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Permalink Reply by Baller Alert on August 22, 2012 at 2:03pm

Because of this way of thinking men will not be as honest as groupiesneedlove's man... the question is do we want this type of honesty or not? I think I would be disgusted at the thought if my man told me... but on the other hand I would want to know. It's a crazy world we live in...

Meanwhile back on the ranch girls are "playing dyke" like it's cute... and men applaud them for it.

Slim G said:

LMAO @Boss!! The naked truth, and fortunately for groupiesneedlove her guy has been truthful with her and allowed her to make the decision if she want's to deal or not..

Baller Alert said:

Nine times out of 10 you probably already have...

MissMidwest said:

I would never be with a guy who's hooked up with a guy.

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on August 22, 2012 at 2:09pm

Oh I wouldn't even fugg with this dude. I tried searching but I couldn't find the post from a few months back from the BA fam whose dude started off confessing he had slept with ONE DUDE because he needed money. Then the dude count slowly started going up.

In my opinion he's just feeling her out to see if he can be his bi-sexual self with her. That's my opinion. And I wouldn't fugg with him point blank. But it ain't my vajajay. It is hers, just telling her to lower her risk if she does fugg with him. There are things I will do for money and things I won't. A bisexual dude is not one of those things. There is no amount of money that can cure AIDS.

Mac Maine said:

Them condom's not 100%... dont even play with your life like that! Its plenty of str8 n*ggas with money!

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Always use a condom. That's the best advice I could give you. I don't care what test results he BRINGS you ALWAYS USE A CONDOM! Unless he goes with you to YOUR DOCTOR every six months to get tested ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!

Good luck because if you're thinking about it and he's breaking you off then you two will more than likely end up hitting it. Just be safe about it. ALWAYS.

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Permalink Reply by DdoubleD on August 22, 2012 at 2:10pm

I think it is good he told her so she can decide to be with him or not.  Like yall said so many men wouldnt have said anything. 

Baller Alert said:

Because of this way of thinking men will not be as honest as groupiesneedlove's man... the question is do we want this type of honesty or not? I think I would be disgusted at the thought if my man told me... but on the other hand I would want to know. It's a crazy world we live in...

Meanwhile back on the ranch girls are "playing dyke" like it's cute... and men applaud them for it.
Slim G said:

LMAO @Boss!! The naked truth, and fortunately for groupiesneedlove her guy has been truthful with her and allowed her to make the decision if she want's to deal or not..

Baller Alert said:

Nine times out of 10 you probably already have...

MissMidwest said:

I would never be with a guy who's hooked up with a guy.

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Permalink Reply by DdoubleD on August 22, 2012 at 2:12pm

This is just too real!!!!!

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Oh I wouldn't even fugg with this dude. I tried searching but I couldn't find the post from a few months back from the BA fam whose dude started off confessing he had slept with ONE DUDE because he needed money. Then the dude count slowly started going up.

In my opinion he's just feeling her out to see if he can be his bi-sexual self with her. That's my opinion. And I wouldn't fugg with him point blank. But it ain't my vajajay. It is hers, just telling her to lower her risk if she does fugg with him. There are things I will do for money and things I won't. A bisexual dude is not one of those things. There is no amount of money that can cure AIDS.
Mac Maine said:

Them condom's not 100%... dont even play with your life like that! Its plenty of str8 n*ggas with money!
CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Always use a condom. That's the best advice I could give you. I don't care what test results he BRINGS you ALWAYS USE A CONDOM! Unless he goes with you to YOUR DOCTOR every six months to get tested ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!

Good luck because if you're thinking about it and he's breaking you off then you two will more than likely end up hitting it. Just be safe about it. ALWAYS.

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on August 22, 2012 at 2:13pm

But Boss doesn't that just go to men's preferences? I prefer a heterosexual man. I know of a chick who says she'd love to be in a relationship with a bisexual man. So there are women out there for them. I definitely want the honesty so I can tell him thanks but no thanks. Let's just be friends. To me any man who would lie to me about his sexual preference knowing how I feel, and I make it pretty damn clear, is a selfish bastid who deserves what will happen to him when I find out the truth. *shrug* Just because men don't have a problem with bi-sexual women doesn't mean that women have to jump on board and be happy with a bi-sexual man.

Baller Alert said:

Because of this way of thinking men will not be as honest as groupiesneedlove's man... the question is do we want this type of honesty or not? I think I would be disgusted at the thought if my man told me... but on the other hand I would want to know. It's a crazy world we live in...

Meanwhile back on the ranch girls are "playing dyke" like it's cute... and men applaud them for it.

Slim G said:

LMAO @Boss!! The naked truth, and fortunately for groupiesneedlove her guy has been truthful with her and allowed her to make the decision if she want's to deal or not..

Baller Alert said:

Nine times out of 10 you probably already have...

MissMidwest said:

I would never be with a guy who's hooked up with a guy.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on August 22, 2012 at 2:21pm

um, free spirit and experimented should not be used in the same sentence.

groupiesneedlove said:

He said he just experimented he is a free spirit but he will never do it again 

Slim G said:

In my opinion, It depends on your personal preference and what you can handle. I don't think you should be worried but you should get to the root of the problem.

Did you ask him if he enjoyed it or if he was just experimenting?

Did he say he was attracted to certain things about a man or he just wanted some a****** and head to see what it was like?

This is a very delicate subject NOW you did mention he has had not anal stimulation but that does not mean he is not thinking about it, he had sex with a man for goodness sakes. So..... I say beat him to the punch if you like anal...let him have anal sex with you, even stimulate his sometimes (Be careful tho he may like it a lil too much)....

Like I said it depends on what you can handle. But you must first Identify what caused him to do this and the circumstances. If he say he likes dudes then, he's a lost cause for you, unless that's your thing.  But I hope this advice helps to cope with the situation a little bit..

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on August 22, 2012 at 2:21pm

Why would he need to go to a man for anal and head when he could have just got it from a woman? dude is gay and you are buying his story

groupiesneedlove said:

It's a lot of men that wouldn't be this honest I guess some of you would rather be in the dark then know which is sad 

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on August 22, 2012 at 2:26pm

He wanted to 'experiment'. Some men say head from a man is better, their jaws are stronger and they don't get tired as quickly as a woman. You need some gay friends lol

Tone said:

Why would he need to go to a man for anal and head when he could have just got it from a woman? dude is gay and you are buying his story

groupiesneedlove said:

It's a lot of men that wouldn't be this honest I guess some of you would rather be in the dark then know which is sad 

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Permalink Reply by luvsmoochez on August 22, 2012 at 2:28pm

LMFAOOOO
 
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

um, free spirit and experimented should not be used in the same sentence.

groupiesneedlove said:

He said he just experimented he is a free spirit but he will never do it again 

Slim G said:

In my opinion, It depends on your personal preference and what you can handle. I don't think you should be worried but you should get to the root of the problem.

Did you ask him if he enjoyed it or if he was just experimenting?

Did he say he was attracted to certain things about a man or he just wanted some a****** and head to see what it was like?

This is a very delicate subject NOW you did mention he has had not anal stimulation but that does not mean he is not thinking about it, he had sex with a man for goodness sakes. So..... I say beat him to the punch if you like anal...let him have anal sex with you, even stimulate his sometimes (Be careful tho he may like it a lil too much)....

Like I said it depends on what you can handle. But you must first Identify what caused him to do this and the circumstances. If he say he likes dudes then, he's a lost cause for you, unless that's your thing.  But I hope this advice helps to cope with the situation a little bit..

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Permalink Reply by Slim G on August 22, 2012 at 2:33pm

+1 That's an interesting perspective CCD, I didn't even think of it like that!

DdoubleD said:

This is just too real!!!!!
CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Oh I wouldn't even fugg with this dude. I tried searching but I couldn't find the post from a few months back from the BA fam whose dude started off confessing he had slept with ONE DUDE because he needed money. Then the dude count slowly started going up.

In my opinion he's just feeling her out to see if he can be his bi-sexual self with her. That's my opinion. And I wouldn't fugg with him point blank. But it ain't my vajajay. It is hers, just telling her to lower her risk if she does fugg with him. There are things I will do for money and things I won't. A bisexual dude is not one of those things. There is no amount of money that can cure AIDS. Mac Maine said:

Them condom's not 100%... dont even play with your life like that! Its plenty of str8 n*ggas with money! CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Always use a condom. That's the best advice I could give you. I don't care what test results he BRINGS you ALWAYS USE A CONDOM! Unless he goes with you to YOUR DOCTOR every six months to get tested ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!

Good luck because if you're thinking about it and he's breaking you off then you two will more than likely end up hitting it. Just be safe about it. ALWAYS.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on August 22, 2012 at 2:40pm

 Any man that has gotten head from another man never liked women.

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

He wanted to 'experiment'. Some men say head from a man is better, their jaws are stronger and they don't get tired as quickly as a woman. You need some gay friends lol

Tone said:

Why would he need to go to a man for anal and head when he could have just got it from a woman? dude is gay and you are buying his story

groupiesneedlove said:

It's a lot of men that wouldn't be this honest I guess some of you would rather be in the dark then know which is sad 

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Permalink Reply by ReadytoSettleDown on August 22, 2012 at 3:02pm

ccd is right, he's bisexual. i only say that because anal sex is a lot to deal with. it's uncomfortable for both parties from jump!!! so you have to enjoy it to do it and on top of that he let another man suck his d***. man to man sexual contact is an extreme "experiment". if he only did it once, i can't see him even saying anything about it. yes, he was honest but think about it, why be so honest with someone you haven't had sex with? and he's a baller? doesn't add up. it's up to you if you want to hang around. but if he's a baller, just know you'll have to be worried about him creepin with gay male groupies as well as female groupies. if you're still talking to him as of now, you're seriously thinking about going there with him. and if you do use a condom. the double standard is there, it is what it is. do what you feel.

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