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Been lurking for a while and have a question for the ladies about sexual chemistry
had sex with an attractive woman not too long ago. I was initially revved up by the lil me lost his enthusiasm halfway through the process. she didn't like to kiss; only wanted doggie (no other positions); she doesn't pleasure herself(which means she hasn't learned her own body); no fingers in or around the pu$$y; and no fellatio. she has an awesome body and a pretty face so why the fck is she so rigid? Then she looks at me crazy when I stopped. Is this even worth tryin again or should i let it go like last year? We talked about it and she said we don't have any sexual chemistry after the fact and i kinda of agreed, but impart to her ass being so rigid.
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Permalink Reply by DdoubleD on -
Is she young? A lot of times young women have not explored their body enough. Sometimes they feel insecure about touching themselves in front of a man. Also, she may have only wanted it from the back because she was shy and didn't want to look at you.
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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on
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I think it depends on the kind of sex yall was having. I think age could have something to do with it too, tho. If yall was just "tryna get some" then I can see her only wanting u to hit it from the back. I don't like nobody using their fingers wit me either. The no kissing thing is a sign that yall was just gettin some, and yall really havent built any kind of foundation. There is a difference in sex with love v. sex just to sex.....yall was just sexin, and either she wants more than that, she's not interested in you like that, or she was just giving u a piece to shut u tf up, lol
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on -
She's not as attracted to you as you are to her. She just wanted to get laid hence the lack of 'intimacy'. Sometimes a woman (just like a man) wants to get laid without strings, unless there is 'an agreement or an understanding' someone always gets 'hurt' or mis-read the signs. She's right about the chemistry, it's not mutual so don't take it personal, no one likes to be chopped and screwed, lol.
You're the wrong guy for what she wants NOW.
SN: being attractive has nothing to do with experience/desire or willingness or ability to perform :)
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on
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hahaha
Love is a Losing Game said:I think it depends on the kind of sex yall was having. I think age could have something to do with it too, tho. If yall was just "tryna get some" then I can see her only wanting u to hit it from the back. I don't like nobody using their fingers wit me either. The no kissing thing is a sign that yall was just gettin some, and yall really havent built any kind of foundation. There is a difference in sex with love v. sex just to sex.....yall was just sexin, and either she wants more than that, she's not interested in you like that, or she was just giving u a piece to shut u tf up, lol
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Permalink Reply by Bonita on -
Welcome!
She wasn't into and didn't feel comfortable having sex with you..her preferred position of doggie, no kissing seems like she just wanted to get off and didn't care to look at u at any point.
Save urself the heart ache or ego bruise and just move on to the next
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Permalink Reply by livelife25 on -
The ladies have given great commentary here. You didn't disclose the pre-text to your hook up, as in what was your relationship before you got down? Dating, just met, what? That may have been a big factor in how things played out. As for the finger thing, like LIALG mentioned, I don't like dudes using their fingers on me in intimate places either. It just never felt comfortable or did anything for me. She told you she doesn't feel sexual chemistry with you, yet you're still asking if you should try it again. In that conversation did SHE seem like she might be open to wanting to go there again? Because while it's great that you talked about what didn't work, that doesn't mean she hasn't already chalked it up to a loss.
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Permalink Reply by PeachSoda_ on -
lol TOOOOONNEE!!! off the chain..
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Permalink Reply by JethroWomack on -
she was on some semi-relationship tip. she just got out of a semi-relationship with a dude with 3 kids and 2 baby's moms. it seems as though prior to smashing she still was only half in the game, but either way i can't do a whole lot with a non-kisser only doggie style type chick. i like to kiss and i make no apologies for it.
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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on -
I will say that Im not a big kisser no matter how I feel about a person, but I do show affection in oher ways. Some pl will take that as Im not into them, but I've honestly only had a few that was like..yoooo, come on - are you serious? But yeah, her tellin gyou there was no sexual chemistry....don't try it again.
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on
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Don't listen to Tone, you're feeling her instead of just a lay and that's cool, you have a heart. lol
Tone said:You f***** her bruh that is all that really matters.
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on -
SMH @ Tone
What really matters is if she got some money out of you. If not, chalk it up because you wont catch her azz up anymore.
Tone said:You f***** her bruh that is all that really matters.
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