Could this McNair Fiasco been avoided?

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Permalink Reply by Damnstraight on July 6, 2009 at 3:41pm

You are so right. Mechelle went on to be a nurse.

And I've talked to some of those guys, and yes indeed. Please believe they are in total shock about all of this. Can't say word for word, but things like these make you put or atleast try to put things in the correct perspective...Damn. Jeff got me crying.

Fly Chickadee said:

He EVEN TOOK this girl to the house in MS! Now it behooves me why noone is mentioning that. So, Steve was caught up and he NEVER got caught up to the point where he would intertwine the side chick into his world like that. Its just beyond words!

Head got so caught up he broke ALL of his own rules! And Mechelle suspected but she didnt know who and to what extent. Its not a surprise when your athlete spouse cheats but it hurts you charge that off to the game! But he always considered Mechelle his queen and kept that life separate and he normally kept the side chick in her place and she knew how to play her position. And because he was such a good father and made sure Mechelle and home was always taken care of, it seems so out of character. Not that he cheated, most men do and grow out of that, but the idea that he was careless and caught up emotionally! He violated the code and ALL his boys are shocked!

You CAN BEST BELIEVE THEM NICCAS RAN HOME 4TH OF JULY! BET SOME SIDECHICKS ARE SCARED AS HELL BECAUSE DUDES WILL DO 1 OF 2 THINGS:1) tighten up their game, or 2) cut they ass off! Well, at least for a little while!

But Mechelle did say several times while finishing school that she had to have a career as a backup because her life with Steve was not promised always, basically situations, relationships, and people change.

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Permalink Reply by The NFL Chick on July 6, 2009 at 4:40pm

Tab said:

This is why females need to stop following other females. This game is not meant for everyone. It shouldn't be games to begin with. Some people talk about snaggin a baller as if it's a way of life. But what people fail to realize, it's not that easy. It's not all glitter and gold. People feelings do get involved, rather you think it's a game or not. People need to value their time alittle bit more. I hear all the time about getting a car from your baller,yada,yada, this girl got one and what?? People need to follow a more moral path in life, and please believe, all the suffering,heartache and hunger would subside. Too bad this will continue to go on.

Couldn't have said it better!

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Permalink Reply by Damnstraight on July 6, 2009 at 5:25pm

Yep, it was her gun and she purchased it Thursday night.

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Permalink Reply by PrincessNessa on July 6, 2009 at 6:45pm

Amen girl!

Tab said:

This is why females need to stop following other females. This game is not meant for everyone. It shouldn't be games to begin with. Some people talk about snaggin a baller as if it's a way of life. But what people fail to realize, it's not that easy. It's not all glitter and gold. People feelings do get involved, rather you think it's a game or not. People need to value their time alittle bit more. I hear all the time about getting a car from your baller,yada,yada, this girl got one and what?? People need to follow a more moral path in life, and please believe, all the suffering,heartache and hunger would subside. Too bad this will continue to go on.

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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on July 6, 2009 at 9:03pm

She was 20 and him 36. She's just starting life and he's lived his. That's why I mentioned to another poster to get her mind right first b4 seeking her baller. People don't seem to realize that you have to take care of yourself first so you will be prepared for what ever these men throw at you.

You can be 20, 30 , 40 & 50 and it's the same thing. Look at Marion Barry, his azz talking bout stalking a woman.

Tab said:

This is why females need to stop following other females. This game is not meant for everyone. It shouldn't be games to begin with. Some people talk about snaggin a baller as if it's a way of life. But what people fail to realize, it's not that easy. It's not all glitter and gold. People feelings do get involved, rather you think it's a game or not. People need to value their time alittle bit more. I hear all the time about getting a car from your baller,yada,yada, this girl got one and what?? People need to follow a more moral path in life, and please believe, all the suffering,heartache and hunger would subside. Too bad this will continue to go on.

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Permalink Reply by Holly-Would on July 6, 2009 at 9:11pm

Isn't Marion Barry a "reformed" crackhead? Obviously he has an obsessive personality... If it aint drugs its the women... Anyone is capable and things happen... We have no control over it, if it wasn't meant to happen, it wouldn't have happened... He would have never stepped foot into Dave and Busters...

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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on July 6, 2009 at 9:32pm

Who knows, all I know is when I'm ending a relationship I do it in a public place.
But who knows what happened between the time of her DUI charge and that moment. That incident was not made public and he prob realized she wasn't worth the trouble.
He prob underestimated how deep her emotions were in this.

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Permalink Reply by Damnstraight on July 6, 2009 at 10:08pm

lol That did make me laugh. I guess it is better to be safe than sorry.

Cougar $pice said:

Who knows, all I know is when I'm ending a relationship I do it in a public place.
But who knows what happened between the time of her DUI charge and that moment. That incident was not made public and he prob realized she wasn't worth the trouble.
He prob underestimated how deep her emotions were in this.

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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on July 6, 2009 at 10:20pm

@ FC & DS, you betcha!!! Had some crazies in my days. I learned to look for the signs to bail.

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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on July 7, 2009 at 8:19am

You can say this again.

Tab said:

Some voids could not be filled. Some of the most "set up" females are the most miserable females.

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Permalink Reply by Chinkyeyez on July 7, 2009 at 1:45pm

I read this article on MSN FOX SPORTS by a sports reporter who's name is Jason Whitlock

http://msn.foxsports.com/nfl/story/9777174/Don't-be-so-quick-to-make-McNair-a-hero

BA family what do you think of this article he wrote?

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Permalink Reply by Damnstraight on July 7, 2009 at 2:03pm

I'd have to agree with Whitlock (although I dont like him) regarding the father part. As a father, his actions were totally unacceptable. He was human and not perfect...He didn't deserve to be murdered.But regardless of that, his sons deserved better and they should've always come first..and I dont mean financially, or physically, I mean emotionally and mentally...

Chinkyeyez said:

I read this article on MSN FOX SPORTS by a sports reporter who's name is Jason Whitlock

http://msn.foxsports.com/nfl/story/9777174/Don't-be-so-quick-to-make-McNair-a-hero

BA family what do you think of this article he wrote?

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