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Permalink Reply by PlaneJaneLane on February 19, 2012 at 12:50am

Aaron Patzer who sold Mint.com for $170 million driving a Subaru Outback not to mention that prior to this he was driving a 1996 Ford Contour.

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Permalink Reply by PrettyPretty on February 19, 2012 at 9:41am

Yea,he told me he was used ALOT in the past and he doesnt want to do all the work to end up with nothing to show for it.........

Honeycoated said:

i feel like maybe he's been hurt and/or used alot in the past so now it's to the point where he is being more cautious, whereas if Pretty had dated him when they originally met and he hadnt been so scorned yet, she would get what she's used to getting.

Even if a man or woman is a baller, if they keep getting used, they gonna pull back a little. The money they spent might not have made a dent in their bank account, but it was still money wasted on someone who was a user and they start thinking "I want to see if this person really want to be with ME" He said out his mouth he wants to see if you guys are on the same page and if you're worth the effort. I dont blame him.

Love is a Losing Game said:

Oh yea, and for him to say if you do this, then I'll do more of that is red flag to me. He should do what he does and if it does not work out the way he wanted, take it as a loss and keep it moving.

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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on February 19, 2012 at 11:47am

i often did that in my early 20s.  Id take em to moms basement or a hotel instead of my house I had.  Or I drive my work vehicle instead of the "going out" vehicle.  You'd be amazed the looks you get from women lol

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

yeah, a friend of mine was telling me about one of his homeboys...he met a chick online, they had been conversating, seemed to click well so decided to meet..he didnt drive his luxury car to meet her he borrowed a friends car to see her reaction and if anything between them would change. 
 
PrettyPretty said:

I think I want a relationship Ive dated lots of guys and all different types single/with a girlfriend/with a wife/kids no kids and beyond the financial it was never really fulfilling Im at a point I dont want to be the 30yr old heaux still d*** hoppin....I think its a principle thing because we were out for drinks and this random girl just ran up on and started hugging him and he was like hey and introduced me immediately she was like hey im sorry he is like my brother and gave me a hug and whispered in my ear he got money and he a good guy keep him I bust out laughing....He gave me the craziest look and as soon as she walked off he asked what she told me I said that your a nice guy but I think he knew I was lying.Oh,no it was something I needed fixed and he dropped it off for me and he told me how much it was so id interpret that as I have to pay...Yea,I think he is serious he introduces me to everyone as his future wife and he is 10yrs my senior he always say im older and I know the games so maybe he is being cautious and making sure im not just bout money

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

I'm with you on this Honey.  Pretty, what do you want outta this relationship is da question?  If it's nothing move on because he can't do what you need him to, bit if it's a real relationship, then you may have to stop thinking all about money. OAN:  it nay be possible that he do have it but it may just be a principle thing.  Did u ask for what he have you or did he just say "here goes 50 for your light bill"

Honeycoated said:

What is it you really want? A man that is "frugal" but will treat you right. Or a man that can spend on you in one day, what it takes others to make in a year, but there's alot of other b******* involved? It's like you cannever really get everything all in one guy. Sweet but cheap. Good d*** but a whore and liar. Baller but boring or bad sex. You gotta see if his good ways may outshine the fact that you cant go shopping the way you want to

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Permalink Reply by PrettyPretty on February 22, 2012 at 4:26pm

Soooo I guess I got my answer as to whether or not he is willing to spend.....I had a dire emergency this weekend and I was talking to him and just started crying telling him I didnt know how I was going to fix the situation needless to say he came thru to my rescue and has been doing everything to help me and told me whats his is mine and he is behind me 100%. I dont know what made him switch like that from closed hand to giving so freely

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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on February 22, 2012 at 4:52pm

aw sheeeeeit! Lock down that ninja, and quickly! Ol' girl already told you the deal.

PrettyPretty said:

Soooo I guess I got my answer as to whether or not he is willing to spend.....I had a dire emergency this weekend and I was talking to him and just started crying telling him I didnt know how I was going to fix the situation needless to say he came thru to my rescue and has been doing everything to help me and told me whats his is mine and he is behind me 100%. I dont know what made him switch like that from closed hand to giving so freely

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Permalink Reply by Brii on February 22, 2012 at 5:13pm

CONGRATS GIRL!!!!!

PrettyPretty said:

Soooo I guess I got my answer as to whether or not he is willing to spend.....I had a dire emergency this weekend and I was talking to him and just started crying telling him I didnt know how I was going to fix the situation needless to say he came thru to my rescue and has been doing everything to help me and told me whats his is mine and he is behind me 100%. I dont know what made him switch like that from closed hand to giving so freely

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