So are we ass backwards because we're choosing?

I KNOW I be choosin... lol. But is that why it doesn't last?
The man is supposed to find his wife....

 

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Good question... And you may be onto something... Most dudes I "chose" weren't worth the time... And being completely honest, on first glance I would've never "chose" my husband but I'm definitely blessed to have him...

I somewhat agree with this... even if you do choose I think in order to "choose" a "Real Man" you have to make him FEEL like he is choosing you...

Good point of view...

Siren said:

I somewhat agree with this... even if you do choose I think in order to "choose" a "Real Man" you have to make him FEEL like he is choosing you...

I think we are not supposed to choose. Men say it's the new millenium and all that, but I think it affects the dynamic when a woman chooses.

Then are we not manipulating 'fate?"

Aren't we still choosing, but making him feel like he chose us to stroke his ego?

JustMe said:

Good point of view...

Siren said:

I somewhat agree with this... even if you do choose I think in order to "choose" a "Real Man" you have to make him FEEL like he is choosing you...

It's not about stroking his ego..it's about allowing him the space to still be a man. I think a lot of women (I was guilty in my past) ignore the signs of when we are NOT being chosen and that is how we end up being hurt. A lot of times we end up choosing men and emasculate them in the process which can be a turn off.

Phoenix said:

Then are we not manipulating 'fate?"

Aren't we still choosing, but making him feel like he chose us to stroke his ego?
JustMe said:

Good point of view...
Siren said:

I somewhat agree with this... even if you do choose I think in order to "choose" a "Real Man" you have to make him FEEL like he is choosing you...

I agree with all of the above.  A real man approaches you with interest and pursues you accordingly.  When we choose them, they're just going along for the ride and free P****Y.

THIS!!!!

Tracy said:

I agree with all of the above.  A real man approaches you with interest and pursues you accordingly.  When we choose them, they're just going along for the ride and free P****Y.

This is true.

Siren said:

It's not about stroking his ego..it's about allowing him the space to still be a man. I think a lot of women (I was guilty in my past) ignore the signs of when we are NOT being chosen and that is how we end up being hurt. A lot of times we end up choosing men and emasculate them in the process which can be a turn off.

Phoenix said:

Then are we not manipulating 'fate?"

Aren't we still choosing, but making him feel like he chose us to stroke his ego?
JustMe said:

Good point of view...
Siren said:

I somewhat agree with this... even if you do choose I think in order to "choose" a "Real Man" you have to make him FEEL like he is choosing you...

You said a man find his wife if that so true why is that when a man doing his best to support that woman he love she miss treat him make goes out and cheat on her. Because of her lowself esteem to love a good man like him or to appreciated him as a good provider instead looking at him like a dog like others men's

This is my post...can I delete comments?

(or is that rude)?

miss treats lol



Kirk delaney miller said:

You said a man find his wife if that so true why is that when a man doing his best to support that woman he love she miss treat him make goes out and cheat on her. Because of her lowself esteem to love a good man like him or to appreciated him as a good provider instead looking at him like a dog like others men's

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