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Permalink Reply by DdoubleD on July 3, 2012 at 7:41pm

Is she young?  A lot of times young women have not explored their body enough.  Sometimes they feel insecure about touching themselves in front of a man.  Also, she may have only wanted it from the back because she was shy and didn't want to look at you. 

 

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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on July 3, 2012 at 9:12pm

I think it depends on the kind of sex yall was having. I think age could have something to do with it too, tho. If yall was just "tryna get some" then I can see her only wanting u to hit it from the back. I don't like nobody using their fingers wit me either. The no kissing thing is a sign that yall was just gettin some, and yall really havent built any kind of foundation. There is a difference in sex with love v. sex just to sex.....yall was just sexin, and either she wants more than that, she's not interested in you like that, or she was just giving u a piece to shut u tf up, lol  

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on July 3, 2012 at 9:19pm

She's not as attracted to you as you are to her. She just wanted to get laid hence the lack of 'intimacy'. Sometimes a woman (just like a man) wants to get laid without strings, unless there is 'an agreement or an understanding' someone always gets 'hurt' or mis-read the signs. She's right about the chemistry, it's not mutual so don't take it personal, no one likes to be chopped and screwed, lol.

You're the wrong guy for what she wants NOW.

SN: being attractive has nothing to do with experience/desire or willingness or ability to perform :)

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on July 3, 2012 at 9:30pm

hahaha

Love is a Losing Game said:

I think it depends on the kind of sex yall was having. I think age could have something to do with it too, tho. If yall was just "tryna get some" then I can see her only wanting u to hit it from the back. I don't like nobody using their fingers wit me either. The no kissing thing is a sign that yall was just gettin some, and yall really havent built any kind of foundation. There is a difference in sex with love v. sex just to sex.....yall was just sexin, and either she wants more than that, she's not interested in you like that, or she was just giving u a piece to shut u tf up, lol  

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Permalink Reply by Bonita on July 3, 2012 at 10:32pm

Welcome!

She wasn't into and didn't feel comfortable having sex with you..her preferred position of doggie, no kissing seems like she just wanted to get off and didn't care to look at u at any point.

Save urself the heart ache or ego bruise and just move on to the next 

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Permalink Reply by livelife25 on July 3, 2012 at 10:54pm

The ladies have given great commentary here.  You didn't disclose the pre-text to your hook up, as in what was your relationship before you got down?  Dating, just met, what?  That may have been a big factor in how things played out.  As for the finger thing, like LIALG mentioned, I don't like dudes using their fingers on me in intimate places either.  It just never felt comfortable or did anything for me.  She told you she doesn't feel sexual chemistry with you, yet you're still asking if you should try it again.  In that conversation did SHE seem like she might be open to wanting to go there again?  Because while it's great that you talked about what didn't work, that doesn't mean she hasn't already chalked it up to a loss.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on July 3, 2012 at 11:21pm

You f***** her bruh that is all that really matters.

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Permalink Reply by PeachSoda_ on July 3, 2012 at 11:43pm

lol TOOOOONNEE!!! off the chain..

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Permalink Reply by JethroWomack on July 4, 2012 at 12:24am

she was on some semi-relationship tip. she just got out of a semi-relationship with a dude with 3 kids and 2 baby's moms. it seems as though prior to smashing she still was only half in the game, but either way i can't do a whole lot with a non-kisser only doggie style type chick. i like to kiss and i make no apologies for it.

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on July 4, 2012 at 1:35am

I will say that Im not a big kisser no matter how I feel about a person, but I do show affection in oher ways.  Some pl will take that as Im not into them, but I've honestly only had a few that was like..yoooo, come on - are you serious?  But yeah, her tellin gyou there was no sexual chemistry....don't try it again.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on July 4, 2012 at 5:11am

Don't listen to Tone, you're feeling her instead of just a lay and that's cool, you have a heart. lol

Tone said:

You f***** her bruh that is all that really matters.

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on July 4, 2012 at 8:58am

SMH @ Tone

 

What really matters is if she got some money out of you. If not, chalk it up because you wont catch her azz up anymore. 
 
Tone said:

You f***** her bruh that is all that really matters.

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