JOINING HAS ITS PRIVILEGES
AM I BEING STUPID?
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So I'm a female college student and I've been seeing this frat boy for almost two months now. I knew him since freshman year and had a crush on him but he had a girlfriend so I fell back. Then this year, my sophomore year his senior year, we started talking. We went to movies and hung out, the usual get to know each other phase. Then we had sex about a month into it. It was good and I started developing more feelings for him. We're in the same program at school and the program funded a trip for us. While there he tells me his feelings for me are stronger and he really cares about me but he has a wall up because he's only had a couple girlfriends and his last girlfriend turned out to be a hoe. I accepted that and told him I'd be patient We took a midnight stroll through the city and it was beautiful. I began to get my hopes up that he'll make me his girlfriend. We get back to school and everything is the same.
The problem is my patience is running out. I told him that I'm not used to waiting for any man and he said he wants to be with me but he's not ready. I recently stopped having sex with him because I feel like he's getting all the benefits of having a girlfriend without having one. Im also feeling a little used because it seems like he only hits me up late at night. We don't talk or see each other during the day, and this campus is small. I still like him a lot, he's really sweet to me but am I right? Am I being used?? Should I end this and keep it moving or should I wait it out?? I mean second semester is almost here, he hasn't made me his girlfriend and he graduates in the summer. Am I being stupid??
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The problem is my patience is running out. I told him that I'm not used to waiting for any man and he said he wants to be with me but he's not ready. I recently stopped having sex with him because I feel like he's getting all the benefits of having a girlfriend without having one. Im also feeling a little used because it seems like he only hits me up late at night. We don't talk or see each other during the day, and this campus is small. I still like him a lot, he's really sweet to me but am I right? Am I being used?? Should I end this and keep it moving or should I wait it out?? I mean second semester is almost here, he hasn't made me his girlfriend and he graduates in the summer. Am I being stupid??
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Permalink Reply by alluringeyes on -
Yes... she is being stupid. The fact that he calls at during booty call hours should have been a big clue that you're just a side piece.
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Permalink Reply by CreamyCazz on -
yes she's being stoopid lol let it go honey... he don't want u & if he did he wouldn't only call u late @ nite. He's runnin game.. the usual...
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Permalink Reply by MYPRESISBLACK!!! on -
He's just using her til graduation, then she still won't be his girlfriend and he will be moving on with his life, looking for a job, blah blah blah, and that'll be that. Keep it moving and don't look back.
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Permalink Reply by Peaches on -
You r too young to wait for bullish like this let him go get you someone who understands you want commitment or just enjoy your college life honey!I would fck a boy/man when you have a campus full...lol
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Permalink Reply by skyttlez77563 on -
I don't think you are being stupid. I do think you are being mislead though. I am not sure if you should leave or go only you can make a decision like that. Don't let anyone tell you what is in your heart and mind,if you feel you should leave than go ahead. I do believe that by him telling you that he is not ready that this was your cue to move on. That old saying rings true. Let him go,if he returns he's yours,if not, he was never yours to began with.
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Permalink Reply by Cookie Pie on -
He either needs to get it right or ' get to stepping ' ( In my Martin voice ) ..... She is being used by a guy who is not really man yet . My advice would be to throw yourself into your school work and don't look for love , when the right man comes along you wont have to worry about him coming around only at night .... you wont be able to get rid of him . Have respect for yourself and your body and leave this fool alone !
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Permalink Reply by Denise on -
You have answered your own question.....he is not checking for you like that.......you can like someone and not want to be with them.....so he likes you, he's attacted to you, and still wants to fuck you....but that's it....."he's just not that in to you".....not a big deal.....Don't like anyone who does like you more,,,,,,,that's the rule!
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Permalink Reply by Siren on -
the saying goes "Never make someone a priority while they only make you an option"
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Permalink Reply by Elise' on -
yes, you should be DATING others an keeping your options open..you gave him some it was good but keep it moving and get involved with others..
you could be missing out on a good guy waiting for him, I'd still see him but not have any more sex--unless you can handle the non commitment from him.
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wow!! their daughter damn near got her head kicked off. i know her neck/head is hurting like a motha fucka right now.
lol damn
He tried to holler at my homegirl and she asked him aren't you with monica he answered with 'so?" SMH.
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