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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on June 9, 2011 at 1:07pm

AWWWWW!!! Thanks DJ!!!! But you got to admit that we've had a lot of negative energy of late on this site  as well as the media and I got a lost in a minute. BA is where I come to let my hair down and enjoy some positive energy for awhile. I'm back on track now.

DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

now i hate to read stuff like this coming from a bunch of beautiful, successful, intelligent blk women. :(

i dont think this is as widespread as you guys make it seem. there are plenty of blk men out there like this and the media capitalizes on it due to the fact they know it will create a buzz so they glorify the ones who are with women of other races. i can only focus on what is right in front of me. i cant worry about what pookie and nem doing or what the man/woman's prefrence next door to me is. im sorry i see plenty of successful blk couples on a daily bases. for every successful blk women/man i see with another race, i see that x5 with blk on blk relationships. i guess i just dont pay that s*** much attention because i know when im ready to settle down i will find me a blk queen that will be on the same level im on or maybe even a little higher. ;)

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on June 9, 2011 at 1:12pm

I concur.  What in the hell is going on around here???? 

 

To the Originals: Is this what yall meant by 'Sybil' popping up every now and then??

CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:

AWWWWW!!! Thanks DJ!!!! But you got to admit that we've had a lot of negative energy of late on this site  as well as the media and I got a lost in a minute. BA is where I come to let my hair down and enjoy some positive energy for awhile. I'm back on track now.
DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

now i hate to read stuff like this coming from a bunch of beautiful, successful, intelligent blk women. :(

i dont think this is as widespread as you guys make it seem. there are plenty of blk men out there like this and the media capitalizes on it due to the fact they know it will create a buzz so they glorify the ones who are with women of other races. i can only focus on what is right in front of me. i cant worry about what pookie and nem doing or what the man/woman's prefrence next door to me is. im sorry i see plenty of successful blk couples on a daily bases. for every successful blk women/man i see with another race, i see that x5 with blk on blk relationships. i guess i just dont pay that s*** much attention because i know when im ready to settle down i will find me a blk queen that will be on the same level im on or maybe even a little higher. ;)

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Permalink Reply by Tracy on June 9, 2011 at 1:16pm

I agree wholeheartedly with you both.  I do think it is a REAL problem and issue, but I don't think it's as horrible as the media, etc make it seem.  CC you are absolutely right - the last few months we've experienced more negative posts, more negativity among posters and re-hashing of the same negative topics over and over.  I've even stop clicking on posts by certain individuals because the negativity is wearing.

CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:

AWWWWW!!! Thanks DJ!!!! But you got to admit that we've had a lot of negative energy of late on this site  as well as the media and I got a lost in a minute. BA is where I come to let my hair down and enjoy some positive energy for awhile. I'm back on track now.
DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

now i hate to read stuff like this coming from a bunch of beautiful, successful, intelligent blk women. :(

i dont think this is as widespread as you guys make it seem. there are plenty of blk men out there like this and the media capitalizes on it due to the fact they know it will create a buzz so they glorify the ones who are with women of other races. i can only focus on what is right in front of me. i cant worry about what pookie and nem doing or what the man/woman's prefrence next door to me is. im sorry i see plenty of successful blk couples on a daily bases. for every successful blk women/man i see with another race, i see that x5 with blk on blk relationships. i guess i just dont pay that s*** much attention because i know when im ready to settle down i will find me a blk queen that will be on the same level im on or maybe even a little higher. ;)

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Permalink Reply by Tracy on June 9, 2011 at 1:17pm

Lol, I think Sybil was because there were people posting as more than one person.  We still have a few.......

University of Smitty said:

I concur.  What in the hell is going on around here???? 

 

To the Originals: Is this what yall meant by 'Sybil' popping up every now and then??
CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:

AWWWWW!!! Thanks DJ!!!! But you got to admit that we've had a lot of negative energy of late on this site  as well as the media and I got a lost in a minute. BA is where I come to let my hair down and enjoy some positive energy for awhile. I'm back on track now. DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

now i hate to read stuff like this coming from a bunch of beautiful, successful, intelligent blk women. :(

i dont think this is as widespread as you guys make it seem. there are plenty of blk men out there like this and the media capitalizes on it due to the fact they know it will create a buzz so they glorify the ones who are with women of other races. i can only focus on what is right in front of me. i cant worry about what pookie and nem doing or what the man/woman's prefrence next door to me is. im sorry i see plenty of successful blk couples on a daily bases. for every successful blk women/man i see with another race, i see that x5 with blk on blk relationships. i guess i just dont pay that s*** much attention because i know when im ready to settle down i will find me a blk queen that will be on the same level im on or maybe even a little higher. ;)I

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Permalink Reply by DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN on June 9, 2011 at 1:33pm

cool....i have noticed that as well. just to sum it up though. alot of these post are started just to get responses. we all know whenever u say something about race, blk women, etc. people will respond. i just dont feed into that s***. if its funny i will maybe respond with a laugh or some s*** like that, but to give it a good "this is how i feel on the matter" type of resonse, not so much.

CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:

AWWWWW!!! Thanks DJ!!!! But you got to admit that we've had a lot of negative energy of late on this site  as well as the media and I got a lost in a minute. BA is where I come to let my hair down and enjoy some positive energy for awhile. I'm back on track now.
DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

now i hate to read stuff like this coming from a bunch of beautiful, successful, intelligent blk women. :(

i dont think this is as widespread as you guys make it seem. there are plenty of blk men out there like this and the media capitalizes on it due to the fact they know it will create a buzz so they glorify the ones who are with women of other races. i can only focus on what is right in front of me. i cant worry about what pookie and nem doing or what the man/woman's prefrence next door to me is. im sorry i see plenty of successful blk couples on a daily bases. for every successful blk women/man i see with another race, i see that x5 with blk on blk relationships. i guess i just dont pay that s*** much attention because i know when im ready to settle down i will find me a blk queen that will be on the same level im on or maybe even a little higher. ;)

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on June 9, 2011 at 1:36pm

I think we are missing Siren. She always had something positive to post weekly.

Tracy said:

I agree wholeheartedly with you both.  I do think it is a REAL problem and issue, but I don't think it's as horrible as the media, etc make it seem.  CC you are absolutely right - the last few months we've experienced more negative posts, more negativity among posters and re-hashing of the same negative topics over and over.  I've even stop clicking on posts by certain individuals because the negativity is wearing.
CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:

AWWWWW!!! Thanks DJ!!!! But you got to admit that we've had a lot of negative energy of late on this site  as well as the media and I got a lost in a minute. BA is where I come to let my hair down and enjoy some positive energy for awhile. I'm back on track now. DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

now i hate to read stuff like this coming from a bunch of beautiful, successful, intelligent blk women. :(

i dont think this is as widespread as you guys make it seem. there are plenty of blk men out there like this and the media capitalizes on it due to the fact they know it will create a buzz so they glorify the ones who are with women of other races. i can only focus on what is right in front of me. i cant worry about what pookie and nem doing or what the man/woman's prefrence next door to me is. im sorry i see plenty of successful blk couples on a daily bases. for every successful blk women/man i see with another race, i see that x5 with blk on blk relationships. i guess i just dont pay that s*** much attention because i know when im ready to settle down i will find me a blk queen that will be on the same level im on or maybe even a little higher. ;)

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on June 9, 2011 at 1:38pm

Boy, stop.  I guess we should all stay in the projects as not to disgress black men....too funny  LMAO

Tone said:

The problem is men and women can't be on the same level and have things workout. white women are not on white men level Asian women are not on Asian men level and Hispanic women are not on Hispanic women level.  But if you look at the black community  black women are the ones on top not the men. Now what a lot of black women don't understand is every advancement you make means the digression of  black men.  Now it is not the black woman's fault this happens it is just pure racism and it is so covert that you wont really see it and can't prove it.

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Permalink Reply by DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN on June 9, 2011 at 1:57pm

actually, i've never had an issue getting a job. i have been hired for mgt. positions even when i knew i was not qualified (at that time)  enough for it.

Tone said:

No it really means we need to start to build our own so we don't have to go to the white man for work. But black men have the hardest time getting jobs and i am not talking about ray ray and pookie dudes i am talking about college education black men.

University of Smitty said:

Boy, stop.  I guess we should all stay in the projects as not to disgress black men....too funny  LMAO

Tone said:

The problem is men and women can't be on the same level and have things workout. white women are not on white men level Asian women are not on Asian men level and Hispanic women are not on Hispanic women level.  But if you look at the black community  black women are the ones on top not the men. Now what a lot of black women don't understand is every advancement you make means the digression of  black men.  Now it is not the black woman's fault this happens it is just pure racism and it is so covert that you wont really see it and can't prove it.

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Permalink Reply by SACK CHASER on June 9, 2011 at 2:10pm

*blows Don a kiss*

DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

now i hate to read stuff like this coming from a bunch of beautiful, successful, intelligent blk women. :(

i dont think this is as widespread as you guys make it seem. there are plenty of blk men out there like this and the media capitalizes on it due to the fact they know it will create a buzz so they glorify the ones who are with women of other races. i can only focus on what is right in front of me. i cant worry about what pookie and nem doing or what the man/woman's prefrence next door to me is. im sorry i see plenty of successful blk couples on a daily bases. for every successful blk women/man i see with another race, i see that x5 with blk on blk relationships. i guess i just dont pay that s*** much attention because i know when im ready to settle down i will find me a blk queen that will be on the same level im on or maybe even a little higher. ;)

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Permalink Reply by DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN on June 9, 2011 at 2:14pm

*catches it*

SACK CHASER said:

*blows Don a kiss*

DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

now i hate to read stuff like this coming from a bunch of beautiful, successful, intelligent blk women. :(

i dont think this is as widespread as you guys make it seem. there are plenty of blk men out there like this and the media capitalizes on it due to the fact they know it will create a buzz so they glorify the ones who are with women of other races. i can only focus on what is right in front of me. i cant worry about what pookie and nem doing or what the man/woman's prefrence next door to me is. im sorry i see plenty of successful blk couples on a daily bases. for every successful blk women/man i see with another race, i see that x5 with blk on blk relationships. i guess i just dont pay that s*** much attention because i know when im ready to settle down i will find me a blk queen that will be on the same level im on or maybe even a little higher. ;)

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on June 9, 2011 at 2:23pm

DJ have you been told what an awesome black man you are today? No? Well here you go! *runs before SC takes a switch to me* lol

DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

actually, i've never had an issue getting a job. i have been hired for mgt. positions even when i knew i was not qualified (at that time)  enough for it.
Tone said:

No it really means we need to start to build our own so we don't have to go to the white man for work. But black men have the hardest time getting jobs and i am not talking about ray ray and pookie dudes i am talking about college education black men.

University of Smitty said:

Boy, stop.  I guess we should all stay in the projects as not to disgress black men....too funny  LMAO

Tone said:

The problem is men and women can't be on the same level and have things workout. white women are not on white men level Asian women are not on Asian men level and Hispanic women are not on Hispanic women level.  But if you look at the black community  black women are the ones on top not the men. Now what a lot of black women don't understand is every advancement you make means the digression of  black men.  Now it is not the black woman's fault this happens it is just pure racism and it is so covert that you wont really see it and can't prove it.

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Permalink Reply by SACK CHASER on June 9, 2011 at 2:32pm

Lol

CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:

DJ have you been told what an awesome black man you are today? No? Well here you go! *runs before SC takes a switch to me* lol

DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

actually, i've never had an issue getting a job. i have been hired for mgt. positions even when i knew i was not qualified (at that time)  enough for it. Tone said:

No it really means we need to start to build our own so we don't have to go to the white man for work. But black men have the hardest time getting jobs and i am not talking about ray ray and pookie dudes i am talking about college education black men.

University of Smitty said:

Boy, stop.  I guess we should all stay in the projects as not to disgress black men....too funny  LMAO

Tone said:

The problem is men and women can't be on the same level and have things workout. white women are not on white men level Asian women are not on Asian men level and Hispanic women are not on Hispanic women level.  But if you look at the black community  black women are the ones on top not the men. Now what a lot of black women don't understand is every advancement you make means the digression of  black men.  Now it is not the black woman's fault this happens it is just pure racism and it is so covert that you wont really see it and can't prove it.

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