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Sooooooooo I ended things with married man....I told him when he actually leaves his wife if im still available and interested maybe then we could talk which I know he had no true intentions of leaving his wife.But I did meet a new guy which is 35 never married no kids has a career own home and a rental property.He's super nice he's not attractive like how I would usually like but I can stand to look at him.Its refreshing to be able to have someone that is not married or in a relationship with someone else.But my biggest dilemma is i genuinely like him and i would feel bad asking and taking money how i usually do.Is this normal?
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Permalink Reply by Phoenix on -
Geesh @ jumping from one to the next. But I LOVE that you stood up to the married man. How did he take it? Was he upset?
Also, I have that same issue. Asking someone I actually LIKE for money or favors. *sits and waits for the answer*
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on -
I could have sworn you broke up with him a few months back but ok.
I'm totally clueless as to not wanting to ask him for money because you like him. I mean I only like guys that give me what I want. How do they know what I want if I dont tell them???? I dont really take anything from guys I dont like because I dont want to be bothered with their azz...*shrug*
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on -
Yeah, don't want any stalkers.
University of Smitty said:I could have sworn you broke up with him a few months back but ok.
I'm totally clueless as to not wanting to ask him for money because you like him. I mean I only like guys that give me what I want. How do they know what I want if I dont tell them???? I dont really take anything from guys I dont like because I dont want to be bothered with their azz...*shrug*
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
*hugs* I am very happy to hear this!
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on
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Exactly!!!!
Fellas, if I'm taking your money, it's only because I REALLY like you and I think your special. I dont just take everybody's money, ok. So instead of being stingy, you should be flattered lol
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:
Yeah, don't want any stalkers.
University of Smitty said:I could have sworn you broke up with him a few months back but ok.
I'm totally clueless as to not wanting to ask him for money because you like him. I mean I only like guys that give me what I want. How do they know what I want if I dont tell them???? I dont really take anything from guys I dont like because I dont want to be bothered with their azz...*shrug*
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Permalink Reply by PrettyPretty on -
Yea,I met another one after him smh
University of Smitty said:I could have sworn you broke up with him a few months back but ok.
I'm totally clueless as to not wanting to ask him for money because you like him. I mean I only like guys that give me what I want. How do they know what I want if I dont tell them???? I dont really take anything from guys I dont like because I dont want to be bothered with their azz...*shrug*
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Permalink Reply by PrettyPretty on
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Well he told me I was confused and blah blah...I was like if your so serious about me then move out and he gave me a million reasons why he couldnt. Obviously he wanted his cake and eat it to but I told him you pretend like your going to work to hangout with me but if you two are in the same house but not dealing you just go he tells me he has to respect his house I was like when you leave call me...And he goes to say I didnt really like him and I dont understand
Phoenix said:Geesh @ jumping from one to the next. But I LOVE that you stood up to the married man. How did he take it? Was he upset?
Also, I have that same issue. Asking someone I actually LIKE for money or favors. *sits and waits for the answer*
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Permalink Reply by Sheli on -
Wait, so this is a diff married dude from the one whose wife you met?
PrettyPretty said:Yea,I met another one after him smh
University of Smitty said:I could have sworn you broke up with him a few months back but ok.
I'm totally clueless as to not wanting to ask him for money because you like him. I mean I only like guys that give me what I want. How do they know what I want if I dont tell them???? I dont really take anything from guys I dont like because I dont want to be bothered with their azz...*shrug*
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on
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WTH??? Don't you respect your house by NOT cheating? It amazes me how people convince themselves what they're doing is OK. smh
PrettyPretty said:Well he told me I was confused and blah blah...I was like if your so serious about me then move out and he gave me a million reasons why he couldnt. Obviously he wanted his cake and eat it to but I told him you pretend like your going to work to hangout with me but if you two are in the same house but not dealing you just go he tells me he has to respect his house I was like when you leave call me...And he goes to say I didnt really like him and I dont understand
Phoenix said:Geesh @ jumping from one to the next. But I LOVE that you stood up to the married man. How did he take it? Was he upset?
Also, I have that same issue. Asking someone I actually LIKE for money or favors. *sits and waits for the answer*
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Permalink Reply by Phoenix on
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I tolerate men who give me money. I give them my time and my conversation. Very rarely do I give them my body. We can sext or video chat, whatever. But it's just an even trade.
If I like someone, I feel like the even trade are the feelings between us. That time and conversation is genuine. I don't want them to feel like I'm using them. I use the guys I don't care about. The ones I care about, I treat differently. And usually, the ones I like will fork over the money just because I didn't expect it or ask for it (because they felt I deserved it).
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Permalink Reply by PrettyPretty on
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Yea
Sheli said:Wait, so this is a diff married dude from the one whose wife you met?
PrettyPretty said:Yea,I met another one after him smh
University of Smitty said:I could have sworn you broke up with him a few months back but ok.
I'm totally clueless as to not wanting to ask him for money because you like him. I mean I only like guys that give me what I want. How do they know what I want if I dont tell them???? I dont really take anything from guys I dont like because I dont want to be bothered with their azz...*shrug*
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Permalink Reply by PrettyPretty on
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nods in agreement
Phoenix said:I tolerate men who give me money. I give them my time and my conversation. Very rarely do I give them my body. We can sext or video chat, whatever. But it's just an even trade.
If I like someone, I feel like the even trade are the feelings between us. That time and conversation is genuine. I don't want them to feel like I'm using them. I use the guys I don't care about. The ones I care about, I treat differently. And usually, the ones I like will fork over the money just because I didn't expect it or ask for it (because they felt I deserved it).
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