm

I told a lot of info in a previous forum and almost had my privileges revoked by the inner circle so I won't be giving that up anymore...

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Permalink Reply by Msknowitall on April 11, 2008 at 8:13pm

girl please, you sound petty ... i guess nice, cannes and st. tropez is ... have fun in canada! ciao ....

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