Can athletes really trust any woman they date

I think it is funny that people always say she was with you before the money.but was she with you before the popularity? Take Lebron's girl she has been with him since high school but lebron has been famous since high school. So was it really him she liked or the status she had for dating him ? I just find it funny that the old girlfriends get points like they was with them just cause.

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BINGO!! Anything could happen between hs and draft time. Guys also look for someone that will be good arm candy if they do make it. Savannah is a bad bish, I'm sure she would have been straight with or without Lebron. She took a risk; being with a popular athlete can be tough on the heart. Especially, considering the stories we've heard about his ass.

tHeOfFiCialLuRKeR said:

I think you have disregarded that having a talent doesn't mean the star athlete will be drafted or be successful in whatever league they are apart of! It's a risk!! Plenty of the guys I knew in high school went to D1 schools and had it pretty much set for getting drafted!! And many didn't get drafted, while others are bench warmers! Currently there is one on the Lakers and Philly!! Girls are naturally attracted to the athletes because of their popularity! If you are the popular chick or cute girl, it's also expected that you would date someone at the top, regardless of their look! That's how it works and if you don't believe ask any older person. Even 50 years ago it worked like that! As far as Savannah goes, I get the feeling she was star struck. She seemed very gitty about their first date and being with him. He probably made her feel special. They didn't even attend the same school, he chose her.

I think everybody wants to be with someone great. Just because they made it to the league and were/ were not popular shouldn’t even be a factor. I think if a woman is there through thick and thin she deserves the benefits.

I’m from Saint Louis and when I was in HS there was a very popular player that everyone one thought was going to the league. All the girls were on him and about 4 got pregnant, but he never went to the league. So, I think it should just be based on them personally and what they went through as a couple.

+1

Rad said:

I genuinely don't understand why some men are bothered by the fact a woman might find men attractive initially and largely because of their status and/or money. I rarely hear women complain about men initially only finding them physically attractive. I think long term girlfriends get kudos because they've weathered the storm of determined groupies, agents, momma's that may hate their guts,  yes men and scandals - all with their mouths closed. Their discretion is what get's them trusted. Can you imagine what Savannah knows?

I actually had a baller tell me he wish he met me in college. -__- Like that meant he would KNOW that I really loved him. Guh. Well, it would turn back time before I was with his teammate... *walks away* 

lol 

Smh Very poor example....How the hell could she know he was going to receive a 100 mil Nike contract?  Gone on with that...And its not uncommon for girls to want to date a popular guy in middle or high school, especially if HE shows interest...My high school sweetheart was very popular and athletic...I didn't once date him because I thought he was going to go off and be a pro and make millions....Smdh  Guys can go after girls because of their looks, but people wanna take shots at the women that these men chose...Unbelievable.

AGREE!
 
Damnstraight said:

Smh Very poor example....How the hell could she know he was going to receive a 100 mil Nike contract?  Gone on with that...And its not uncommon for girls to want to date a popular guy in middle or high school, especially if HE shows interest...My high school sweetheart was very popular and athletic...I didn't once date him because I thought he was going to go off and be a pro and make millions....Smdh  Guys can go after girls because of their looks, but people wanna take shots at the women that these men chose...Unbelievable.

I agree.

And I think that's worse. Because a man can get more money to become more appealing. A woman can't change her looks. lol Well, she can...if she can afford it...even then, it may not come out right.



Damnstraight said:

Smh Very poor example....How the hell could she know he was going to receive a 100 mil Nike contract?  Gone on with that...And its not uncommon for girls to want to date a popular guy in middle or high school, especially if HE shows interest...My high school sweetheart was very popular and athletic...I didn't once date him because I thought he was going to go off and be a pro and make millions....Smdh  Guys can go after girls because of their looks, but people wanna take shots at the women that these men chose...Unbelievable.

Lmao Right...


Phoenix said:

I agree.

And I think that's worse. Because a man can get more money to become more appealing. A woman can't change her looks. lol Well, she can...if she can afford it...even then, it may not come out right.



Damnstraight said:

Smh Very poor example....How the hell could she know he was going to receive a 100 mil Nike contract?  Gone on with that...And its not uncommon for girls to want to date a popular guy in middle or high school, especially if HE shows interest...My high school sweetheart was very popular and athletic...I didn't once date him because I thought he was going to go off and be a pro and make millions....Smdh  Guys can go after girls because of their looks, but people wanna take shots at the women that these men chose...Unbelievable.

--- this my be an old post but...

U know how many popular high school ball players there are?! none of them have money and only a SELECT few actually make it.. whether the others ran with the wrong crowd, ended up dying, broke a leg, or just plain wasn't good enough.. they all had girls.. of course at least one loved them for them and probably are still with them til this day.. NBA, NFL, MLB, NHL or not..

Niggas AFTER high school be still trynna bring up the fact that they used to be high school "stars" and be 30.. and its like "HONEY YOU NEEDA GO FIND SOMETHIN ELSE TO DO! that has no effect on now, the present. u might as well had kept that to your self" 

i have dated an extremely popular football player in high school and after he broke his lil leg... we both started sinking into this depressing pity party.. and the thing about it is.. this dude just gave up! his whole career, his whole future, his whole scholarship. he flushed it down the toilet and said it wasn't worth it. i had to go. and that may sound really superficial but one thing i hate is a man who is willing to give up at the drop of a dime. he didn't try to train anymore, matter fact he never stepped foot back on a football field EVER! he was young and i believed in him, that he could recuperate and start playing in college. he be still trynna get with me today.. and back then, i didn't think about money or how important a scholarship would have been.. but today? coming outta college wit all this f***** debt?! i have NOTHING  to say to him lol. no ambition will get BOTH of us no where! 

@peach.. I think they deserve credit for their 15 minutes of fame or 20 years of fame. I mean guys today have confidence and athlete swag. They are changing by day with age and with just the way America boosts their egos. Alot of men/boys today talk about swag and it's just started about a couple of years ago. But believe it or not men/boys are failing in society and it's sad. That same swag is too blame fir that too. Women on the other hand. That's different. I think they font deserve thatuch credit I mean I'm sure other men don't really give a crap about who the next man is fugging.
@peach.........even when I was in college I stayed with the basket/football players. Even in high school... I stayed with the confident ones the ones that had that discipline and still stayed in their books. The funny thing tho that I noticed was the dumb down classes they had. It was funny because the whole football team had the class and they of course got good grades. I understood the politics in that. Being that I was younger I looked up to them and definitely have plenty lessons learned both good and bad and sad. It's still like that but now its what I choose at the end of the day.
@lucky.. Believe it or not there are some good women out there and of course they are ugly ass $hit.The ugly ones never get it and usually end up fat and stay broke.Luckily here at baller alert we know the importance if decision making. We understand the whole in's and out's.Well at least most of us. Trust me honey there are consequences in every decision in our beautiful little lives.Any questions?

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