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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on April 9, 2012 at 9:22am

You gotta be Amber Rose or Kim K (you gotta be a muse for them) takes about 10 years lol

Jessica Rabbit said:

Lol I'm definitely not ashamed, just didn't want that to be a red flag in a man's mind and make him just deuce instantly before I could get anything. And I know I can't catch Devon Thomas or Drake without them expecting the P lol, I'm definitely fine with business/doctor ect ballers. Hmm, maybe I will befriend them and subtly make them fall in love with me lol!

Still Pretty Vahn said:

Yea...idk what to tell u on that nite... ive never dated a real balller.. but i woluld def nake them wait longer jus so i wont seem like all tge other girls... id say maybe build a friendship with a guy but be flirty n seductive .. in a tasteful manner ... it may take some time to get money n stuff.. it can be done ... but if ur lookin for a basketball player or something... id say forget it!! Lol.. n dnt keep it on the dl that ur a virgin... dnt tell him the first day but dnt keep it a secret... its u n ur not ashamed!!

Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on April 9, 2012 at 11:37am

LOL BBC, girl u KRAY! I still don't do all that, I just accept that the gifts are prob small, and I just gotta have a bigger team, lol

BabyBallerCheeks said:

I'm going to keep it 1000%. Unless you look like Nicole Scherzinger, it may not be worth it for you to date a baller. I've dated millionaires, music producers, NFL and NBA players. Out of that group, the only men that buy extravagant gifts without sex is old White men. Hell, if they have enough money, they will buy you anything just to keep someone around. Thus, if you aren't interested in being felt up by old, rich white men, GIVE UP NOW because it seems like your aim is to get LARGE sums of money and, you aren't going to get that from NBA/NFL/music moguls unless you are willing to put the d*** in every other h*** but that one. You will have to suck so much d*** your mouth will hurt and you still may not get gifts. Thus, unless there is already a rich man checking for you, your chances of coming up on any significant amount of money is quite low.

Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on April 9, 2012 at 12:39pm

I was gonna suggest Baje Fletcher's book, The golddigger's guide to getting what you want without giving it up.

 

I was gonna order the book myself. There are some likeBabyBallerCheeks said, that will buy you things just so you can be their arm candy. And there will be some that will buy you things, in expectation of getting some. Like the guy I wrote about that bought me stuff, but when he realized we had two different ideas about dating(and he wasnt getting no ass) he flipped.

 

The dudes that REALLY have money sometimes arent really attractive, I've learned that. So, if you can be a good actress and be with him for the gifts and money and try to keep a smile on your face and not look at him like he's the Hunchback of Notre Dame, then you're all good. It's hard to meet a man that ha s money AND is very attractive. And if you meet a man like that, they want some ass.

 

How has your experience been so far, i'm assuming you're in your 20s, so how has your experience been so far when you tell guy's you're a virgin?  

Permalink Reply by Lady on April 9, 2012 at 2:49pm

Tell me how things go, me and my friend are planning to move to Houston next year after we finished with college, but we will be visiting alot. how do you like it so far?? I heard the Galleria is where the ballers go, and the Daves and Busters thats near the galleria. here are a couple links that will help you, read the comments

http://www.balleralert.com/forum/topics/nba-all-star-weekend-2013-h...

http://www.balleralert.com/forum/topics/ballers-in-houston

http://www.balleralert.com/forum/topics/2015113:Topic:136967?id=201...

Permalink Reply by Sissy on April 9, 2012 at 5:37pm

I wouldn't tell him (whenever you meet him) that you're a virgin, at first.  I would wait until after maybe two or three dates and then drop the bomb.  

He'll either run or be intrigued. 

Permalink Reply by Isabella on April 9, 2012 at 7:15pm

This is so crazy I'm new here and I was about to post asking basically the same question. I live in Memphis though. My best friend and I just started getting into this and we are both virgins. 

Permalink Reply by Tone © on April 9, 2012 at 8:25pm

what made you stay a virgin?
Jessica Rabbit said:

I really want the second option! There are sooo many girls willing to give it up, why men still gotta want mine? lol

PrettyPretty said:

If your quality female you can receive without giving it up but how long they will stick around is the real test but then again they might think higher of you and let another girl be their cumbucket depends on the guy

Permalink Reply by Still Pretty V on April 9, 2012 at 8:25pm

Ive never dated a guy who just gives gifts just because... now i do hav a friend who really likes my n he has offered to get my car fixed for me n he also let me borrow a couple hundred.. but i had to pay it back... weve never slept together n never will... but if u get him to really like u...u may get a few things... i doubt bags ir shopping ... but at the same time u cant expect a man to give what u want but u cant give him what he wants.... im still tryna figure it out cuz i wanna kno! Lol...u mayvhav to find a geeky overweight guy who will be happy jus to hav u as a frien

Permalink Reply by Jessica Rabbit on April 9, 2012 at 8:27pm

LMBO! I have a sweet heart so maybe I can look past the looks. I was looking for that book at half price books last weekend, may have to cop it off amazon.  In college, alot of guys didn't believe me at first and after a while when they FINALLY realized I was serious they stuck around..either out of amazement or because they swore they could turn me out... but they  were college student...DEFINITELY not ballers :/ I'm only 22 but I like older men like up to mid 30s wouldn't be a problem...I think I would want to max out at 40 though.... so I def can't do old old men..my bestie could though lol, she loves old men. She would marry Morgan Freeman

Honeycoated said:

I was gonna suggest Baje Fletcher's book, The golddigger's guide to getting what you want without giving it up.

 

I was gonna order the book myself. There are some likeBabyBallerCheeks said, that will buy you things just so you can be their arm candy. And there will be some that will buy you things, in expectation of getting some. Like the guy I wrote about that bought me stuff, but when he realized we had two different ideas about dating(and he wasnt getting no ass) he flipped.

 

The dudes that REALLY have money sometimes arent really attractive, I've learned that. So, if you can be a good actress and be with him for the gifts and money and try to keep a smile on your face and not look at him like he's the Hunchback of Notre Dame, then you're all good. It's hard to meet a man that ha s money AND is very attractive. And if you meet a man like that, they want some ass.

 

How has your experience been so far, i'm assuming you're in your 20s, so how has your experience been so far when you tell guy's you're a virgin?  

Permalink Reply by Jessica Rabbit on April 9, 2012 at 8:34pm

Thanks for the links! I LOVE Houston, I was born and raised here but went away for college so im discovering it as an adult, but I like it so far. The thing is when I was in high school I was a suburb baby so I liked the ratchet spots lol. Not so much anymore, especially since I'm trying to find a baller. I love eating and catching the movies or shopping at City Centre more than the galleria, but I'm gonna explore the galleria more and memorial city and first colony, maybe midtown and keep ya updated.

Lady Letty said:

Tell me how things go, me and my friend are planning to move to Houston next year after we finished with college, but we will be visiting alot. how do you like it so far?? I heard the Galleria is where the ballers go, and the Daves and Busters thats near the galleria. here are a couple links that will help you, read the comments

http://www.balleralert.com/forum/topics/nba-all-star-weekend-2013-h...

http://www.balleralert.com/forum/topics/ballers-in-houston

http://www.balleralert.com/forum/topics/2015113:Topic:136967?id=201...

Permalink Reply by Jessica Rabbit on April 9, 2012 at 8:39pm

Lol Glad to know we're not alone, keep me updated on your Abstinent Come Up lol

Isabella said:

This is so crazy I'm new here and I was about to post asking basically the same question. I live in Memphis though. My best friend and I just started getting into this and we are both virgins. 

Permalink Reply by Jessica Rabbit on April 9, 2012 at 8:46pm

I love God, I'm a PK, and I decided at a young age I wannna do it to honor God and my future hubbie. And I just like that my future hubbie and I can go anywhere  and I never have to worry about one of his boys being like, I been there before you, he'll always know its just him...plus after I get married I can be as big of a freak as I want and never have to worry about him thinking bad of me lol, 

what made you stay a virgin?
Jessica Rabbit said:

I really want the second option! There are sooo many girls willing to give it up, why men still gotta want mine? lol

PrettyPretty said:

If your quality female you can receive without giving it up but how long they will stick around is the real test but then again they might think higher of you and let another girl be their cumbucket depends on the guy

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