Recently, I started going back out on the club scene and with spring around the corner I plan on hitting up different spots.
Here is a issues that I have faced a lot. A guy approaches me that I am not attracted to and he becomes very irritating and persistant on getting my number. Normally, I'll say I am waiting for my friend he went to the bathroom or I have a man. Lately, that hasn't been enough to stop them from trying to get my number. They'll actually say give it to me real fast so he won't see. Then there are some guys that ask me to put their number in my phone and demand that I call them to see if i saved it and to get my number. I hate this.
I need help. What do you say when a lame tries to get your number and you don't want to be bothered?
Thanks I have all the excuses I can't stand when you shoot a guy down and he gets belligerent like "dude you gambled and lost it happens" another is... My phone got wet and isn't working properly write your number doen I will call you when I get my new phone LOL
Lady Jei the PDA or Black Berry comment is just plain ole silly. I have a PDA I barely know how to use it and refuse to be burdened with that bulky crap in a club. I stay rocking my motorola krazor. As a man who does pretty well in club in terms of getting numbers I have still had my share of bad nights. The best way to let a dude down in my opinion is to just say you have a boyfriend or are married. To say you are not interested comes off as malicious and pretentious (you could be inviting trouble with that one).