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Are you Dating A Woman or A Chickenhead?
I read this article over at Hello Beautiful and it was a rebuttal to an article called "Are you dating man or a boy"
Even though this article was written for a man, after reading it which one are you?
- Women Do Not Always Have To Be Right: Sadly enough this cuts down like 50% of the ‘women’ over the age of 25. A woman while confident in her opinions and beliefs will willingly listen to and accept that others will not share the same opinion and be able to keep peace throughout the storm. A chickenhead will become verbally aggressive to get her point across, through and to the bitter death. Annnnd although she may know that she is right will let her partner feel as though he is because men are allowed to have one victory out of ten #womancode #menthankmelater
- Women Refrain From Putting Others Down: Let’s face it we all do a little people bashing from time to time but a woman knows her limitations and frankly has more important matters to attend to. A chickenhead will spend an ample amount of time preaching from her holier than thou pulpit, until your ears ache.
- Women Live Within Their Means: Men, many of the other women you dated may have demanded coach purses and toted around Louis this and Gucci that, but a woman with a firm grip on her personal finances would rather see her money grow then put on a show.
- Women Have Hobbies and Are Active in Extra-curricular Activities: It’s not that chickenheads don’t have hobbies or extra-curricular activities; they usually just don’t involve things you can speak about with the family over dinner.
- Women Take An Interest In Learning About Others: Although collecting model cars may not be her thing, she will do her best to learn about the activity in order to know more about you.
- Women Do Not Accept The Victim Role: This is a tough one and relates back to #1. One of the most definitive factors between a girl and a woman is that a woman knows how to move on after tragedy. This means that she seeks out help, is willing to work through her issues and refuses to wallow in them.
- Women Put Family First: A woman will sacrifice splurging on a brand new leather tee, Watch the Throne concert, and a day at the spa to have QT with her folks, or her children. She recognizes that men, an active nightlife and an all-inclusive vacation are things that flail in comparison to her loved ones.
- Women Love Themselves: This is also a difficult concept to grasp because intangible but a woman who loves herself carries herself with the utmost respect and grace. She gives off an aura of confidence that is more contagious than it is pretentious or unattainable. People feel comfortable in her presence and want to be around her.
- Women Know When To Say No: I’ll be real with you I got this from that Raheem Devaughan joint, ‘Woman’ but it’s so true. A woman recognizes when a man isn’t ready to love her the way she deserves to be loved and has the strength and dignity to tell you no. Her value system is so intact that she has no problem turning down a man’s pre-mature yet charming advances.
- Women Willingly Sacrifice Appearance: This is a major one. With our society being so commercialized and superficial a woman who can sacrifice getting regular mani and pedis or going on shopping trips to make ends meet or to save up for that new house or all inclusive vacation has come into her own. It’s not that she isn’t materialistic, because she may very well love and deserve her regular pampering but she has the ability to see into the future and stick to a plan that requires discipline and love. Sacrifice is one of the key elements of love.
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
This is spot on. I'm a woman with a little chickenhead mixed in. I am working on getting rid of the chickenhead tendencies.
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Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on -
LOL! Me too. I have a problem with always trying to be right and, believe it or not, I still haven't grasped the concept of putting family first. Sometimes I can be really selfish. I also need to learn to sacrifice my appearance because that is something I have yet to learn as well. Everything else, I'm absolutely in tune with.
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:This is spot on. I'm a woman with a little chickenhead mixed in. I am working on getting rid of the chickenhead tendencies.
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on
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My problem is learning to say No. I've gotten a lot better at it. And I'm still working on extra curricular activities that benefit my community. I can be a selfish heffa when it comes to my Me Time. lol
BabyBallerCheeks said:LOL! Me too. I have a problem with always trying to be right and, believe it or not, I still haven't grasped the concept of putting family first. Sometimes I can be really selfish. I also need to learn to sacrifice my appearance because that is something I have yet to learn as well. Everything else, I'm absolutely in tune with.
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:This is spot on. I'm a woman with a little chickenhead mixed in. I am working on getting rid of the chickenhead tendencies.
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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on -
This is cute. There are many things in my life that I cannot change. What I can change is my chickenhead attitude. Today, I can accept my life as it is. I can be grateful and happy, here and now, with what I have.Part-time Chickenhead. Fulltime Hustler. 100% Baller. Jus sayin.
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on
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LOL I love it!
l8dy-c said:This is cute. There are many things in my life that I cannot change. What I can change is my chickenhead attitude. Today, I can accept my life as it is. I can be grateful and happy, here and now, with what I have.Part-time Chickenhead. Fulltime Hustler. 100% Baller. Jus sayin.
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Permalink Reply by AllyNWonderland on -
From 2 down Im spot on...but #1???? Wellllll I don't LIKE to be wrong, and I usually won't debate you unless I KNOW I'm right!!!
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Permalink Reply by Siren on -
I like this list a whole lot! reading it is a reminder of how far I have come... I used to be a mess LOL
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