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Permalink Reply by Goldie F***'n Fish on June 9, 2012 at 7:54pm

Umm I'm sorry, if I go to bar or a restaurant(anywhere upscale) it's very unlikely that the black man is with a black woman. The type of man I want to date hangs out at certain places, attends certain functions, partakes in certain activities and when I see a black man in that scenario, he is almost never with a black woman. 

You can never agree on anything we say ... lord.

Tone said:

That is a smaller % of black men. Most of us love black women. I find it crazy to say black men only love black women when it fashionable

Bonita said:

Tone you missed the point, most races are more consistent in loving their own but some black man will be quick not to like his own when his mother and sisters are black.

Tone said:

Please tell me how white men show black women more love then black men? Black women kill me with this because a few cacs ask you out that means they show more love then the 98% of black man that came before him.

Bonita said:

ditto! Thats why I hopped off the train of having a preference for only black men and now am an equal opportunity employer..lol

Eleven8 said:

I get approached a lot by white guys. Even guys from other countries. White men love black women. Latin men love black women. Black men sorta like us when it's fashionable.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on June 9, 2012 at 8:01pm

tsk tsk tsk now y'all heffas done gone and pi$$ tone off LMAO, #carryon

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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on June 9, 2012 at 8:11pm

Now a days most white men don't keep it a secret. Most of the whities I know love all races I know.

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Permalink Reply by DB on June 9, 2012 at 8:35pm

FACT. Whenever I venture out to more upscale surroundings that cater to all races, not just the "urban" scene, the black men are usually with something very far away from black... They will stare the hell out of the side of the only black girl in the room though so its not to say that they (black men) don't like black women, they probably just hang out in those "non urban" areas so their girl is a product of where they hang out. As for white chocolate liking black chocolate, I get approached and hit on ALL the time by white men and so does my darker skinned friend so nope, no shortage of vanilla love, f*** what the media wants you to believe.  

Goldie F***'n Fish said:

Umm I'm sorry, if I go to bar or a restaurant(anywhere upscale) it's very unlikely that the black man is with a black woman. The type of man I want to date hangs out at certain places, attends certain functions, partakes in certain activities and when I see a black man in that scenario, he is almost never with a black woman. 

You can never agree on anything we say ... lord.

Tone said:

That is a smaller % of black men. Most of us love black women. I find it crazy to say black men only love black women when it fashionable

Bonita said:

Tone you missed the point, most races are more consistent in loving their own but some black man will be quick not to like his own when his mother and sisters are black.

Tone said:

Please tell me how white men show black women more love then black men? Black women kill me with this because a few cacs ask you out that means they show more love then the 98% of black man that came before him.

Bonita said:

ditto! Thats why I hopped off the train of having a preference for only black men and now am an equal opportunity employer..lol

Eleven8 said:

I get approached a lot by white guys. Even guys from other countries. White men love black women. Latin men love black women. Black men sorta like us when it's fashionable.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on June 9, 2012 at 9:22pm

 If black women really feel that white men show them more love we have bigger issues then i thought.

Goldie F***'n Fish said:

Umm I'm sorry, if I go to bar or a restaurant(anywhere upscale) it's very unlikely that the black man is with a black woman. The type of man I want to date hangs out at certain places, attends certain functions, partakes in certain activities and when I see a black man in that scenario, he is almost never with a black woman. 

You can never agree on anything we say ... lord.

Tone said:

That is a smaller % of black men. Most of us love black women. I find it crazy to say black men only love black women when it fashionable

Bonita said:

Tone you missed the point, most races are more consistent in loving their own but some black man will be quick not to like his own when his mother and sisters are black.

Tone said:

Please tell me how white men show black women more love then black men? Black women kill me with this because a few cacs ask you out that means they show more love then the 98% of black man that came before him.

Bonita said:

ditto! Thats why I hopped off the train of having a preference for only black men and now am an equal opportunity employer..lol

Eleven8 said:

I get approached a lot by white guys. Even guys from other countries. White men love black women. Latin men love black women. Black men sorta like us when it's fashionable.

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Permalink Reply by AllyNWonderland on June 9, 2012 at 10:30pm

lmao the fact that I just said the same thing tho lls





Love is a Losing Game said:

oh not this again.

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Permalink Reply by Bad2theGristle on June 9, 2012 at 10:37pm

I ask because I do find some white men attractive but always feel put off! And kinda fear approaching them thinking that they'd b completely turned off ... Lol that's just me I guess

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Permalink Reply by Savoir Faire on June 9, 2012 at 10:45pm

It's no secret.

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Permalink Reply by MissMidwest on June 10, 2012 at 4:46am

 Don't feel put off girl! If any man, regardless of his color, will dismiss a woman solely based on her color, then he is ignorant, biased, and undeserving of her attention in the first place. But, as I said earlier, some men do have their preferences and they definitely can be racial, and physical as well; be it guys who only date big women, skinny women, tall women, or short women, etc. That's funny that you brought up how  you said you fear approaching white men because you think they'd be turned off though-because I was in a similar situation but it was with an athlete who's black (I'm white). He waited 2 years to make a move on me because he was afraid that I would've been turned off by him, which was not the case at all because he was tall, tatted and super fine! Lol it was an interesting situation to say the least; he was the the first guy I dated who wasn't white and I was the first girl he dated who wasn't black. He actually is one of those guys who has a strong preference too, he only dates black women, and to this day says I was the one and only exception lol. 

Bad2theGristle said:

I ask because I do find some white men attractive but always feel put off! And kinda fear approaching them thinking that they'd b completely turned off ... Lol that's just me I guess

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on June 10, 2012 at 9:29am

I haven't read the comments yet, but we ARE equally attracted as white women

OAN:  All men always look at me, but since i've been wearing my hair out (natural) I've gotten more and more comments from black and white men about how pretty I am.

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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on June 10, 2012 at 11:56am

I guess I want clarity on what we define as white men finding us as attractive. Are we asking do white men secretly want to fuc or do they secretly want a relationship, marry, have a family with a black woman, create a life with one. IMO im not impressed by any guy that just wants to fuc this. It's actually not cute. 

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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on June 10, 2012 at 1:05pm

boy i tell ya...the media fools us black folks day after day...they tell yall their are more blk men in prison than in college and you believe it. they tell you blk men on the dl are the cause of many women catching std's and thats false, then the tell you white men have more love for blk women than blk men and we believe it. When will the bs lies stop? maybe when we cut off the damn tv i guess

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