Dating/hanging out with someone from another region

You often here women from down south having a thing for 'up north' dudes or vice versa.   Anyone ever date someone from another region?  Pros n cons of doing so......

I believe most know I'm dating a woman from the south...and I dunno if it was her upbringing or what but the difference is WAYYYYYYYY DIFFERENT from what I was used to in chicago.

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what part of the south was you living
Love is a Losing Game said:


I CAN"T STAND these midwest dudes! I think there is nothing better than a southern man. I went sout at 19, and came back at 29, so I feel like I "grew up there." O became a woman there, and I can def say that southern men are so sweet kind and commitment ready as opposed to these midwest men. I dont like their attitudes, lack of ambition and just "hood-dwelling" mentality. There are a bunch of them that are not in that category, but I still don't like their "make-up." They are not "country" by far.

blackfujones said:

if u mean midwest then i dunno...not as country as folks think.lol
Ms. BoiBye said:

LOL I hate DC dudes. They are stuck up, arrogant, and want someone to take care of them. I think it is because of all the hoodboogers in this area don't have no standards and will take a piece of a man or someone elses man instead of demanding quality. And the guys here have some many options (quantity). Most of the women here have good jobs, are extremely attractive and don't want better. So I am looking for a guy from the mid west. LOL, I just want a country boy with a sexy accent and not with the hustle and bustle of city life. I also want someone who likes to outdoors, knows how to fix a car and use his hands.

I agree Southern guys are lazy and insist on commitment way too early. Love my NY/NJ guys while they are aggresive know what they want and play less games it is what it is with them.

I will expand and say since I am from nj via africa I find it easier to date white or hispanic guys reason being they are more open to my culture and say less ignorant stuff about africa. of course ubber educated black guys are fine but in nj its like they all know each other so once you date 1 or 2 you have to stop.

I think it depends on the man... I'm from the south and I know go getters, hustlers, professional baby daddies & shiftless ass good for nothing's... I also know dudes from Cali, NY, Jersey, and Ohio that fit into those groups... 
How are southern guys lazy.  

Bonita said:

I agree Southern guys are lazy and insist on commitment way too early. Love my NY/NJ guys while they are aggresive know what they want and play less games it is what it is with them.

I will expand and say since I am from nj via africa I find it easier to date white or hispanic guys reason being they are more open to my culture and say less ignorant stuff about africa. of course ubber educated black guys are fine but in nj its like they all know each other so once you date 1 or 2 you have to stop.

Lol man I've talked to people from all over the place...my MLB baller is Dominican & his accent is so thick & he talks so damn fast I can barely understand his ass so I just smile and nod my head lol. I also have a Nigerian baller but he's so Americanized because he came over here on bball scholarships and s*** that you would never know he was Nigerian by how he talks/looks/behaves. I love guys from NY--they have a way about them and a swag so specific I can always tell when a man's from NY...idk I like how they talk :)  

sometimes i find white women are only attracted to me bc of the crowd I hang around, or because I looked mixed (and I have no f***** clue what I'm mixed with). 

Bonita said:

I agree Southern guys are lazy and insist on commitment way too early. Love my NY/NJ guys while they are aggresive know what they want and play less games it is what it is with them.

I will expand and say since I am from nj via africa I find it easier to date white or hispanic guys reason being they are more open to my culture and say less ignorant stuff about africa. of course ubber educated black guys are fine but in nj its like they all know each other so once you date 1 or 2 you have to stop.

On the "mixed" thing, I think it depends on whose looking at you... I've had white folk ask in I'm half them, and Hispanic people always ask if I'm Dominican...  I don't look mixed at sll

blackfujones said:

sometimes i find white women are only attracted to me bc of the crowd I hang around, or because I looked mixed (and I have no f***** clue what I'm mixed with). 

Bonita said:

I agree Southern guys are lazy and insist on commitment way too early. Love my NY/NJ guys while they are aggresive know what they want and play less games it is what it is with them.

I will expand and say since I am from nj via africa I find it easier to date white or hispanic guys reason being they are more open to my culture and say less ignorant stuff about africa. of course ubber educated black guys are fine but in nj its like they all know each other so once you date 1 or 2 you have to stop.

oh no u didn't BFU! When I said midwest, I was including Chicago! Those men are some of the most disrespectful, conniving, "getting overest," sneaky AND disrespectful guys on the planet. Well outside of you, cuz *wink* lol

blackfujones said:

well gooooddddamn lol..stamps aye lol what my cousins from downsouth have said is that the women in chicago are way more "sassy" than women downsouth...which is TRUE AS HELL. Women here will talk s*** n tell you to shut the hell up in a second.  Like literally 

Ms. BoiBye said:

idk BFJ. My cousins are from the South and most of them went into the military just to get away . They said they had nothing but trouble to get into. The rest of my cousins (girls and guys) are in jail because they found that trouble to get into. Don't think Southern boys are slow, but some of them are lazy. Some I know will sit back and wait for their wives to to do stuff. My one cuz told his girl to stop the pill and have another baby so they could get more stamps. SMDH!
 
blackfujones said:

and leave it to southern women to say southern men are to slow. theyre more likely to want to stay where they are rather than get up n go...its pros n cons to everything.

Love is a Losing Game said:


I CAN"T STAND these midwest dudes! I think there is nothing better than a southern man. I went sout at 19, and came back at 29, so I feel like I "grew up there." O became a woman there, and I can def say that southern men are so sweet kind and commitment ready as opposed to these midwest men. I dont like their attitudes, lack of ambition and just "hood-dwelling" mentality. There are a bunch of them that are not in that category, but I still don't like their "make-up." They are not "country" by far.

blackfujones said:

if u mean midwest then i dunno...not as country as folks think.lol
Ms. BoiBye said:

LOL I hate DC dudes. They are stuck up, arrogant, and want someone to take care of them. I think it is because of all the hoodboogers in this area don't have no standards and will take a piece of a man or someone elses man instead of demanding quality. And the guys here have some many options (quantity). Most of the women here have good jobs, are extremely attractive and don't want better. So I am looking for a guy from the mid west. LOL, I just want a country boy with a sexy accent and not with the hustle and bustle of city life. I also want someone who likes to outdoors, knows how to fix a car and use his hands.

i get it all the time..my hair changes colors during different seasons and i always get asked what are you..which irks me btw

JustMe said:

On the "mixed" thing, I think it depends on whose looking at you... I've had white folk ask in I'm half them, and Hispanic people always ask if I'm Dominican...  I don't look mixed at sll

blackfujones said:

sometimes i find white women are only attracted to me bc of the crowd I hang around, or because I looked mixed (and I have no f***** clue what I'm mixed with). 

Bonita said:

I agree Southern guys are lazy and insist on commitment way too early. Love my NY/NJ guys while they are aggresive know what they want and play less games it is what it is with them.

I will expand and say since I am from nj via africa I find it easier to date white or hispanic guys reason being they are more open to my culture and say less ignorant stuff about africa. of course ubber educated black guys are fine but in nj its like they all know each other so once you date 1 or 2 you have to stop.

o include me in that..i will get over on yo ass in a heartbeat..its just how we're raised here.

Love is a Losing Game said:

oh no u didn't BFU! When I said midwest, I was including Chicago! Those men are some of the most disrespectful, conniving, "getting overest," sneaky AND disrespectful guys on the planet. Well outside of you, cuz *wink* lol

blackfujones said:

well gooooddddamn lol..stamps aye lol what my cousins from downsouth have said is that the women in chicago are way more "sassy" than women downsouth...which is TRUE AS HELL. Women here will talk s*** n tell you to shut the hell up in a second.  Like literally 

Ms. BoiBye said:

idk BFJ. My cousins are from the South and most of them went into the military just to get away . They said they had nothing but trouble to get into. The rest of my cousins (girls and guys) are in jail because they found that trouble to get into. Don't think Southern boys are slow, but some of them are lazy. Some I know will sit back and wait for their wives to to do stuff. My one cuz told his girl to stop the pill and have another baby so they could get more stamps. SMDH!
 
blackfujones said:

and leave it to southern women to say southern men are to slow. theyre more likely to want to stay where they are rather than get up n go...its pros n cons to everything.

Love is a Losing Game said:


I CAN"T STAND these midwest dudes! I think there is nothing better than a southern man. I went sout at 19, and came back at 29, so I feel like I "grew up there." O became a woman there, and I can def say that southern men are so sweet kind and commitment ready as opposed to these midwest men. I dont like their attitudes, lack of ambition and just "hood-dwelling" mentality. There are a bunch of them that are not in that category, but I still don't like their "make-up." They are not "country" by far.

blackfujones said:

if u mean midwest then i dunno...not as country as folks think.lol
Ms. BoiBye said:

LOL I hate DC dudes. They are stuck up, arrogant, and want someone to take care of them. I think it is because of all the hoodboogers in this area don't have no standards and will take a piece of a man or someone elses man instead of demanding quality. And the guys here have some many options (quantity). Most of the women here have good jobs, are extremely attractive and don't want better. So I am looking for a guy from the mid west. LOL, I just want a country boy with a sexy accent and not with the hustle and bustle of city life. I also want someone who likes to outdoors, knows how to fix a car and use his hands.

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