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Permalink Reply by OnePerfect10 on April 17, 2008 at 8:12pm

I don't know and I look forward to reading what the other ladies say because I wonder the same thing. I have had the marrying type that proposed and wanted to get married but I just wasn't attracted to them at the time nor ready for marriage. And I've had those that were not interested in getting married to me (and it seems to anyone else because they are still single).

Could it possibly be the type of man? Or maybe along the lines of what Miss Beauty said that it's about catching them at the right time?

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Permalink Reply by GetEmGirl on April 17, 2008 at 8:34pm

it's always YOU (not them)....that's where it begins and ends. Like attracts like.

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Permalink Reply by OnePerfect10 on April 17, 2008 at 8:40pm

OK GetEm, if this is the case, I am going to have to send you a private message because we have to talk!!! LOL!! It can't be me . . . I'm PERFECT . . .kidding!

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Permalink Reply by Noisy_Girl on April 17, 2008 at 9:08pm

It absolutely has everything to do with the woman. Men can sense the low self worth with a few questions of the first conversation. Question like…What’s the last book you read? What’s your favorite wine? Where’s the last place you traveled? Those type of question put women in those three categories every time.

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Permalink Reply by GetEmGirl on April 17, 2008 at 9:10pm

for a brush up on what's "ballerific" go to www.luxist.com; you gotta know a boat shoe when you see one...LOL

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Permalink Reply by rena on April 17, 2008 at 9:25pm

right now i'm a one night only chic but i'm having a great time

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Permalink Reply by SEXYM on April 18, 2008 at 8:28am

APPLAUSE!!!! to Lady Jei

Can someone say "Chuurch" .....I will 2nd THAT!!!

Doing the same thing, the same way every single time & expecting a different outcome each time.....isn't this the definition of INSANITY!!

I know what I want & how I want it & that's the ONLY way I will take it!! I have no problems being by myself, sh*t sometimes I'd rather be alone.....I am great company!

Women don't ever settle for less because more will not come... SexyM

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Permalink Reply by Toy on April 18, 2008 at 10:08am

I have to agree with Ms. Nikki--I find my self in these types of positions more often then not. Not sure why or what could be done about it.

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Permalink Reply by Toy on April 18, 2008 at 10:13am

That is sooooo true!!!! That answers all of my questions. Have standards, stick to them and don't be ashamed of what you deserve....Loves it!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by OUT OF CONTROL on April 18, 2008 at 10:26am

ROTFLMBAO!!!!

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Permalink Reply by AtlShawty on April 18, 2008 at 12:26pm

Girl, you just said a mouthfull right there! If that aint the truth I don't know what is!

What we attract is a direct reflection of who we are.

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Permalink Reply by Emerald on April 18, 2008 at 11:07pm

Definately the marrying kind but I don't know about all that nurturing stuff. I really come off as someone that will not accept anything less. Guys are predetors by nature, so they can spot these things just by looking at how we carry ourselves. I heard that men can tell if a woman has been with alot of men by how she walks. They size us up quickly then categorize us. Men are smarter than we think when it comes to women. How do you think so many men that don't have jobs always seem to find a woman that will pay all the bills, let him drop her off at work (in her car of course) and rush home to cook him dinner every night? This doesn't happen by chance - it's a calculated move. They can spot our weakness sometimes better than we can. That's why men memorize evey line in the book. They really do work on some of us. But I believe we set the bar. It's alll about what we reveal about ourselves. And for freaks out there that want to graduate from the booty calls, it's ok to get your freak on but PA-LEE-ZZZZ hold on to that freakishness until he is committed to you. Then you can pull out your trusted bag a tricks. Anytime before that he will never look at you as marriage material just a good..*@!*

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