FEMALE BALLERS: Is it just me or is dating so much easier when you have your own money?

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Permalink Reply by rena on April 11, 2008 at 8:25pm

girl bye!!! how are you different?

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Permalink Reply by Chocolate Allure on April 11, 2008 at 8:27pm

My profile very clearly states I am not here to "meet ballers". My friend told me to check out this site. I read some of the posts and felt it is my obligation as a successful, self respecting, educated woman to give the gullible, naive young women that may read this site some insight on BEING a female baller not just trying to "land" a baller. Go to my profile, read some of my responses to the various posts. I don't need help finding ballers, I do very well just being who I am...My question to you is the same as anyone else that has made it a point of singling out my responses, of all the other posts in various forums, why question me?

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Permalink Reply by Chocolate Allure on April 11, 2008 at 9:02pm

Then I guess petty it is. I don't go looking for men...., but if I had to, I wouldn't need anyone to tell me where to look..

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Permalink Reply by Msknowitall on April 11, 2008 at 9:08pm

again ... have fun in canada .. CIAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL ....

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Permalink Reply by rena on April 11, 2008 at 9:09pm

lol

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Permalink Reply by Chocolate Allure on April 11, 2008 at 9:17pm

I will and when I go BACK to FRANCE perhaps I'll bump into you, but then again maybe not, cause I'll know where to go and.....Funny thing passport stamps don't lie....

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Permalink Reply by Msknowitall on April 11, 2008 at 9:46pm

No passports don't lie honey, TRUST ME ...

I was responding to your wack ass blog just to keep the dialogue going .... and for the record the last time i was in Canada, you only needed your drivers license ... so as i've stated time and time again ... I'll be in France and you have fun in Canada ... CIAO ... LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by Chocolate Allure on April 11, 2008 at 9:58pm

and you said who was petty? are you really that beat? I'm still not impressed....France, France, France. Is that as good as it gets? I went to France for the 1st time in 3rd grade. I love my parents nothing like those good old family vacations. You can keep responding blah blah blah blah blah blah...that's all I hear?

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Permalink Reply by NoneYoBiz on April 11, 2008 at 11:58pm

I'm definately not a baller, but I do believe in having my own. I work hard for everything I have if I want something, I'll make sure I get it. I don't believe in asking a man for anything bc #1 he always wants something in return #2 you feel like you owe him.....I met a guy about a month ago who plays pro ball who gave me money right upon meeting me, I just laughed and seconds later my conscience came strolling in and I gave him back his money. He playfully kept trying to sneak it back in my pocket, but I told him no bc I didn't want to give him the wrong idea. He told me I was stupid bc all the girls he knew would have taken it without a second thought. Chilled with him in his suite, ordered some food and talked. He kept trying to get me to go in his bedroom , but I refused he looked frustrated and I left as he begged for me to spend the night. Needless to say, glad I didn't take it bc he probably would have been 10x more aggressive. Figured he wouldn't call me again, but he bothered me the rest of the wknd he was here. Wanted to take me out to lunch, suggessted he take me to the spa to get my nails done bc he saw I bite them (i'm always nervous), invited me to parties...........turned him down on all invites (i was just really busy). He actually got mad and I had to remind him that I had a life b4 I met him and that it doesn't stop just bc he's in town. Woke up early to tell him bye b4 he left for the airport and he was introducing me to his people telling them I was going to be his girl, just laughed it off and he asked me what I thought, reminded him again that I just met him. He still calls me, txt me, asking when am I coming to visit him so he can show me around (he thinks I haven't been anywhere). I want to, but I can't I have wrk and he doesn't seem to understand, he thinks I'm just not "feelin'" him. So your right, they seem to treat you different when you have your own. Even though I'm not "ballin'" I can take care of myself. Even invited me to China, but I'm still skeptical. He's nice, but I just met him. I'm a simple girl, I look forward to the first date.....

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Permalink Reply by Charlie/Daddy's Girl on April 12, 2008 at 9:44am

get your passort out and get on that plane...


just make sure you have enough for a plane ride home, just in case

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Permalink Reply by Noisy_Girl on April 12, 2008 at 4:14pm

Capri, Italy is the best place in the world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by Noisy_Girl on April 12, 2008 at 4:18pm

WoW!!! It sounds like you're on the rop of the echelon. They say it's lonely at the top. Is this true?

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