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Everytime I meet a guy tht has a kid, I cringe a little. Ive passed up opportunities to have relationships with ballers and regular guys b/c of it. My problem is I look too far into the future and remind myself of things like "my first child wont be his first child" "the baby mama will always be around" and "the child will always come first" and although I would expect a real man to put his child first, it would still bother me to come last. My logic is im almost 22 years old, no kids, abt to graduate college. Im free to do anything. A man with a child cant do that. I like being free. I figure once im 30, and my biological clock is beginning to tick, then I would be more able to date a man with a child. Idk, am I tripping? How do you ladies feel abt dating a many with churrn (children)?
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Permalink Reply by JustMe on -
Amen to that!!!! Had issues w/ my ex husbands baby mama... Until I told her & her food stamp worker that I needed a DNA test to justify the need for an income report from me... If the DNA test proved that I was the father, I would have no problem forwarding all the necessary information to the proper officials... That was the end of that.
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:My mind is always on my money. It is hard to come by nowadays. So I'm always stopping and asking: How does this affect my household income?
Love is a Losing Game said:Yes, Yes, Yes! NOT my money, Honey!
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:I think like this. too. I can't take a guy seriously who has a child. We can be friends and kick it if there is chemistry but not a LTR. Nope. In my mind is the fact that if you marry him then the BM or BMs can go back to court and ask for an increase in child support if you are bringing any ends into the marriage. I'm bringing ends. I didn't f** for that kid and I ain't supporting it either. F** what you heard.
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Permalink Reply by Collete on -
@ Love, i am 33 and wont/cant do BM....too much hassle
Love is a Losing Game said:I'm 30 and still refuse to date a man with kids. If I meet a dude and I like him and stuff, and he's talking about marriage, I MAY be able to handle ONE child. Two, NOPE! If I'm just kickin it wit this dude, I don't care about his LIFE, lol so his kids don't matter to me. But to settle down with?? He gots to be a good catch and I can't do more than one child, and I would prefer that child to be like 10 or 12, lol. I meet A LOT of men 30 and over that have good credentials and do not have kids. Don't believe the hype and don't settle.
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