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Permalink Reply by Baller Alert on August 22, 2012 at 12:32pm

It's a double standard...but let me think and come back.

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Permalink Reply by Mac Maine on August 22, 2012 at 12:37pm

Any man that f**** another man in the ass is gay... point blank period! (a man's opinion)

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on August 22, 2012 at 12:41pm

Always use a condom. That's the best advice I could give you. I don't care what test results he BRINGS you ALWAYS USE A CONDOM! Unless he goes with you to YOUR DOCTOR every six months to get tested ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!

Good luck because if you're thinking about it and he's breaking you off then you two will more than likely end up hitting it. Just be safe about it. ALWAYS.

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Permalink Reply by groupiesneedlove on August 22, 2012 at 12:42pm

I f***** another female before and I'm not gay. I experimented and that was that. So why is he gay because he did the same as me? Like Baller Alert said it's a double standard. 

Mac Maine said:

Any man that f**** another man in the ass is gay... point blank period! (a man's opinion)

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Permalink Reply by groupiesneedlove on August 22, 2012 at 12:43pm

That goes without being said

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Always use a condom. That's the best advice I could give you. I don't care what test results he BRINGS you ALWAYS USE A CONDOM! Unless he goes with you to YOUR DOCTOR every six months to get tested ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!

Good luck because if you're thinking about it and he's breaking you off then you two will more than likely end up hitting it. Just be safe about it. ALWAYS.

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Permalink Reply by Mac Maine on August 22, 2012 at 12:44pm

Them condom's not 100%... dont even play with your life like that! Its plenty of str8 n*ggas with money!

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Always use a condom. That's the best advice I could give you. I don't care what test results he BRINGS you ALWAYS USE A CONDOM! Unless he goes with you to YOUR DOCTOR every six months to get tested ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!

Good luck because if you're thinking about it and he's breaking you off then you two will more than likely end up hitting it. Just be safe about it. ALWAYS.

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Permalink Reply by Mac Maine on August 22, 2012 at 12:49pm

Right, its a double standard... its not fair but its the truth! Once a dude cross that line aint no coming back from it!

groupiesneedlove said:

I f***** another female before and I'm not gay. I experimented and that was that. So why is he gay because he did the same as me? Like Baller Alert said it's a double standard. 

Mac Maine said:

Any man that f**** another man in the ass is gay... point blank period! (a man's opinion)

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on August 22, 2012 at 12:50pm

Men are promiscuous by nature and IMO he has the 'potential' to go back. It's one of those things you do in the heat of the moment and I can see him jumping at the chance if in the right environment or peer group is around.

Women are easier to accept because there is no 'inserting' going on.  With men however, the possibility /risk of 'catching' something is higher for men than it is for women.

SN: I'm still on the fence about him not sucking or receiving. If so he'll always wonder what he missed out on leaving the door open for him to 'finish' some day. He's honest which is refreshing, but b4 u go raw, get him tested and 'read the results'.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on August 22, 2012 at 12:55pm

I believe you. When I talk to gay men who were straight b4 they said once they 'got a taste' they couldn't go back.

This one dude went to prison and got turned out, when he got out and was with his GF all he could think of was being with a man. He said he missed it. yikes!

Mac Maine said:

Right, its a double standard... its not fair but its the truth! Once a dude cross that line aint no coming back from it!

groupiesneedlove said:

I f***** another female before and I'm not gay. I experimented and that was that. So why is he gay because he did the same as me? Like Baller Alert said it's a double standard. 

Mac Maine said:

Any man that f**** another man in the ass is gay... point blank period! (a man's opinion)

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Permalink Reply by Slim G on August 22, 2012 at 12:56pm

In my opinion, It depends on your personal preference and what you can handle. I don't think you should be worried but you should get to the root of the problem.

Did you ask him if he enjoyed it or if he was just experimenting?

Did he say he was attracted to certain things about a man or he just wanted some a****** and head to see what it was like?

This is a very delicate subject NOW you did mention he has had not anal stimulation but that does not mean he is not thinking about it, he had sex with a man for goodness sakes. So..... I say beat him to the punch if you like anal...let him have anal sex with you, even stimulate his sometimes (Be careful tho he may like it a lil too much)....

Like I said it depends on what you can handle. But you must first Identify what caused him to do this and the circumstances. If he say he likes dudes then, he's a lost cause for you, unless that's your thing.  But I hope this advice helps to cope with the situation a little bit..

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Permalink Reply by Baller Alert on August 22, 2012 at 12:58pm

This happens with over 50% of men who go to jail... my friend pointed out a guy to me that was in jail that was messing with the boys. He was in the club talking to all the girls. My gay bff went to jail for five years and told me stories of what use to go on in the feds.

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

I believe you. When I talk to gay men who were straight b4 they said once they 'got a taste' they couldn't go back.

This one dude went to prison and got turned out, when he got out and was with his GF all he could think of was being with a man. He said he missed it. yikes!

Mac Maine said:

Right, its a double standard... its not fair but its the truth! Once a dude cross that line aint no coming back from it!

groupiesneedlove said:

I f***** another female before and I'm not gay. I experimented and that was that. So why is he gay because he did the same as me? Like Baller Alert said it's a double standard. 

Mac Maine said:

Any man that f**** another man in the ass is gay... point blank period! (a man's opinion)

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on August 22, 2012 at 1:05pm

They say the booty h*** is tighter than the puss. I said 'duh' and they said u won't understand. Their g spot is in there. lol

Baller Alert said:

This happens with over 50% of men who go to jail... my friend pointed out a guy to me that was in jail that was messing with the boys. He was in the club talking to all the girls. My gay bff went to jail for five years and told me stories of what use to go on in the feds.

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

I believe you. When I talk to gay men who were straight b4 they said once they 'got a taste' they couldn't go back.

This one dude went to prison and got turned out, when he got out and was with his GF all he could think of was being with a man. He said he missed it. yikes!

Mac Maine said:

Right, its a double standard... its not fair but its the truth! Once a dude cross that line aint no coming back from it!

groupiesneedlove said:

I f***** another female before and I'm not gay. I experimented and that was that. So why is he gay because he did the same as me? Like Baller Alert said it's a double standard. 

Mac Maine said:

Any man that f**** another man in the ass is gay... point blank period! (a man's opinion)

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