For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
I know this sounds too easy, but I believe in being upfront with men. You can flirt and tease, but you have to watch what you're doing. If you're uncomfortable sleeping with a man you're not in a relationship with, then let him know. If you're only holding out for material things, then I believe it will backfire because it will show. I do not accept gifts, money, any kind of "charity" from a man I don't have an interest in seeing for an extended amount of time because they always expect something in return. Very few "ballers" will just hand any old woman anything. There are some fools out there, but hardworking men who know how to handle their business will not just give you a purse for showing up and going home later, leaving them to service themselves. Be honest with him, let him know how much you enjoy seeing him, but what your boundaries are. You need to carry yourself a certain way and stick to your word or you'll end up looking like a bigger fool in the end.