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Permalink Reply by Rev on June 8, 2010 at 7:16pm

got anything for me ladies?

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Permalink Reply by Phoenix Alexander on June 8, 2010 at 7:21pm

How sweet of you to be taking the lead on adding the spark back to your relationship!!! I don't have anything for you at this moment , but I will be back with some ideas :)

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Permalink Reply by Rev on June 8, 2010 at 7:30pm

i try lol, and thanks!

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Permalink Reply by Monica Amazing on June 8, 2010 at 9:47pm

Does your city offer helicopter rides of the city? Near water? (sunset cruise/dinner cruise), movies in the park, walking tour at the garden (if your city has a botanical garden), hotair balloon ride, carriage ride, sporting event w/awesome seats and have a special message displayed on the scoreboard(most teams will do this for a fee), two personbike ride tour, find a rooftop lounge and watch the sunset while having drinks, paint your own pottery shop, make your own cupcake/dessert date...

Its hard to give suggestion without knowing your city.

Google: Fun things to do in (your city). You'd be surprised what pops up.

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Permalink Reply by PrettyPretty on June 8, 2010 at 11:46pm

I personally find it nice when someone does something they haven't done in a long time like what he did to first get me.....Sometimes people get complacent think about somethings you did in the beginning that you use to do that you stopped doing or something she constantly complains about (if she does)

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on June 9, 2010 at 12:36am

I know where i live we have the weekender paper that tells whats goin on. check out the living section in the newspaper and it should tell u of different thing going on such as crawfish festivals, jazz conerts, and things like that. a lot of ppl dont know so they dont go to these type of things. also try go online and type in events in your cty. Try a picnic @ a park, lake or s.thing. do you fish? has she ever been? even if yall dont catch anything, just being together and trying may work. go to a nearby city and see what they have goin on. plan a night with friends or other couples playing board games and cards. plan a massage, pampering night for her with you doing all the pampering...it may not be righ tbu tjst the thought and u guys should have fun doing it.

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on June 9, 2010 at 1:38am

OH YEAH, GOOGLE EDIBLE ARRANGEMENTS.COM TO SEE IF U HAVE ONE IN YUOR CITY/GREAT FRUIT BASKETS

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Permalink Reply by Kit Kat on June 9, 2010 at 8:06am

Mini-Golf... Its fun and it can be romantic... It will give you two the chance to feel like kids again :-) I looked it up (your profile mentions Bakersfield) and there's a glow in the dark mini-golf place in your area....

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on June 9, 2010 at 9:11am

Awwww Rev.......I think you've just tied the Don for my favorite dude on here lol

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Permalink Reply by Ms. Ashley Banks on June 9, 2010 at 10:05am

Ooooo! I have some cousins going through something similar (they've moved to a small town that is just DEAD on the nights and weekends). What you can do is talk to a few businesses that offer things she likes, and plan a scavenger hunt, and she'll go to each one and they'll have something you've bought/arranged waiting for her. My cousin is a girly girl, plays volleyball, and sings in her church's choir. Her husband had her clues set up similar to this:

1) Go purchase new volleyball equipment w/a gift card for about $25 for her to get some shorts/knee pads
2) Go to music store and purchase new music books and CDs w/another gift card
3) Go get a manicure and a pedicure (he paid for the services in advance)
4) Go have lunch at Restaurant X and he met her at the restaurant and they had a nice lunch and went somewhere else.

I know they are on a budget, so he had to figure out how to scrape up $150 out of their tight budget on payday. He also did it as a way for her to see what their town had to offer because their schedules are totally different (she works overnight at a hospital) and she's not the type to venture out alone.

GOOD LUCK!!!!! I hope your fiance realizes she is a very lucky woman.

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on June 9, 2010 at 10:09am

I am a huge fan of this. It reminds her of how much you care even when you aren't around.

california said:

small things player, small things...fresh flowers, short walks, movie nights, cooking, massages, baths, intimate little notes placed n her purse, clothing pocket etc, hotel getaways, the new i phones- u can see each other when talking, work her a$$ out in bed....treat her how you would like to be treated.

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Permalink Reply by Rev on June 9, 2010 at 12:19pm

this was 1 of my first thoughts, that means i'm on the right track haha thanks ill definitely stash this 1 near the top of my list thanks!

Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux said:

Surprise her and book a room @ a hotel for a night (or the weekend) and just shut out the world. That means shut off your cell phones and just let it be the two of you... It will give you the opportunity to refresh and spend quality time together.

You never have to leave the room...wink, wink.

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