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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on June 5, 2012 at 10:24pm

Some people are just difficult. I have been in the same situation and I can say first it's not your fault. You seem to have good intentions and you'll drive yourself crazy trying to figure him out. Take my advice and just dodge this bullet. 
Please don't let him blame you for anything. What your dealing with emotionally is real and this could really be blown out of proportion. The best thing to do it face your past and heal old wounds so that you can move toward into a richer, fuller,and more joyus life today.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on June 5, 2012 at 10:56pm

everyone does this

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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on June 5, 2012 at 11:13pm

Not me.

Tone said:

everyone does this

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Permalink Reply by Collete on June 6, 2012 at 1:04am

I agree with Tone to a certain extent....as you mature not AGE you'd start understanding better.  WIP so sorry you are going thru this...its never fun...so you need a support system cos it sounds like u put your all in...so if this just happened, brace yourself cos it will get a lot worse before it gets better....and it will get better...trust me...i've been there...and you'll be stronger for it and this experience will help your resolve...

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Permalink Reply by Chanel on June 6, 2012 at 1:36am

Us nice girls finish last. Men love b****** and whores they cant control. I really think its all about the chase when it comes to these boys. The guys I dont like chase me, and the guy I love runs away. I'm sorry your going thru this right now honey, he is clearing out room for the right guy to walk into your life. And the new chick ain't winning trust me, she will soon find out

 

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Permalink Reply by mavsbabe41 on June 6, 2012 at 8:16am

*Cyber hug* The ladies are right. I'm sorry that you're in pain but things will truly get better. ;)

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Permalink Reply by can i kick it on June 6, 2012 at 9:09am

Nice girls finish last but so do nice guys. I had a guy that would have done anything for me and for some reason i dogged him out he used to call me his karma because he had dogged out so many other females in the past. Then I have a guy who i was nothing but supportive and loving to who claims to love me more than life and has dogged me out more than any other relationship i have ever been in, it's like he is my karma for messed up stuff i have done.

But just try to keep it moving and if you can try not to carry the pain and mistrust of your last relationship into your next one.  

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Permalink Reply by WorkInProgress on June 6, 2012 at 10:14am

Thanks everyone and thanks for the cyber support. Its funny to never meet a person or people and get real opinions/comments and genuine honest truth than people you do know and they sshake their heads in your face in agreeance but actually are disagreeing and speaking bad behind their smiles.

I'm going to keep on moving tho because this isn't the end, as it was stated aboove this is the beginning.

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Permalink Reply by Ms. BoiBye on June 6, 2012 at 1:41pm

Girl this was your blessing in disguise. It is summer time. Go get you a new bathing suit and head to the beach. It is time to drop all dead weight and enjoy the beautiful sights, LOL. I was sitting at the basketball court yesterday just watching and Girl. Them thangs was fine all sweaty and glistening. LOL sorry I’m drooling. But anyways. Give yourself a day for each month that yall was together to mourn, cry, break s*** or whatever you have to do. Then it is time to clean up and get out of the house!!!!!

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