For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
Im in Wally's world aka WALMART with my 11yr old picking up a few things for the house. As we're walking a group of lil boys walk past us and i overhear one of them whisper 'goddamn she thick'.....ladies n gentlemen I didnt respond well to that one.
My question is when did you first start noticing boys or as my mother would say 'start smelling yourself'
in elementary school probably 2nd grade as well
I was 13.
I dont remember a time when I didnt notice boys, so I guess my daughter has it honest. She's been flirting with every handsome male that's crossed her path since she was 2 y.o.
I far as sexually, I guess I was about 14-15 but I didnt start having sex until I was 18.
Well, sad for me because I had a young mother. She didn't hesitate to have many a men around and needless to say I was molested at an early age so I've always known what little boys were for. Now, I also knew what "girls" were for too. My mom was a young bi-sexual freak and it went down in our house many a days, evenings and nights. I've known about sex and the "feeling" since 5 or so and I'm 30. No pitty party though because God is good all the time!
Now, I personally shut myself off from boys until 17. My younger brother and sister both kissed and lost their virginity way before I did. I have a 10 year old daughther and my nephew let me know that his homies were checking out my daughter's booty. Needless to say I let that little f***** know I visit the school often and I won't hesitate to bust his head to the white meat. He probably told his momma I said so but if she want it she can get it too! Now don't think I didn't jack my daughter up and let her know that i've been a pre-teen, teenager and a hot ass 18-21 year old girl so I will f*** her up the minute I see those BREAST get big over night lmao. But I later let her know that it is perfectly normal to "like" boys but boys will be around forever. I also told her that as long as she wants anything from me she needs to focus on her grades first. She's showing early signs of being the "good for mom but do what the f*** i want when she's not looking" type. That's perfectly fine with me, but her little ass will be at the GYN every month for std/pregancy/birth control education once she turns 13. I know they won't give girls a pap until they admit they've had sex but I prefer to get an early start. All in all kids will be kids. Parents need to be pro-active and not re-active!
I would have to say second grade too. I didnt start playing freaky games like "hide and go get it" till I was like 13, and I didnt have sex til I was almost 19. The sex part was from listening to my daddy all the time, talking about "niggas" and being a notch in their belts. I didnt want that, so I held out. I had my first true love at 15, but actually had sex with my boyfriend (second love) at 18. I say, teach your daughters from a male perspective and they wont get into sex until they are "mature"
enough to handle it. My first love told me the other day that "he wished he was the one to bust that h*** open, so my pu$$y would always be formed to his d***" so....................lol, hearing that, I was happy to not have him as a first, with crazy ass thought process like that.
I saw this and it reminded me of you. T.I went in on this little boy for disrespecting his daughter LOL
“Ni**a u ever disrespect me & mines like that again I’m gon throw more $$$ at ya head than it cost to build yo mama a new house. Boy don’t f**k your sad a*s lil life up before i can get it started…u gon get yaself *F**ked* aight…in ya mouth wit ya own lil pee-pee. Now keep playin round wit it lil homie. #NoBulls**t.”
I've always had little boyfriends in elementary school. It was cute over how they'd fight over who was gonna loan me pencils in class. Of course lil Eddie always won that one because he had the "cool pencils." You know the ones where you pull the lead thingy out of the top when it got dull and pushed it up the bottom so the next one would come out. Yea, Lil Eddie had that on lock until Lil Bobby popped up with the mechanical pencils. But Jeremiah, yea, he trumped them all because he used to walk me to AND from school. Of course, the only reason he could pull this trump card was because he lived like three houses down from me. But he DEFINITELY worked his advantage. LOL
Seriously, though, noticing boys sexually... I'd say 9th grade maybe, I think. I mean, I liked dude, but... nah, I never thought about smanging him though. The first guy that ever made me want to go there was a senior I was seeing during my sophomore year. Kept my pants up and skirts down, though, until years later....
Seventh grade. I saw this 14year old at the pool with his shirt off. He had gotten a happy trail during the summer under his belly button...my young little eyes followed that line down to his swim trunks waist and got all kinda inappropriate thoughts. He saw me looking too cause he gave me this look and I got all kind of butterflies. Lawd.
My dad was there though so it kept me in check. Who knows what kind of mischief I could have gotten into without my dad around. #papasgirl
I noticed boys in elementary school when we played "tag" but called it boys chase girls or girls chase boys. I liked my first white boy in 5th grade mmmm Michael Newton...
Anyway, but in a sexual way I didn't notice them until I was 13/14.