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Permalink Reply by LaMonet on May 29, 2012 at 7:57pm

Ok, I realize you guys are young. I know this game. Yes, I'm only 22 myself, but I have knowledge beyond my years.

This reminds me of the situation my roommate had with a guy she liked.

Don't keep texting him repeatedly. If you have something else better to do, than do it or at least act like you. (I hope you do though)

Next thing...why is he putting limits on you? Especially if he's inviting you to his house? Did you at least ask why he restricted you to texting?  I know with us younger peeps we like to text more than talk, but from what I learned a guy that's interested in you would at least like to hear your voice on the phone unless your okay with that.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on May 29, 2012 at 7:57pm

What do you offer that no other woman can offer him?

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Permalink Reply by LaMonet on May 29, 2012 at 8:09pm

He had no reply at all???

Oh girl forget him, take the next bus. Do yourself a favor...and TAKE THE NEXT BUS. Don't give no man no attention that can't even hold conversation with you. That's whack.

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on May 29, 2012 at 8:20pm

AS HELL!!!  If I have to always carry a convo we are soooo done.
 
LaMonet said:

He had no reply at all???

Oh girl forget him, take the next bus. Do yourself a favor...and TAKE THE NEXT BUS. Don't give no man no attention that can't even hold conversation with you. That's whack.

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Permalink Reply by LaMonet on May 29, 2012 at 8:22pm

Yes, he might be getting his head boosted up right now, but if you want to keep him as an associate that's fine, but don't ever  feel like you have to force yourself to start up conversation with this guy.

Especially being young, don't EVER worry yourself about a guy who just tried to put limits on you.I mean damn does he at least ask you questions? Any implications of him trying to get to know you as a person.

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Permalink Reply by Maria on May 29, 2012 at 9:05pm

I mean, does he seem interested? Ask you questions about yourself? You haven't met him yet so does he ask you to Skype? 

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Permalink Reply by livelife25 on May 29, 2012 at 10:57pm

Okay not even being funny, but how are you for sure that dude is who he says he is?  Yes that Twitter account may have a "verified" check, but the person who reached out to you may not be that baller himself.  I say this having hung with a baller who would let his friends update his statuses all the time. This is how I learned what "Twitter" was.  The fact that he won't verbally converse with you is a bit suspect....Have you heard him talk before, say, in interviews?  Would you be able to tell what his voice should sound like if you speak over the phone?  As for the "reeling him in" aspect, I'll be totally honest and say I have no tips at this point because you haven't met him. Now if you came with a "we met and this was the vibe" story then I might be able to offer something a bit more specific.  I can't advise for a (to this point) ghost.  I do wish you the best though.

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Permalink Reply by Goldie F***'n Fish on May 29, 2012 at 11:08pm

... Girl he is trying to f*** and he doesn't respect you enough to be concerned with your emotions. Clearly, if you go,  you will only be f******. 

let him go.

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Permalink Reply by Moving In Silence on May 29, 2012 at 11:25pm

How about just ship out. You said you had other options. Go with them.

Pretty face said:

THANKS LADIES!! I'm def taking your advice!! It's either shape up or ship out

Label et Fringe said:

... Girl he is trying to f*** and he doesn't respect you enough to be concerned with your emotions. Clearly, if you go,  you will only be f******. 

let him go.

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Permalink Reply by MissMidwest on May 29, 2012 at 11:58pm

I don't mean to sound bitchy here, but I'm a straight shooter so let me ask you why you're sweating a dude so hard that you only met a week ago?! You've mad 2 posts about him in the past 24 hours....Where did you meet him? Did you even meet him in person or did he holler via twitter and you took the bait and tossed him your number with a smiley face the minute he asked for it? You said yourself that you two only met a week ago and you haven't had many conversations with him so what would make you want to go visit his hometown besides the fact that he's an athlete....honestly?! To be real with you, considering the circumstances and how little you two know each other, you thinking about going to see him without even knowing him looks very thirsty and starstruck that he even DMed you in the first place.  

Pretty face said:

We literally just met a week ago, haven't really had many conversations but nothing really engaging as far as him Tryna get to know me. He texted last night and asked me to come see him, I told him I would let him know if I can make time!! You think I should go?

LaMonet said:

Yes, he might be getting his head boosted up right now, but if you want to keep him as an associate that's fine, but don't ever  feel like you have to force yourself to start up conversation with this guy.

Especially being young, don't EVER worry yourself about a guy who just tried to put limits on you.I mean damn does he at least ask you questions? Any implications of him trying to get to know you as a person.

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Permalink Reply by MissMidwest on May 30, 2012 at 12:04am

And what are you doing wanting to see a guy who has only limited you to text messaging? You haven't FaceTimed or Skyped with him to converse with him, get a feel for what his personality is like, and see him in real time!! Think about this situation with the roles reversed; a man would NEVER consider flying to meet a woman he met via twitter a week ago who has only texted him because he would think it's fishy as f*** that she won't call him, skype him, or get to know him but she's asking him to come see her! Think about it. 

MissMidwest said:

I don't mean to sound bitchy here, but I'm a straight shooter so let me ask you why you're sweating a dude so hard that you only met a week ago?! You've mad 2 posts about him in the past 24 hours....Where did you meet him? Did you even meet him in person or did he holler via twitter and you took the bait and tossed him your number with a smiley face the minute he asked for it? You said yourself that you two only met a week ago and you haven't had many conversations with him so what would make you want to go visit his hometown besides the fact that he's an athlete....honestly?! To be real with you, considering the circumstances and how little you two know each other, you thinking about going to see him without even knowing him looks very thirsty and starstruck that he even DMed you in the first place.  

Pretty face said:

We literally just met a week ago, haven't really had many conversations but nothing really engaging as far as him Tryna get to know me. He texted last night and asked me to come see him, I told him I would let him know if I can make time!! You think I should go?

LaMonet said:

Yes, he might be getting his head boosted up right now, but if you want to keep him as an associate that's fine, but don't ever  feel like you have to force yourself to start up conversation with this guy.

Especially being young, don't EVER worry yourself about a guy who just tried to put limits on you.I mean damn does he at least ask you questions? Any implications of him trying to get to know you as a person.

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Permalink Reply by Bonita on May 30, 2012 at 12:15am

What she said! I have nothing to add well just a little. Unless its a miracle a baller flying you out under this circumstances is for a straight booty call nothing more so its really about what you are looking for. Now that he can't even call you how will you confirm that the airfare, hotel etc will be paid for. Hell did he even ask you your interest to plan activities for your trip?

MissMidwest said:

And what are you doing wanting to see a guy who has only limited you to text messaging? You haven't FaceTimed or Skyped with him to converse with him, get a feel for what his personality is like, and see him in real time!! Think about this situation with the roles reversed; a man would NEVER consider flying to meet a woman he met via twitter a week ago who has only texted him because he would think it's fishy as f*** that she won't call him, skype him, or get to know him but she's asking him to come see her! Think about it. 
MissMidwest said:

I don't mean to sound bitchy here, but I'm a straight shooter so let me ask you why you're sweating a dude so hard that you only met a week ago?! You've mad 2 posts about him in the past 24 hours....Where did you meet him? Did you even meet him in person or did he holler via twitter and you took the bait and tossed him your number with a smiley face the minute he asked for it? You said yourself that you two only met a week ago and you haven't had many conversations with him so what would make you want to go visit his hometown besides the fact that he's an athlete....honestly?! To be real with you, considering the circumstances and how little you two know each other, you thinking about going to see him without even knowing him looks very thirsty and starstruck that he even DMed you in the first place.  
Pretty face said:

We literally just met a week ago, haven't really had many conversations but nothing really engaging as far as him Tryna get to know me. He texted last night and asked me to come see him, I told him I would let him know if I can make time!! You think I should go?
LaMonet said:

Yes, he might be getting his head boosted up right now, but if you want to keep him as an associate that's fine, but don't ever  feel like you have to force yourself to start up conversation with this guy.

Especially being young, don't EVER worry yourself about a guy who just tried to put limits on you.I mean damn does he at least ask you questions? Any implications of him trying to get to know you as a person.

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