I was reading a few of my books to get some ideas on some blogs to write. I was skimming through my book HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and it had a chapter about Standards.

I believe that women's standards have most of these fools acting the way they do. Some women will accept just about anything. Some will play second fiddle..some with even live with a man and another woman. It's sad..

Anywho the book posted some "standard suggestions" more like affirmations. I'm going to forward these to a few friends.

Here are a few:

I will not go out with a man who hasn't asked me out first.

I will not go out with a man who keeps me waiting by the phone.

I will not date a man who isn't sure he wants to date me.

I will not date a man who makes me feel sexually undesirable.

I will not date a man who drinks or does drugs to an extent that makes me uncomfortable.

I will not be with a man who's afraid to talk about our future.

I will not, under any circumstances, spend my precious time with a man who has already rejected me.

I will not date a man who is married.

I will not be with a man who is not clearly a good, kind, loving person.

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I will not date a man who complains about the mother of his child (ren) or says negative things about his ex

I will not date a man who has a litter of kids

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i will not date a man who gets caught in his lies during the first conversation

i will not date a man who doesnt have standards

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I concur with all of those Boss!

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I have "He's Just Not that Into You" and some people made fun of me because they said it was a book for 'white people.' Sometimes when you see it so plain and simple, you wanna make excuses for how you didn't play yourself or get played.

I agree with all of these! I would add

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I will not date a man whose actions don't match his words.
I will not make a man a priority who does not make me one first.

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I will not date a man who is broke for no damn reason and then expects me to support his azz.

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Amen!

I will not date a man who I have any doubts about his sexuality.

Seductress said:
I will not date a man whose actions don't match his words.
I will not make a man a priority who does not make me one first.

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Amen@Devyn LOL

Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux said:
Amen!

I will not date a man who I have any doubts about his sexuality.

Seductress said:
I will not date a man whose actions don't match his words.
I will not make a man a priority who does not make me one first.

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I will not date a man that has his car in his baby momma name.

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I willnot date a man that does not respect his mother.

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I will not date a man that insists upon trying to set up a date with me via text message rather than a phone call.

I will not go out with a man that tries to make the location of our first date his house (or mine).

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So true fantasia's Ghost Reader: Men are getting carried away with all this texting. I text just like eveyone else, but that does not replace a good ole fashioned phone call. I need for a man to make an effort when it comes to dating.

Fantasia'sGhostReader said:
I will not date a man that insists upon trying to set up a date with me via text message rather than a phone call.

I will not go out with a man that tries to make the location of our first date his house (or mine).

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