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Permalink Reply by Angelina Yee on December 1, 2010 at 10:43pm

Lol... True !! Very true.

I have a client at work... Middle aged (40s) white man who is married to a 20 something year old asian girl... She was a mail order bride...

She's been here (and married to him) for 5 years, and is now a legal US citizen. Needless to say, she isn't as entertained by her husband as she used to be. She filed for divorce and stands to receive a multi-million dollar settlement...

But I get bashed because I want someone I'm dating to purchase me a car that they can easily afford... Smh. People are so one track minded.

SPICE said:

As soon as those women 'get their citizenship' they want the house in THEIR NAME, they learn how to call the police on a ninja and get that spousal support. If he gets a woman he better plan on 'working hard at convincing her not to migrate to the USA". It's not all it's cracked up to be. At some point they'll nag them to visit the good ole US of A and to stay.

Honeycoated said:

You're welcome Angelina! !

Jamal Black's comments make me chuckle sometimes with all this "the better women are foreign women" Of course the foreign women are more chipper because the men they deal with are not American men, and when they do meet an American man, he is on his best behavior because "ooohh, she's Dominican! Or Nigerian! Or whatever" He said something about an African woman he knew that by the times she had lived here a few years, she went from happy-go-lucky to bitter. Hhhmmm, wonder why? Maybe because she had a taste of what black American men are like.

Other cultures have beliefs and traditions that are passed down, black americans have generational curses that are passed down....

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on December 2, 2010 at 9:38am

DAMN!!!!!!!!! Grow up already!!!!!!!!! Nothing Jamal said(inthispost)was an attack, nor did it warrant all this attitude. EVERY DIFFERENCE OF OPINION IS NOT AN ATTACK. Please recognize the difference. Sometimes yall really can be the poster kids for "Angry Black B***hes"

@ Yee ...Get your car girl. And while you at it, get him to take care of those student loans too.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on December 2, 2010 at 10:02am

What Jamal wrote makes sense and he's giving her sound advice.

But he wrote this: I know this is none of my business, but since you posted on a public forum I get to attack it. Starting it off this way will make people respond in like. JMHO
Ms. Smith said:

DAMN!!!!!!!!! Grow up already!!!!!!!!! Nothing Jamal said(inthispost)was an attack, nor did it warrant all this attitude. EVERY DIFFERENCE OF OPINION IS NOT AN ATTACK. Please recognize the difference. Sometimes yall really can be the poster kids for "Angry Black B***hes"

@ Yee ...Get your car girl. And while you at it, get him to take care of those student loans too.

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on December 2, 2010 at 10:22am

Well Spicey.........we already knew something was wrong with him LOL. Even if HE thought he was attacking, women are smarter so we should know better. Instead of getting riled up over BS sound advice.

PS: Ignore me....it's about that time of the month lol

SPICE said:

What Jamal wrote makes sense and he's giving her sound advice.
But he wrote this: I know this is none of my business, but since you posted on a public forum I get to attack it. Starting it off this way will make people respond in like. JMHO
Ms. Smith said:

DAMN!!!!!!!!! Grow up already!!!!!!!!! Nothing Jamal said(inthispost)was an attack, nor did it warrant all this attitude. EVERY DIFFERENCE OF OPINION IS NOT AN ATTACK. Please recognize the difference. Sometimes yall really can be the poster kids for "Angry Black B***hes"
@ Yee ...Get your car girl. And while you at it, get him to take care of those student loans too.

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Permalink Reply by Hate my Ex on December 2, 2010 at 10:33am

I feel this! Get your whip girl, and when you do, post a pic for us:)



Angelina Yee said:

It's interesting to me how many people can comment on this post and criticize my actions.
It is VERY clear what the purpose of this site is, so why are you all here if you disagree with this lifestyle...

And furthermore, to judge my wants and not know me is ignorant on your behalf.

I am a thoroughly educated female, I hold a Masters degree, I am employed with an Advertisement firm in the city I live in and I own the condo that I lay my head to rest in every night. So before you decide to judge my decisions, and before you choose to call me a "Gold Digger", maybe you should have a little background information...

But thanks to those ladies that left positive or beneficial feed back! Hopefully I'll be rollin' in something new by 2011, while y'all bitter folks are still broke preaching that black girl lost 'ish... I'm no lost, I got built in navigation babyyyyy!

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on December 2, 2010 at 12:12pm

I've learned a lot of things in life especially when it comes to black women. When we 'state our opinion' it's seen as angry but other races of women 'it shows power'. Why is that???

I don't believe these women were riled up or showed any attitude, they merely pointed out that Jamal's 'rationale' regarding women is PLAIN OLE B*******!!! I would be more worried if they didn't HONESTLY respond to his comment. He could have left out the *I can attack it on an open forum*.

And because they are aware of his views, they're responding to his overall viewpoint on this board, not only his comment in this post.

Ask the 'average white man' how much trouble he goes through with his women and he'll have story for days.
We never hear of the AWW.

Ms. Smith said:

Well Spicey.........we already knew something was wrong with him LOL. Even if HE thought he was attacking, women are smarter so we should know better. Instead of getting riled up over BS sound advice.

PS: Ignore me....it's about that time of the month lol

SPICE said:

What Jamal wrote makes sense and he's giving her sound advice.
But he wrote this: I know this is none of my business, but since you posted on a public forum I get to attack it. Starting it off this way will make people respond in like. JMHO
Ms. Smith said:

DAMN!!!!!!!!! Grow up already!!!!!!!!! Nothing Jamal said(inthispost)was an attack, nor did it warrant all this attitude. EVERY DIFFERENCE OF OPINION IS NOT AN ATTACK. Please recognize the difference. Sometimes yall really can be the poster kids for "Angry Black B***hes"
@ Yee ...Get your car girl. And while you at it, get him to take care of those student loans too.

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on December 2, 2010 at 1:03pm

My soul just clapped for the first time in a long time. Felt it all in my chest. *sniff*

Honeycoated said:

You're welcome Angelina! !
Jamal Black's comments make me chuckle sometimes with all this "the better women are foreign women" Of course the foreign women are more chipper because the men they deal with are not American men, and when they do meet an American man, he is on his best behavior because "ooohh, she's Dominican! Or Nigerian! Or whatever" He said something about an African woman he knew that by the times she had lived here a few years, she went from happy-go-lucky to bitter. Hhhmmm, wonder why? Maybe because she had a taste of what black American men are like.

Other cultures have beliefs and traditions that are passed down, black americans have generational curses that are passed down....

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Permalink Reply by Candy on December 2, 2010 at 3:33pm

Ditto.



Hate my Ex said:

F*** what ya'll talkin bout! If I had a dude willing to buy me a nice ass car I'd take...all the other ish I can get myself...including the car...but if he's offering, and that's what she wants right now, why not take it? Ya'll trippin...let it be me...shew.




skyttlez77563 said:

I agree with this and it's kind of funny how people are praising this behavior when they tear down other people for doing the same thing. I am in awe of the posts that are written and it shows some people's real mentality and there is no need to question any further why people talk down on black women the way they do. This post confirms what they are saying about us. Don't get me wrong on some level I do agree, LOL, but just the same it's still wrong.


Jamal Black said:

I know this is none of my business, but since you posted on a public forum I get to attack it. But um, in my opinion, if you are going to milk a guy for a good amount of money, use that money for something that is long lasting such as starting your OWN business, learning a trade, or traveling abroad making an effort to learn about other cultures and civilizations!

I mean, that 50k car as soon as you drive it off the lot will be worth like 40k, then a few years the car will drop to 20k, then after that, young kids will be trying to sell that same car with big stickers in the window for 3k,OBO. And what's the point of a putting the burden on somebody else to cop you a new car when you supposedly have a new one already ("07" per your statement)??? I know this is BA but I don't like that math.

And the bag you got for 4k, how long is that bag expected to keep its value??? SH**%, with 4k you can cop a wholesalers license and buy 4k worth of inventory and turn that 4k into 8k.

I'm just saying, you won't be young and beautiful your whole life, one day guys won't even pay you any mind, and some will even be repulsed by you in your old age, so start now using money you're getting from guys wisely so in old age you won't be old and broke driving around in a beat up caddy CTS that nobody wants talking bout, "so and so NFLr use to break me off."

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on December 2, 2010 at 3:59pm

See there.........I dont get caught in that. I let all that other BS go. Truth be told it aint just black women. I would never vote Hilary for any office because imo, she cant tell the difference between an argument and a discussion. .

SPICE said:

I've learned a lot of things in life especially when it comes to black women. When we 'state our opinion' it's seen as angry but other races of women 'it shows power'. Why is that???
I don't believe these women were riled up or showed any attitude, they merely pointed out that Jamal's 'rationale' regarding women is PLAIN OLE B*******!!! I would be more worried if they didn't HONESTLY respond to his comment. He could have left out the *I can attack it on an open forum*.

And because they are aware of his views, they're responding to his overall viewpoint on this board, not only his comment in this post.

Ask the 'average white man' how much trouble he goes through with his women and he'll have story for days.
We never hear of the AWW.

Ms. Smith said:

Well Spicey.........we already knew something was wrong with him LOL. Even if HE thought he was attacking, women are smarter so we should know better. Instead of getting riled up over BS sound advice.
PS: Ignore me....it's about that time of the month lol

SPICE said:

What Jamal wrote makes sense and he's giving her sound advice. But he wrote this: I know this is none of my business, but since you posted on a public forum I get to attack it. Starting it off this way will make people respond in like. JMHO
Ms. Smith said:

DAMN!!!!!!!!! Grow up already!!!!!!!!! Nothing Jamal said(inthispost)was an attack, nor did it warrant all this attitude. EVERY DIFFERENCE OF OPINION IS NOT AN ATTACK. Please recognize the difference. Sometimes yall really can be the poster kids for "Angry Black B***hes" @ Yee ...Get your car girl. And while you at it, get him to take care of those student loans too.

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