I have experimented with another female before. I found her attractive, we kissed, we had sex, it was good, and that was the end. I have not done it since then. Now for what I am here for. I recently started talking to this guy in the entertainment industry. He is cute, paid, and brutally honest. He told me that he was curious and he had sex with a man. He told me that he f***** the man that man didn't f*** him. He told me the man sucked his d*** but he didn't suck the man d***. He told that it was cool but he will never do it again. Should I be worried? I did the same thing as him but I am feeling uneasy about this. Why should I though we did the same exact thing. I'm glad he told me but I will always wonder if he will ever go back. 

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Am curious how long did u know him before he revealed that to you? I don't know too many guys who will reveal this to every chick they are with coz it will get around unless he is still doing it or plans on doing it down the line. That way he can say "hey babe I did tell you when we met"

Stop listening to everything a gay man tells you. Over 50% of men that go to jail are not gay maybe 10 or 15%  and that is overstating it


Baller Alert said:

This happens with over 50% of men who go to jail... my friend pointed out a guy to me that was in jail that was messing with the boys. He was in the club talking to all the girls. My gay bff went to jail for five years and told me stories of what use to go on in the feds.

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

I believe you. When I talk to gay men who were straight b4 they said once they 'got a taste' they couldn't go back.

This one dude went to prison and got turned out, when he got out and was with his GF all he could think of was being with a man. He said he missed it. yikes!

Mac Maine said:

Right, its a double standard... its not fair but its the truth! Once a dude cross that line aint no coming back from it!

groupiesneedlove said:

I f***** another female before and I'm not gay. I experimented and that was that. So why is he gay because he did the same as me? Like Baller Alert said it's a double standard. 

Mac Maine said:

Any man that f**** another man in the ass is gay... point blank period! (a man's opinion)

We know that, they go in straight and come out bent,  but some do get turned out hahaha

Who remembers this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cJ-TVhKO7Vc

Tone said:

Stop listening to everything a gay man tells you. Over 50% of men that go to jail are not gay maybe 10 or 15%  and that is overstating it


Baller Alert said:

This happens with over 50% of men who go to jail... my friend pointed out a guy to me that was in jail that was messing with the boys. He was in the club talking to all the girls. My gay bff went to jail for five years and told me stories of what use to go on in the feds.

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

I believe you. When I talk to gay men who were straight b4 they said once they 'got a taste' they couldn't go back.

This one dude went to prison and got turned out, when he got out and was with his GF all he could think of was being with a man. He said he missed it. yikes!

Mac Maine said:

Right, its a double standard... its not fair but its the truth! Once a dude cross that line aint no coming back from it!

groupiesneedlove said:

I f***** another female before and I'm not gay. I experimented and that was that. So why is he gay because he did the same as me? Like Baller Alert said it's a double standard. 

Mac Maine said:

Any man that f**** another man in the ass is gay... point blank period! (a man's opinion)

lmfao booty swiper


OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

We know that, they go in straight and come out bent,  but some do get turned out hahaha

Who remembers this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cJ-TVhKO7Vc

Tone said:

Stop listening to everything a gay man tells you. Over 50% of men that go to jail are not gay maybe 10 or 15%  and that is overstating it


Baller Alert said:

This happens with over 50% of men who go to jail... my friend pointed out a guy to me that was in jail that was messing with the boys. He was in the club talking to all the girls. My gay bff went to jail for five years and told me stories of what use to go on in the feds.

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

I believe you. When I talk to gay men who were straight b4 they said once they 'got a taste' they couldn't go back.

This one dude went to prison and got turned out, when he got out and was with his GF all he could think of was being with a man. He said he missed it. yikes!

Mac Maine said:

Right, its a double standard... its not fair but its the truth! Once a dude cross that line aint no coming back from it!

groupiesneedlove said:

I f***** another female before and I'm not gay. I experimented and that was that. So why is he gay because he did the same as me? Like Baller Alert said it's a double standard. 

Mac Maine said:

Any man that f**** another man in the ass is gay... point blank period! (a man's opinion)

Im unsure if you're talking to me, because I didnt ask anything.  I personally dont give a s*** what another woman does. 
 
ReadytoSettleDown said:

ohhh, so you have slept with him. so why even ask? are you worried about something?

DdoubleD said:

Okay, so go be with him or continue messing around with him.  You asked for opinions and we gave it to you. You have nothing to prove to us. Do you and enjoy it! : )

groupiesneedlove said:

I never said we didn't f***. We did f*** and it was amazing. And I experimented with a chic and I'm over it now so who is to say he feels the same way. He has money he is in the entertainment industry but he is not a star to have male or female groupies. 
ReadytoSettleDown said:

ccd is right, he's bisexual. i only say that because anal sex is a lot to deal with. it's uncomfortable for both parties from jump!!! so you have to enjoy it to do it and on top of that he let another man suck his d***. man to man sexual contact is an extreme "experiment". if he only did it once, i can't see him even saying anything about it. yes, he was honest but think about it, why be so honest with someone you haven't had sex with? and he's a baller? doesn't add up. it's up to you if you want to hang around. but if he's a baller, just know you'll have to be worried about him creepin with gay male groupies as well as female groupies. if you're still talking to him as of now, you're seriously thinking about going there with him. and if you do use a condom. the double standard is there, it is what it is. do what you feel.

I agree with CC........word for word.

@ TONE: THANK YOU

Tone said:

Why would he need to go to a man for anal and head when he could have just got it from a woman? dude is gay and you are buying his story

groupiesneedlove said:

It's a lot of men that wouldn't be this honest I guess some of you would rather be in the dark then know which is sad 

Some of you ladies are missing the big picture... As a straight man, your d*** should never get hard or get turned on by another man... period! The fact that this dude d*** even got hard, in my book, he is Gay and aint no changing that.

Like @Tone said... you can get anal and head from a woman!

^^^^ this is the bottom line!

This is not a gay man it's my gay friend who has no reason to lie to me... Tone you are so clueless.

Tone said:

Stop listening to everything a gay man tells you. Over 50% of men that go to jail are not gay maybe 10 or 15%  and that is overstating it


Baller Alert said:

This happens with over 50% of men who go to jail... my friend pointed out a guy to me that was in jail that was messing with the boys. He was in the club talking to all the girls. My gay bff went to jail for five years and told me stories of what use to go on in the feds.

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

I believe you. When I talk to gay men who were straight b4 they said once they 'got a taste' they couldn't go back.

This one dude went to prison and got turned out, when he got out and was with his GF all he could think of was being with a man. He said he missed it. yikes!

Mac Maine said:

Right, its a double standard... its not fair but its the truth! Once a dude cross that line aint no coming back from it!

groupiesneedlove said:

I f***** another female before and I'm not gay. I experimented and that was that. So why is he gay because he did the same as me? Like Baller Alert said it's a double standard. 

Mac Maine said:

Any man that f**** another man in the ass is gay... point blank period! (a man's opinion)

Welp! Nothing else to add.

Mac Maine said:

Some of you ladies are missing the big picture... As a straight man, your d*** should never get hard or get turned on by another man... period! The fact that this dude d*** even got hard, in my book, he is Gay and aint no changing that.

Like @Tone said... you can get anal and head from a woman!

sadly it DOES have to be said, because a LOT of people are not doing it.

groupiesneedlove said:

That goes without being said

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Always use a condom. That's the best advice I could give you. I don't care what test results he BRINGS you ALWAYS USE A CONDOM! Unless he goes with you to YOUR DOCTOR every six months to get tested ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!

Good luck because if you're thinking about it and he's breaking you off then you two will more than likely end up hitting it. Just be safe about it. ALWAYS.

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