I've been a member of BA for almost two years and it has upped my life tremendously. When I first joined I was dating a guy that worked in the backroom at Forever 21 and lived with his father. Today I'm dating a computer engineer who makes about about a half million dollars a year, has no kids, his own home, multiple benzs in the garage and is ready to marry me. Being with him is everything that I have ever asked, prayed, dressed up and put on my pumps for. But I'm 20 years old and scared as hell. He is always supportive of me and is veryyy generous from big things (I need a car, he's offered to buy me a Benz) to little things (he wants to go on vacation to Aruba and offered to buy my passport.) He's thirty five and I wonder sometimes if he's treating me as a pet and likes to do things to show me off. (When we're in his car with the top down and people look at me he pulls me close and kisses me.) Another thing I wonder about is because of this age difference if he's doing these things because he likes to be in control, so since I'm young and don't have real money that he can control the situation with money. He's never acted like that before but I'm scared that it's coming as we've only been dating for 2 months.
So my questions are:
-Should I accept these extravagant gifts (he's offered cars, jewelry, shoes but I always give an answer like "I'll see...")
-If so, what are some things to do as a precaution to not lose the gifts if we break up?
-Have any of you felt like this before?
None of my friends can relate and haven't been with men with wealth. They think I'm crazy and that I'm in the perfect relationship but this is really serious to me. I've always been raised to take care of myself so when I man steps in to help I wonder if he wants something in return...
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