Chicks with No game Mess it up for EVERYONE!

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Permalink Reply by Hello Kitty on April 16, 2009 at 7:33pm

I feel like it's almost too late now. Let me rephrase that, it's never too late to be courted by a man - but these chickens - young and old - have been f*ing up the game for so long now, it's almost a lost cause. I only deal with men that are certified but you got every walk of life out here now. Either you f with a ninja who was raised by the book and knows the rules, or not (and even if he does know the rules, so many bishes have been letting them get away with b.s. that you have to stand your ground, get some attitude and then MAYBE they will come back acting right). I love hip hop, it's my favorite but I don't take it all so literally like a lot of people do these days. Making pimping commercial and being a bi-sexual ho as a way of life?! It's a wrap! Even the smart pretty girls are doing whatever it takes to keep a man, pay his bills, f*ck other women for him, etc., etc.

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Permalink Reply by Ms. KissyFace on April 16, 2009 at 7:55pm

This is so true. I have learned that the hard. Set the bar low and you better learn to limbo cause that shit is gonna get lower and lower.

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Permalink Reply by Tab on April 16, 2009 at 8:34pm

OK, I'm getting different meaning to "game" from each response. If the game consist of trying to make a man "pay" then that game alone messed it up for everyone. When I say "pay" i mean, when that's all on a chicks mind, before the man even get's to know them. Game recognize game. Ok. So if you're that female that thinks he has to pull out all the stops when you didn't earn it, that messed it up. Because a decent female will come behind you and just want a pair of stockings and is called a "golddigger"

To tell the truth, each female is guilty until proven innocent. Only females that has messed anything up for me was his mom or mine. I don't carry myself with fakeness, but a man can tell off the back I want more out of life. And if he can't provide it, he will walk away. I will eat a 2 piece and biscuit in a minute, but I will not eat it in the dark. It's the thought that counts. I know some females that man don't care if they had a two piece or no piece, but they give him a piece. At the end of the day, you attract who you are, not Jane. Anytime you're dealing with anyone rather it's a male friend or female friend, you have to put in what you expect to get out.

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Permalink Reply by Misting on April 17, 2009 at 3:05am

lol popeyes all day

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Permalink Reply by Siren on April 17, 2009 at 8:56am

Game isn't about making a man pay bu it IS about making him treat as a woman is to be treated...I have had a 2 piece and biscuit with my man but I am talking about setting a standard as far as how you want tobe treated and what you expect. Many women/girls accept whatever a ninja offers them which sometimes ain;t much and that ish is unacceptable IMO.

Tab said:

OK, I'm getting different meaning to "game" from each response. If the game consist of trying to make a man "pay" then that game alone messed it up for everyone. When I say "pay" i mean, when that's all on a chicks mind, before the man even get's to know them. Game recognize game. Ok. So if you're that female that thinks he has to pull out all the stops when you didn't earn it, that messed it up. Because a decent female will come behind you and just want a pair of stockings and is called a "golddigger"

To tell the truth, each female is guilty until proven innocent. Only females that has messed anything up for me was his mom or mine. I don't carry myself with fakeness, but a man can tell off the back I want more out of life. And if he can't provide it, he will walk away. I will eat a 2 piece and biscuit in a minute, but I will not eat it in the dark. It's the thought that counts. I know some females that man don't care if they had a two piece or no piece, but they give him a piece. At the end of the day, you attract who you are, not Jane. Anytime you're dealing with anyone rather it's a male friend or female friend, you have to put in what you expect to get out.

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Permalink Reply by Tab on April 17, 2009 at 12:18pm

I understand what you're saying(money on the wood makes the love burn good). Not just "money" but show
he is thinking about you. My father would always say, Let him court you. ;where as my mother would say, Don't ask a man for nothing or he would always want something. She would allow men in her life that didn't care about her home setting at all. So I was jaded behind that. But being that I witness my father being a provider, I had to find what works for me. I couldn't put blame on men. Me personally, I can not entertain mentally if things aren't right at home. That would be spreading myself too thin. But some comments are mad at females and some at males. I think it's up to the individual. Because that female that reallydoesn't think much of herself might twist your message and go on a "mission". It's deeply rooted for most. What they grew up seeing at home. What it alls boils down to is self esteem. If you think a man will validate you, you know the type, can't LIVE without a man;they don't care what, as long as they can say they have a man. Those are the ones that never quite have themself together. It's like they become desperate. Not just with a intimate relationship but with any relationship. They allow anyone to run over them. So in order to address this issue, you have to address the deeper issue of self esteem. Siren said:

Game isn't about making a man pay bu it IS about making him treat as a woman is to be treated...I have had a 2 piece and biscuit with my man but I am talking about setting a standard as far as how you want tobe treated and what you expect. Many women/girls accept whatever a ninja offers them which sometimes ain;t much and that ish is unacceptable IMO.

Tab said:

OK, I'm getting different meaning to "game" from each response. If the game consist of trying to make a man "pay" then that game alone messed it up for everyone. When I say "pay" i mean, when that's all on a chicks mind, before the man even get's to know them. Game recognize game. Ok. So if you're that female that thinks he has to pull out all the stops when you didn't earn it, that messed it up. Because a decent female will come behind you and just want a pair of stockings and is called a "golddigger"

To tell the truth, each female is guilty until proven innocent. Only females that has messed anything up for me was his mom or mine. I don't carry myself with fakeness, but a man can tell off the back I want more out of life. And if he can't provide it, he will walk away. I will eat a 2 piece and biscuit in a minute, but I will not eat it in the dark. It's the thought that counts. I know some females that man don't care if they had a two piece or no piece, but they give him a piece. At the end of the day, you attract who you are, not Jane. Anytime you're dealing with anyone rather it's a male friend or female friend, you have to put in what you expect to get out.

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Permalink Reply by Stephbaby on April 17, 2009 at 12:29pm

Chicks with no game WILL mess u up, but chicks with no common sense or street smarts get u caught up in some bs!!!

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Permalink Reply by Tab on April 17, 2009 at 12:35pm

Steph, I really wish you knew me,lol. My story.... So many times i've been told to write a bio. I can't
comment anymore without writing a bio,even though it seems like I've already written one.
Stephbaby said:

Chicks with no game WILL mess u up, but chicks with no common sense or street smarts get u caught up in some bs!!!

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Permalink Reply by Stephbaby on April 17, 2009 at 2:52pm

Whats the hold up homie? That might be ur calling, I would read it !
Tab said:

Steph, I really wish you knew me,lol. My story.... So many times i've been told to write a bio. I can't
comment anymore without writing a bio,even though it seems like I've already written one.
Stephbaby said:

Chicks with no game WILL mess u up, but chicks with no common sense or street smarts get u caught up in some bs!!!

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Permalink Reply by JustMe on April 17, 2009 at 5:01pm

like this post!!!!

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Permalink Reply by BlackSnakeMoan on April 17, 2009 at 7:11pm

right. I love when they wanna come over...

i say "well i dont have male company in my house, sorry"

Babydoll said:

ahhhh, i was just talking to my homegirl about this!!! This ninja that i was talking to kept trying come over-ha! It was quite obvious what he wanted, well i didn't do my groceries that week, so i told him to pick some up and bring them on his way over and i wouldn't mind cooking ( i known him since highschool, but my requirements have changed a bit since then). He made up some lame excuse how he had to run errands, but he picked up the groceries, but he had to put the food up in his house so things wouldn't spoil *sideeye* and then he called and said he was on his way...


ME: Oh, ok well do you have me shit now?

FOOL: I will bring it tommorrow, it's too much to reload in the car.

ME: Naw, go ahead and turn around and come back tomorrow when you have my shit...

He thought i was sooooo crazy, but I don't care. I don't need dick that bad. Can you imagine sitting up there P*ssy wet and you still gotta get up the next day and do grocery shopping with YOUR own money. That's hustling backwards... I like being independent and all, but men should be bringing more to your door besides their dick, seriously.

Now that I am single(sad face) there is no way a man is just chilling in my home and ain't about to change a light, pull some change out or something lol, beacause I HATE company in the first place, unless you are my boo. So, they bold enough to ask for ass, so why not.... Sorry for the rant, but i LITERALLY just talked about this! lol

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Permalink Reply by OfficialGroupie on April 18, 2009 at 12:41pm

preach siren!

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