CAN A WOMAN HAVE SEX LIKE A MAN ?

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I was listening to the Steve Harvey morning show a few days ago and he was reading his daily " Strawberry Letter " . I don't remember the whole letter but one particular part sticks out in my mind . The woman in the letter said that she and her husband had been together for many years and he had cheated on her numerous times but she took him back because she did her thing too !!! Pardon me ladies and gents because I don't even remember the question she was asking but I do remember Steve Harvey's response to what the lady said about her " doing her thing too " , his response went as follows : " When we as me sleep with a woman or "Cheat " with a woman , once we get up and wash up ... it's over !!!! Once we wash her off of us and walk away , it's like it never happened ! But you women don't deal with it the same way , it's not that simple for you , you can't just wash up and be done with it , it's not the same situation when it comes to women ! " ......... Now I'm gonna stop right there because I'm only quoting him to the best of my ability from what I can remember but I must ask my BA fam .... Do yo agree with Steve's theory that it's not that simple for us ??? I for one do not ... I have had situations where I kicked a ninja out my house a 4 am because I had gotten what I wanted and was through with him !!! So what time warp could someone be living in to say such a thing , he even said that nomatter how long we soak douche or shower that we cant ever wash a man off us , and I say that is bullshit !!!! I have more that once squeezed whatever feelings I had for certain men out with a nice long orgasm and was done with it !!! I t just amazes me how people can generalize something as complicated as emotions . Could yo have sex like a man ... no emotion , no strings just sex ??? Or are you an emotional lover ???? Please share your thoughts ladies and I would also like to hear what the men of BA have to say !!!!

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Permalink Reply by Puma Kimikoko73 on March 9, 2009 at 12:31am: Most men feel that because something went inside you, you can't wash that off. Once it's been in there, it's just there. Spiritually, it's said that once you have sex with a person your spirits are joined forever. I guess it's just a matter of perspective. I believe a woman, especially one who's been hurt, can shut her feelings off for a time and do whatever. But sometimes you meet a certain one and you sleep with him, then you get to know him, then the next thing you know you're actually interested in him. I honestly think it's an insult to women for men to say we're so emotionally unstable we get attached to every dick touched. I don't think a woman should ever be pigeon-holed, on any aspect. And I know it's fantasy-world-ish but I think a man can not like your past but he should still love and embrace you regardless.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Starr on March 9, 2009 at 1:49am: I am an emotional lover, and no one had to say anything to me for me to know that. As much as I want to think I'm big and bad and that it doesn't mean shit to me, it does after awhile. I've never had a one night stand, so I don't know if I would be attached after that, but I do feel a connection after giving my body to someone else.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Cookie Pie on March 9, 2009 at 10:16am: That is so sweet Les !
Les said:
I am an emotional lover, and no one had to say anything to me for me to know that. As much as I want to think I'm big and bad and that it doesn't mean shit to me, it does after awhile. I've never had a one night stand, so I don't know if I would be attached after that, but I do feel a connection after giving my body to someone else.; ▶ Reply to This

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