Hey y'all!

So my mother calls me and tells me my little cousin is pregnant (She just turned 15) apparently she wants to have an abortion, but my family has believes "If you can f*** for them you can fend for them." So they don't do abortion or adoption. Now she's 15 and the boy and his family already stated he was going on with his life so SHE has to do the best she can. What y'all think? I honestly don't know what to say regardless of her decision I support her either way (even though she shouldn't have been laying her hot ass up) its too late to get angry with her

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riiight.....ok. and MILLIONS more get ABORTED every year compared to the few thousands who are "unadopted"...

(we're talking over 1.2 million *REPORTED* abortions in the US alone last year/2011...but who knows how many back alley types went down. That's way more innocent babies dying to me than living...) 

So who loses out more? More will die this year so I stand on team life. Never gonna take the Political correct route on it. Regardless. Sorry but abortion is NOT birth control.

Anyway, these young ADULTS need to grow up. They are no longer kids. They gave that title up a while back. If she didn't want to deal with the REALITY of being a CO-CREATOR in this thing called LIFE and human experience she should've kept her damn legs closed. If she was over the age of 21 I "may" feel sory but I don't. This teenager was being FAST! Now she wants to get rid of her problems just the same way...fast. She needs to slow down and think. She is a mess.

This topic is always polarizing and divisive. But I have my views and you got yours. I'm just on Team life, especially for this girls reason. She has none. Nothing else really to add.

University of Smitty said:

10-30 thousand kids go unadopted every year
 

When are we going to give our youth the proper sex education that they need? It's sad when a 15 yr old thinks of abrotion before a condom

I hope she gives it up for adoption. If she's forced to keep the baby that poor kid is going to catch hell. I'm never in favor of abortions short of rape or illness.


this is real talk way too many black babies are being killed.
Miss Double Kiss said:

riiight.....ok. and MILLIONS more get ABORTED every year compared to the few thousands who are "unadopted"...

(we're talking over 1.2 million *REPORTED* abortions in the US alone last year/2011...but who knows how many back alley types went down. That's way more innocent babies dying to me than living...) 

So who loses out more? More will die this year so I stand on team life. Never gonna take the Political correct route on it. Regardless. Sorry but abortion is NOT birth control.

Anyway, these young ADULTS need to grow up. They are no longer kids. They gave that title up a while back. If she didn't want to deal with the REALITY of being a CO-CREATOR in this thing called LIFE and human experience she should've kept her damn legs closed. If she was over the age of 21 I "may" feel sory but I don't. This teenager was being FAST! Now she wants to get rid of her problems just the same way...fast. She needs to slow down and think. She is a mess.

This topic is always polarizing and divisive. But I have my views and you got yours. I'm just on Team life, especially for this girls reason. She has none. Nothing else really to add.

University of Smitty said:

10-30 thousand kids go unadopted every year
 

Yup and black children are hard to find homes for and black males are the hardest to place. This young, I vote abort. Baltimore city is living breathing proof that some teens are not good parents.

University of Smitty said:

10-30 thousand kids go unadopted every year
 
Miss Double Kiss said:

and that's why there's adoption. Lot's of people can't have babies who would jump at an opportunity to raise one or two...

University of Smitty said:

LOL @ putting his parents on CS.

 

I think she knows what's in store.  She already wants to have an abortion and I think if she's forced to keep the baby, said baby will catch hell with a 15 y.o. mother who didnt want it in the first place.  
Eleven8 said:

the only problem is, will she AND he learn from this mistake after the abortion procedure? if she goes back to being a little hot tail, what did the abortion resolve? and the boy's parents are dead wrong for teaching their son to not own up to his responsibility. I don't care how old he is, he should've learned how to put a condom on before he learned to stick his d*** in a girl. I would have the baby then put the boy's parents on child support.

+ Half a million unwanted neglected and/or abused kids and end up in foster care every year.  As long as it's done within the first 10 weeks, I support the right to choose.

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Yup and black children are hard to find homes for and black males are the hardest to place. This young, I vote abort. Baltimore city is living breathing proof that some teens are not good parents.
University of Smitty said:

10-30 thousand kids go unadopted every year  
Miss Double Kiss said:

and that's why there's adoption. Lot's of people can't have babies who would jump at an opportunity to raise one or two...
University of Smitty said:

LOL @ putting his parents on CS.

 

I think she knows what's in store.  She already wants to have an abortion and I think if she's forced to keep the baby, said baby will catch hell with a 15 y.o. mother who didnt want it in the first place.   Eleven8 said:

the only problem is, will she AND he learn from this mistake after the abortion procedure? if she goes back to being a little hot tail, what did the abortion resolve? and the boy's parents are dead wrong for teaching their son to not own up to his responsibility. I don't care how old he is, he should've learned how to put a condom on before he learned to stick his d*** in a girl. I would have the baby then put the boy's parents on child support.



abortion is the problem now because kids see it as a form of birth control. Comdoms who needs them I can always get an abortion. We need to wake up to the fact that abrotion are being used as birth control. CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Yup and black children are hard to find homes for and black males are the hardest to place. This young, I vote abort. Baltimore city is living breathing proof that some teens are not good parents.

University of Smitty said:

10-30 thousand kids go unadopted every year
 
Miss Double Kiss said:

and that's why there's adoption. Lot's of people can't have babies who would jump at an opportunity to raise one or two...

University of Smitty said:

LOL @ putting his parents on CS.

 

I think she knows what's in store.  She already wants to have an abortion and I think if she's forced to keep the baby, said baby will catch hell with a 15 y.o. mother who didnt want it in the first place.  
Eleven8 said:

the only problem is, will she AND he learn from this mistake after the abortion procedure? if she goes back to being a little hot tail, what did the abortion resolve? and the boy's parents are dead wrong for teaching their son to not own up to his responsibility. I don't care how old he is, he should've learned how to put a condom on before he learned to stick his d*** in a girl. I would have the baby then put the boy's parents on child support.

We need to wake up to the fact that teenagers are stupid. They do a lot of risky and dumb things. Making this girl have a baby she doesn't want will open us up to more Casey Anthony's. There are plenty of stories on the internet, magazines, and newspapers about teens who abuse, kill and abandon their babies. Whatever your belief about abortion is, it doesn't change the fact that this 15 year old doesn't want to be a mother and no one is going to make the boy be a father including his own parents. So what you end up with is a baby who is unwanted and unloved who has a snowball's chance in Hell of getting adopted. 

Tone said:



abortion is the problem now because kids see it as a form of birth control. Comdoms who needs them I can always get an abortion. We need to wake up to the fact that abrotion are being used as birth control. CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Yup and black children are hard to find homes for and black males are the hardest to place. This young, I vote abort. Baltimore city is living breathing proof that some teens are not good parents.

University of Smitty said:

10-30 thousand kids go unadopted every year
 
Miss Double Kiss said:

and that's why there's adoption. Lot's of people can't have babies who would jump at an opportunity to raise one or two...

University of Smitty said:

LOL @ putting his parents on CS.

 

I think she knows what's in store.  She already wants to have an abortion and I think if she's forced to keep the baby, said baby will catch hell with a 15 y.o. mother who didnt want it in the first place.  
Eleven8 said:

the only problem is, will she AND he learn from this mistake after the abortion procedure? if she goes back to being a little hot tail, what did the abortion resolve? and the boy's parents are dead wrong for teaching their son to not own up to his responsibility. I don't care how old he is, he should've learned how to put a condom on before he learned to stick his d*** in a girl. I would have the baby then put the boy's parents on child support.

IDK about you, but when I'm 'picketing' outside the abortion clinic, 98% of the chicks I see are grown.

 

I think teens get pregnant because they're unsupervised.  Most people think the older kids get, the less you have to keep an eye on them when if fact, that's when you have to watch their azzes the most.

Tone said:


abortion is the problem now because kids see it as a form of birth control. Comdoms who needs them I can always get an abortion. We need to wake up to the fact that abrotion are being used as birth control. CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Yup and black children are hard to find homes for and black males are the hardest to place. This young, I vote abort. Baltimore city is living breathing proof that some teens are not good parents.
University of Smitty said:

10-30 thousand kids go unadopted every year  
Miss Double Kiss said:

and that's why there's adoption. Lot's of people can't have babies who would jump at an opportunity to raise one or two...
University of Smitty said:

LOL @ putting his parents on CS.

 

I think she knows what's in store.  She already wants to have an abortion and I think if she's forced to keep the baby, said baby will catch hell with a 15 y.o. mother who didnt want it in the first place.   Eleven8 said:

the only problem is, will she AND he learn from this mistake after the abortion procedure? if she goes back to being a little hot tail, what did the abortion resolve? and the boy's parents are dead wrong for teaching their son to not own up to his responsibility. I don't care how old he is, he should've learned how to put a condom on before he learned to stick his d*** in a girl. I would have the baby then put the boy's parents on child support.


how does it fix the problem a girl will get an abortion then be pregnant again 9 month later. How do we avoid abrotion from becomeing a form of birth control?

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

We need to wake up to the fact that teenagers are stupid. They do a lot of risky and dumb things. Making this girl have a baby she doesn't want will open us up to more Casey Anthony's. There are plenty of stories on the internet, magazines, and newspapers about teens who abuse, kill and abandon their babies. Whatever your belief about abortion is, it doesn't change the fact that this 15 year old doesn't want to be a mother and no one is going to make the boy be a father including his own parents. So what you end up with is a baby who is unwanted and unloved who has a snowball's chance in Hell of getting adopted. 

Tone said:



abortion is the problem now because kids see it as a form of birth control. Comdoms who needs them I can always get an abortion. We need to wake up to the fact that abrotion are being used as birth control. CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Yup and black children are hard to find homes for and black males are the hardest to place. This young, I vote abort. Baltimore city is living breathing proof that some teens are not good parents.

University of Smitty said:

10-30 thousand kids go unadopted every year
 
Miss Double Kiss said:

and that's why there's adoption. Lot's of people can't have babies who would jump at an opportunity to raise one or two...

University of Smitty said:

LOL @ putting his parents on CS.

 

I think she knows what's in store.  She already wants to have an abortion and I think if she's forced to keep the baby, said baby will catch hell with a 15 y.o. mother who didnt want it in the first place.  
Eleven8 said:

the only problem is, will she AND he learn from this mistake after the abortion procedure? if she goes back to being a little hot tail, what did the abortion resolve? and the boy's parents are dead wrong for teaching their son to not own up to his responsibility. I don't care how old he is, he should've learned how to put a condom on before he learned to stick his d*** in a girl. I would have the baby then put the boy's parents on child support.

You're the man. You mean YOU DON'T KNOW?????? *gasp* I thought men knew everything.

Tone said:


how does it fix the problem a girl will get an abortion then be pregnant again 9 month later. How do we avoid abrotion from becomeing a form of birth control?

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

We need to wake up to the fact that teenagers are stupid. They do a lot of risky and dumb things. Making this girl have a baby she doesn't want will open us up to more Casey Anthony's. There are plenty of stories on the internet, magazines, and newspapers about teens who abuse, kill and abandon their babies. Whatever your belief about abortion is, it doesn't change the fact that this 15 year old doesn't want to be a mother and no one is going to make the boy be a father including his own parents. So what you end up with is a baby who is unwanted and unloved who has a snowball's chance in Hell of getting adopted. 

Tone said:



abortion is the problem now because kids see it as a form of birth control. Comdoms who needs them I can always get an abortion. We need to wake up to the fact that abrotion are being used as birth control. CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Yup and black children are hard to find homes for and black males are the hardest to place. This young, I vote abort. Baltimore city is living breathing proof that some teens are not good parents.

University of Smitty said:

10-30 thousand kids go unadopted every year

Most of the time, those are kids that were forced into getting abortions, Tone.  I do believe that if a kid doesnt want an aborption, it's useless (and illegal) to force them because just like you said, they'll be pregnant again in 9 months.

Tone said:

how does it fix the problem a girl will get an abortion then be pregnant again 9 month later. How do we avoid abrotion from becomeing a form of birth control?

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

We need to wake up to the fact that teenagers are stupid. They do a lot of risky and dumb things. Making this girl have a baby she doesn't want will open us up to more Casey Anthony's. There are plenty of stories on the internet, magazines, and newspapers about teens who abuse, kill and abandon their babies. Whatever your belief about abortion is, it doesn't change the fact that this 15 year old doesn't want to be a mother and no one is going to make the boy be a father including his own parents. So what you end up with is a baby who is unwanted and unloved who has a snowball's chance in Hell of getting adopted. 
Tone said:


abortion is the problem now because kids see it as a form of birth control. Comdoms who needs them I can always get an abortion. We need to wake up to the fact that abrotion are being used as birth control. CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Yup and black children are hard to find homes for and black males are the hardest to place. This young, I vote abort. Baltimore city is living breathing proof that some teens are not good parents.
University of Smitty said:

10-30 thousand kids go unadopted every year  
Miss Double Kiss said:

and that's why there's adoption. Lot's of people can't have babies who would jump at an opportunity to raise one or two...
University of Smitty said:

LOL @ putting his parents on CS.

 

I think she knows what's in store.  She already wants to have an abortion and I think if she's forced to keep the baby, said baby will catch hell with a 15 y.o. mother who didnt want it in the first place.   Eleven8 said:

the only problem is, will she AND he learn from this mistake after the abortion procedure? if she goes back to being a little hot tail, what did the abortion resolve? and the boy's parents are dead wrong for teaching their son to not own up to his responsibility. I don't care how old he is, he should've learned how to put a condom on before he learned to stick his d*** in a girl. I would have the baby then put the boy's parents on child support.

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