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Permalink Reply by Miss Double Kiss on July 19, 2012 at 3:36pm

Agreed. There is now no excuse for this girl to not give her baby a chance. She is a mother now  whether she likes it or not or admits it. She spread them hips once and this is the lesson learned
 

Sissy said:

If there is someone who is willing and able to adopt this child, she should most definitely, absolutely positively keep it.  A person's life is way more important than some fast ass boy's hoop dreams...

I agree that the child will ask questions one day, and that should be part of the s*** that they have to go through as people who laid down and made a baby without being prepared.  You make "adult" moves, you have to make "adult" decisions and deal with the "adult" consequences.  The girl OR the boy get no sympathy from me.

She (the unborn child) sounds like he/she will have family members around her that will be able to explain the situation AND stress how important her life is- which is why she wasn't aborted.

 

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Permalink Reply by Brii on July 22, 2012 at 10:08am

Well my cousin decided to voice her opinion on the situation and she then stated that she was going to go forward and have an abortion. Well it damn near turned into an all out brawl my aunt (who can't have kids) took it PERSONAL!!!!!! She was talking to her like she was a grown woman who stole something from her rather than a 15 year old child. Her mother was crying all week but I guess she looked at it from her daughters P.O.V. and told the girl that this would be her first and last abortion. She's going to give her 2 days to sleep on it then see if she still wants to proceed.

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on July 22, 2012 at 8:24pm

Why didn't your cousin's mother just keep her mouth shut? She should have just kept it between her and her daughter then there wouldn't be all this upset. smh And that other aunt ought to be ashamed of herself. If she wants a child that badly there are plenty of little brown babies that are up for adoption right now she can adopt.

Brii said:

Well my cousin decided to voice her opinion on the situation and she then stated that she was going to go forward and have an abortion. Well it damn near turned into an all out brawl my aunt (who can't have kids) took it PERSONAL!!!!!! She was talking to her like she was a grown woman who stole something from her rather than a 15 year old child. Her mother was crying all week but I guess she looked at it from her daughters P.O.V. and told the girl that this would be her first and last abortion. She's going to give her 2 days to sleep on it then see if she still wants to proceed.

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Permalink Reply by WorkInProgress on July 23, 2012 at 8:35am

Depending on the circumstance. I'm not the judge of anyone but I have had a similar situation and it messed with me mentally until I had another child but rather its abortion or adoption either way there will be a second guessing somwewhere.

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Permalink Reply by SoLuscious on July 23, 2012 at 11:19am

agreed.

blackfujones said:

key word boy.....damn these kids make the worst decisions

@smitty im with you abort abort Ph@tty said:

So why is no one checking this boy and his family?

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Permalink Reply by Brii on July 23, 2012 at 1:01pm

@ CC because she can't hold water and my other aunt doesn't need a child if thats how she addresses one when she gets angry or doesn't get her way

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Permalink Reply by Miss Double Kiss on July 23, 2012 at 1:03pm

and if she goes with this "act"...who's paying for it?? the girl's mom?

That is what's gonna matter. Whoever agrees to pay for it. On average most teenagers don't have the $ sitting around to do it, so it's gonna be one of the "adults" who support her "decision" IF she decides to abort this child. They will live with this on their conscious too. Oh and if the adult cosigns to it, I guarantee it won't be this 15y.o. girl's last abortion...I promise that..
 
Brii said:

Well my cousin decided to voice her opinion on the situation and she then stated that she was going to go forward and have an abortion. Well it damn near turned into an all out brawl my aunt (who can't have kids) took it PERSONAL!!!!!! She was talking to her like she was a grown woman who stole something from her rather than a 15 year old child. Her mother was crying all week but I guess she looked at it from her daughters P.O.V. and told the girl that this would be her first and last abortion. She's going to give her 2 days to sleep on it then see if she still wants to proceed.

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on July 23, 2012 at 4:30pm

@ Brii Say that ish again! I agree to both points. 

@MDK, I agree that this probably won't be her last abortion but it will be the last one the family hears about. If she gets pregnant again and decides to abort, next time she'll just go off an have it on her own and not tell anyone.

Brii said:

@ CC because she can't hold water and my other aunt doesn't need a child if thats how she addresses one when she gets angry or doesn't get her way

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on July 23, 2012 at 5:55pm

IDK about that, CC.  Like WIP said it does f**k with you for a minute.  You pretty much go through the same emotional turmoil that you go through after giving birth......depression and all.  From my experience, only crazy muthaf**kas and addicts have abortions all like that.
 
CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

@ Brii Say that ish again! I agree to both points. 

@MDK, I agree that this probably won't be her last abortion but it will be the last one the family hears about. If she gets pregnant again and decides to abort, next time she'll just go off an have it on her own and not tell anyone.

Brii said:

@ CC because she can't hold water and my other aunt doesn't need a child if thats how she addresses one when she gets angry or doesn't get her way

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Permalink Reply by Brii on July 23, 2012 at 6:02pm

Now I'm worried

http://chicago.cbslocal.com/2012/07/21/woman-dies-following-abortio...

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Permalink Reply by Miss Double Kiss on July 24, 2012 at 11:31am

@Brii....

YES!! I just heard about that too.....I was gonna show you that....

I HATE to hear stories about this, but hey...it happens!

Even this guy makes a rattle over it....we should all think of BOTH the baby and mom in these situations and mourn BOTH deaths....

It's crazy because the mom/lady was trying to kill her baby and SHE ended up dying herself...This video is on point, imo. Harsh but it really happened!!

I'm glad he just reported on this too because it JUST HAPPENED and nobody's really talking about it...the abortion clinic killed this woman! This was just a few days ago.

Brii said:

Now I'm worried

http://chicago.cbslocal.com/2012/07/21/woman-dies-following-abortio...

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Permalink Reply by DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN on July 24, 2012 at 12:23pm

abortion - unless they wanna end up at the foodstamp and wic office. smh

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