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CAN A WOMAN HAVE SEX LIKE A MAN ?

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I was listening to the Steve Harvey morning show a few days ago and he was reading his daily " Strawberry Letter " . I don't remember the whole letter but one particular part sticks out in my mind . The woman in the letter said that she and her husband had been together for many years and he had cheated on her numerous times but she took him back because she did her thing too !!! Pardon me ladies and gents because I don't even remember the question she was asking but I do remember Steve Harvey's response to what the lady said about her " doing her thing too " , his response went as follows : " When we as me sleep with a woman or "Cheat " with a woman , once we get up and wash up ... it's over !!!! Once we wash her off of us and walk away , it's like it never happened ! But you women don't deal with it the same way , it's not that simple for you , you can't just wash up and be done with it , it's not the same situation when it comes to women ! " ......... Now I'm gonna stop right there because I'm only quoting him to the best of my ability from what I can remember but I must ask my BA fam .... Do yo agree with Steve's theory that it's not that simple for us ??? I for one do not ... I have had situations where I kicked a ninja out my house a 4 am because I had gotten what I wanted and was through with him !!! So what time warp could someone be living in to say such a thing , he even said that nomatter how long we soak douche or shower that we cant ever wash a man off us , and I say that is bullshit !!!! I have more that once squeezed whatever feelings I had for certain men out with a nice long orgasm and was done with it !!! I t just amazes me how people can generalize something as complicated as emotions . Could yo have sex like a man ... no emotion , no strings just sex ??? Or are you an emotional lover ???? Please share your thoughts ladies and I would also like to hear what the men of BA have to say !!!!

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I think men try to implant that in women heads, so they won't ever get played or feel like fools. It's a male ego thing with them.

However, being that women are the only ones who can bear children and breast feed, and that we're different internally, I would not advise any woman to try and sleep around like men.

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Very true and good advise !

Damnstraight said:
I think men try to implant that in women heads, so they won't ever get played or feel like fools. It's a male ego thing with them.

However, being that women are the only ones who can bear children and breast feed, and that we're different internally, I would not advise any woman to try and sleep around like men.

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Yeah and just to add to it, some women who are infertile have their very wild like past to blame.

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To be honest, most women cannot. We are emotional by nature, it's our biological make up. Women associate sex with emotions. Women cheat for emotional reasons and to upgrade. Men cheat just for the thrill of having sex with another woman.

I will say that cheating is different from just sexing a ninja then throwing him out if you're single. You may be at a certain stage in your life where you do not want anything but sex. So you can remove emotions from sex. It's all a mental state. A woman can have enough energy to fuck and not be emotionally attached. But by nature, most women are not that way.

Research shows that women with higher levels of androgen tend to have characterisitics similar to men. Androgen is one of reasons why men act like "men".

It's all genetics!

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I suppose it depends on who the emotionless sex is with too ! Some men draw emotion out of you and others don't !!!!

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You are right but on the other hand a small percentage of women are cold as ice !

OfficialGroupie said:
To be honest, most women cannot. We are emotional by nature, it's our biological make up. Women associate sex with emotions. Women cheat for emotional reasons and to upgrade. Men cheat just for the thrill of having sex with another woman.

I will say that cheating is different from just sexing a ninja then throwing him out if you're single. You may be at a certain stage in your life where you do not want anything but sex. So you can remove emotions from sex. It's all a mental state. A woman can have enough energy to fuck and not be emotionally attached. But by nature, most women are not that way.

Research shows that women with higher levels of androgen tend to have characterisitics similar to men. Androgen is one of reasons why men act like "men".

It's all genetics!

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COOKIE, I AGREE WITH YOU....I CAN WASH A MAN OFF JUST AS THE MAN CAN WASH ME OFF.....ITS NOTHING!!!

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i do it everyday. sometimes 3 or 4 times a day

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LMAO !!!!! Wow !

BlackSnakeMoan said:
i do it everyday. sometimes 3 or 4 times a day

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I know me I can not have emotionless sex and I cannot have sex with someone that I don't know. It's like the only thing that is completly mine and connot be lost or taken away from me is my body and I have to have a strong connection with a man for me to just let him inside my body.

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You kill me with those

Gia said:
Girrrrllllllllll!!!!!


BlackSnakeMoan said:
i do it everyday. sometimes 3 or 4 times a day

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Oh , lawd Gia! You learn to wash them off of you when you have encountered so many not looking for anything past a booty call! And Steve said this in his book! About how men just see f^cking as just that and not an act of love!

In the movie Frieda, her husband told her fucking was like hand shaking, he could do it with anyone!
Gia said:
Girrrrllllllllll!!!!!


BlackSnakeMoan said:
i do it everyday. sometimes 3 or 4 times a day

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